I got dumped, fired, and (almost) evicted within a span of three months

Ghost Utmost

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I know we OD talk shyt about gays on here, but me personally I don't have a problem with any human living their chosen life.

The Treh shyt gets spooky but because of deceitfulness and because of them trying to alter reality on some infinity stone shyt.

Snap. I am now a real woman..

Im doing this preamble because I don't think I ever read a poster being this real about being a gay black man. Didn't know we had anyone in that demo that posts here.

Here's the advice.

Things always work out.

For people who always work their things out.

There may be luck operating to help some, but you cannot depend on pure luck. You cannot think that you can be taken out by pure bad luck.

The thing you can control is your approach to life and your level of activity. Your tenacity. You desire to get where you're going.

No matter what.. IF YOU WANT TO BECOME POWERFUL AND RESILIANT.. you have to get up, get to work, climb up, push hard. Every day. Especially when you're down. Get BUSY. Wether looking for a job or looking for a partner. Wake up. Spent x number of hours on this. Then x number on that. Productive things.

Do not let how you FEEL stop you from DOING. Doing the necessary. Relentlessly.

Only then will your work manifest into your desired outcome.

Life has no purpose.

Which is the beauty of it.

Life has no purpose besides that which we assign it.

You get to choose your own adventure.
 

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Do you have anywhere to stay after getting evicted? That's most important. Hope your parents or someone similar is on your side. If you have the funds, take some time off to relax while you're out of work and single. Clear your head and itemize what's important to you.
I’m still at my place, they’re letting me do arrangements. I was able to land at my previous job but it’s only on-call w/ no set schedule. Breakups are tough, I know…but I feel like such an idiot and a punk for letting a nikka get my mind all twisted to the point where I got caught slipping at work.
 

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Why would you post this on the coli of all places
Because of the constant tranny threads.

This is a safe haven for LGBQT at this point.


But, he didn’t really need to point out his sexual orientation :manny: it was really unnecessary
 

TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?

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Kerkum been an openly gay coli member for years
I believe him

Just find another job..it doesn't have to pay the same
Also talk to a few lawyers to see if the firing was justified
Look for resources to help with everything else
It's 2023..you will bounce back
 

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Keep your head up fella. Plenty of job openings everywhere. Start applying and you’ll land something soon.

You got family that you can crash at until you get back on your feet financially?
 

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I’m still at my place, they’re letting me do arrangements. I was able to land at my previous job but it’s only on-call w/ no set schedule. Breakups are tough, I know…but I feel like such an idiot and a punk for letting a nikka get my mind all twisted to the point where I got caught slipping at work.

Sometimes you gotta take the cumulative L and that’s it. You can’t do shyt about someone you used to deal with and a silver lining in this is that the other stuff is shyt that can be solved with money.

Grind it out these next couple of months because having a roof over your head is the priority — even if you gotta live like a “bum” for a while. Use the time to do you and remember that some things like the Coli, bullshytting online, working out or even just taking a walk don’t cost a damn thing.

And if you truly have it in you, you can sell drugs for me and the Tejada organization
 

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I’m still at my place, they’re letting me do arrangements. I was able to land at my previous job but it’s only on-call w/ no set schedule. Breakups are tough, I know…but I feel like such an idiot and a punk for letting a nikka get my mind all twisted to the point where I got caught slipping at work.
Don't let that man beat you. Rise from that shyt. Do better without him than you did with him.
 
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