I got dumped, fired, and (almost) evicted within a span of three months

[ItsPeople]

Do you have go fund me set up?

All these words of encouragement meant jack shyt.

 

[Ghetto Denizen]

OP you can easily bounce back from all of these things. New job, New dude(pause), temporary housing(look up NACA).

And you should also seek therapy. Plenty of options and you can do it virtual.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Just find another job, find another boo and find out what happened to that money. Start writing checks so you have proof when the amount is cashed.

That's normal life shyt breh. Keep it pushing.

 

[Jaylen Tatum]

Uncalled for

 

[Stir Fry]

Just find another job, find another boo and find out what happened to that money. Start writing checks so you have proof when the amount is cashed.

That's normal life shyt breh. Keep it pushing.

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

You gay you'll be aight ..just tell em you gay and everything will fall into place for you

 

[Fill Collins]

I don't care if you're gay, I do care that you don't use paragraphs

 

[semicko82]

If you don't have a terminal illness or life in prison you can bounce back from anything. Those are the only two scenarios where your situation may look bleak.
The best advice I ever got when I was down and out was "you know what you got to do"

 

[bullygohard1]

Sometimes it gets worse before it gets better gay breh. Sometimes when god closes one door he opens another.

You truly ain't shyt lol

 

[bullygohard1]

Power bottom your way to the top, brehs...

And you either

 

[The Darkness]

So, my partner/boyfriend dumped me back in January. We were together for two years and he really blindsided me. He was very much into the scene and an extroverted person while I’m more withdrawn/introverted. Dumped me over a text, not even a “let’s have a talk” type courtesy. This in turn caused me to lose focus and make mistakes at work. I’m already black and gay, so the cacs and Mexicans at my job were already gunning for me. I was highest paid in my department. Made the mistake of wrecking the district van by cracking the taillight, backing into a pole. I stupidly didn’t report it, because I didn’t think I did damage until I made it back to central office. It was a hit and run and they let me go two days later. Just when I think shyt could get any worse, my landlord calls me saying she’s going to an attorney to start the process of eviction. Apparently, my last deposit into her account on the 1st of that month didn’t reach her account. Come to find out the bank lost the funds or put the money into a wrong account(?) and I didn’t retain the receipt when I went into the branch to make the deposit. I don’t bank with her bank, I just deposit my rent every month into her account. So now I’m down on a month of rent that should’ve been paid but she’s letting me make arrangements after I explained how precarious my situation is. My life is just spiraling and I’m hanging on by a thread. I know coli brehs are gonna neg me and call me a fakkit. So I guess that means I already lost. I just don’t see the point in continuing on living because I’m pretty much bad luck personified.

Sounds like you had some root work done on you.


Who did you offend??

 

[J.E.T.S]

When it rains it pours. We all go through it.

I remember when I didn’t have a car, job, anywhere to live. Imagine breaking into empty apartments/houses to sleep and shower, stealing food, sneaking in hotels to eat free breakfast, robbing people, walking around with all your personal belongings on your back….

It gets better.

 

[semicko82]

When it rains it pours. We all go through it.

I remember when I didn’t have a car, job, anywhere to live. Imagine breaking into empty apartments/houses to sleep and shower, stealing food, sneaking in hotels to eat free breakfast, robbing people, walking around with all your personal belongings on your back….

It gets better.

Yes sir I've been there before

 

[Uncouth Savage]

Lots of great advice.
As it can get better.
It can also get worse.
Figure out where you going wrong.
The ghost utmost poster gave great advice also.
I find it best to concentrate 24 hours a day on whatever you want to be successful at.
Waking up, going to sleep, eating lunch, you should be thinking of success and how to get there.
A relationship is a waste of your time right now.

 

[smitty22]

And yet your still doing better than @Regular_P . There is always someone out there worse off. Keep ya head up.