Dynamite James
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Yeah you definitely overreacted. You need to chill out
I Had A Fight With My Woman, Did I Over-React? Gimme Your Advice!!!
- Thread starter Prince.Skeletor
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Life is about perspective I guess
I can see both sides of this, especially if OP really is the background he accused of.
Outgoing western men(especially extroverts) tend to give women alot of leeway with thinigs like this, other people/personalities dont. Both sides in this thread seem to take the issue personally
I know an Afro Arab woman in the midwest who said "we have too much freedom in this country"
A Balkan guy I know from the gym used to deliver pizzas, he was delivering to a family and he said he got annoyed that the wife was talking to him more than the husband. He said he'd never let his wife talk to another man that much, especially in front of him. He said he wanted to tell her to stfu.
Personalities, cultural perspectives, and lifestyles all come in to play
I can see both sides of this, especially if OP really is the background he accused of.
Outgoing western men(especially extroverts) tend to give women alot of leeway with thinigs like this, other people/personalities dont. Both sides in this thread seem to take the issue personally
I know an Afro Arab woman in the midwest who said "we have too much freedom in this country"
A Balkan guy I know from the gym used to deliver pizzas, he was delivering to a family and he said he got annoyed that the wife was talking to him more than the husband. He said he'd never let his wife talk to another man that much, especially in front of him. He said he wanted to tell her to stfu.
Personalities, cultural perspectives, and lifestyles all come in to play
OperationNumbNutts
Superstar
@Prince.Skeletor
Here's the order of your fyck up.
1. You took her out to a social environment when you were social.
2. You were on your phone and got in your feelings when she engaged another conversation.
3. Got in your feelings like it was your time of the month (heavy day).
Here's the order of your fyck up.
1. You took her out to a social environment when you were social.
2. You were on your phone and got in your feelings when she engaged another conversation.
3. Got in your feelings like it was your time of the month (heavy day).
OP..
So, your issue is that you don't like being around other ppl in a social setting, right?
If that is the case, then your first mistake was going to a place where there wasn't much privacy. You could have avoided that off top by going somewhere where there was more intimacy and privacy.
Next mistake is imposing your preferences and beliefs about being social on your woman. She has her own mind and own personality. If you said that her being too chummy with strangers is a deal breaker, then you need to cut your losses and find someone who is more like minded.
Short answer is they you overreacted and the both of y'all are petty!
So, your issue is that you don't like being around other ppl in a social setting, right?
If that is the case, then your first mistake was going to a place where there wasn't much privacy. You could have avoided that off top by going somewhere where there was more intimacy and privacy.
Next mistake is imposing your preferences and beliefs about being social on your woman. She has her own mind and own personality. If you said that her being too chummy with strangers is a deal breaker, then you need to cut your losses and find someone who is more like minded.
Short answer is they you overreacted and the both of y'all are petty!
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from what I read he said he didn't mean to, or maybe I mis read, some people just dont have a good poker face, no that their feelings are on their sleeve.
I was told once to work on my poker face. And that has helped me a lot. You gotta get a handle on that, even if you need to literally play poker to learn it.
OP still the most emotionally-adjusted Pajeet 
ReturnOfJudah
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A well seasoned nikka
As someone who once dated an overly social, free spirited, extrovert of a woman in the past, I can honestly say that women that are like that can POTENTIALLY cause you problems….
She will likely never understand that going out of her way to start convos with strangers (especially straight MEN), may seem harmless to HER… but to the overly sex driven male brain, that can be taken in different ways that can have you as her nikka, looking funny in the light.
Other men might think your girl is loose and this can give them the confidence to flirt with them, or men will make assumptions that maybe she isn’t your lady and just your homegirl and some of them may try their arm with her, or other men may write you off a sucker even tho you haven’t done any sucker shyt, simply because your girl is out acting like you’re not enough for her, she feels the need to talk to other men while she’s with you, so you must be a hoe nikka (sounds dramatic but plenty of men think just like this), thus putting you in a situation to where you may have to check somebody to maintain your your own well being…..
Are you not seeing how this could someday become a liability???
She will likely never understand that going out of her way to start convos with strangers (especially straight MEN), may seem harmless to HER… but to the overly sex driven male brain, that can be taken in different ways that can have you as her nikka, looking funny in the light.
Other men might think your girl is loose and this can give them the confidence to flirt with them, or men will make assumptions that maybe she isn’t your lady and just your homegirl and some of them may try their arm with her, or other men may write you off a sucker even tho you haven’t done any sucker shyt, simply because your girl is out acting like you’re not enough for her, she feels the need to talk to other men while she’s with you, so you must be a hoe nikka (sounds dramatic but plenty of men think just like this), thus putting you in a situation to where you may have to check somebody to maintain your your own well being…..
Are you not seeing how this could someday become a liability???
Women are fukkin stupid