I Had A Fight With My Woman, Did I Over-React? Gimme Your Advice!!!

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You overreacted but at the same time your girl doesn’t get you. Thats a bad sign …
Sounds like they never had a conversation to understand each other.

She is a social butterfly but he hates talking to randoms.
Then I read here he is Indian and it all comes together :snoop:
 

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In a separate conversation, let her know you would appreciate it if she were a touch more considerate toward how you get down in social settings.

I'm curious and no judgement at all but do you have problems dating?

I feel like the women I have dated would view this as weak. First, because you would have what is perceived to be an unnecessary handicap. And then two, that you would want her to adjust herself because of your unnecessary handicap instead of you working on your own growth as a man.

The women that I've been with would not go for this at all because it would come off as beta.
 

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I'm curious and no judgement at all but do you have problems dating?

I feel like the women I have dated would view this as weak. First, because you would have what is perceived to be an unnecessary handicap. And then two, that you would want her to adjust herself because of your unnecessary handicap instead of you working on your own growth as a man.

The women that I've been with would not go for this at all because it would come off as beta.
You ain’t been dating wifey material.
Everyone got handicap’s especially the type of women you described
 

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:scust: From her or you
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I was mad at first
I told her never squirt on me only in my mouth
I love drinking squirt, & she loves it that I love it.
But sometimes it happens too fast

Excuse me? No it’s not pee, my bed is wet with ZERO yellow stains or even spots.
It’s all yummy yummy squirt!!!
 

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You ain’t been dating wifey material.
Everyone got handicap’s especially the type of women you described

Everybody do have handicaps. But being socially inept is an unnecessary handicap and one, as a man, that you're not working to improve. So why would you make your girl dim her light to assuage your ego?

That's weak and not husband material.
 

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Everybody do have handicaps. But being socially inept is an unnecessary handicap and one, as a man, that you're not working to improve. So why would you make your girl dim her light to assuage your ego?

That's weak and not husband material.
I don’t see what I did as socially inept.
I’m not the guy that wants to talk to strangers.

Being an introvert is not a handicap, it just is what it is.
And dim her light? Nah if she on a date with me she needs to know boundaries.
She apologized for her behaviour & also I let her know that I probably went too far in my response & that ideally we should meet in between.
 

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You gon have to fix this, brother. This ain't becoming of a man. Can't wear your feelings on your sleeve.

from what I read he said he didn't mean to, or maybe I mis read, some people just dont have a good poker face, no that their feelings are on their sleeve. :yeshrug:
 
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