I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[Ugo Ogugwa]

They say it’s out of respect.

Don't talk on shyt you don't know. "They say". Stop generalizing.

 

[NBA Youngbreh]

A lot of nikkas in the thread have never seen African family dynamics. I say trust ur judgement op

 

[Gold]

People don't know what it's like to have a toxic parent or they wouldn't be telling you to surrender to his ego. A wedding is one day and am event that his presence isn't needed at since he's not in full support.

There will be plenty more events, holidays, birthdays, family reunions etc that he can be involved in, it's not like you're telling him he can't see his grandchildren.

Me personally. I've sacrificed enough of my peace of mind for family and friends in this lifetime. If it's bothering you that much do what's best for you.

Breh... you truly get it.

A wedding is not a place.for.the energy he brings. Not gonna have my wife afraid of him during the ceremony. He needs to ger right with himself. His toxicity wont be my reality

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Yea I heard Nigerian pops don’t play

 

[#1 pick]

I get you @Gold I'm Bout to be like that with my dad real soon. It's looking grim right now

Man, what's really going on? Damn!

 

[Gold]

What's the point in HALF A STORY. You have always been a lil dramatic poster and I ain't saying you're wrong in this instance, because I don't know with HALF A STORY.

Fess up or shut up. Know one can give advice with HALF A STORY.

Yeah I keep saying HALF A STORY... Because like my post HALF A STORY is annoying as fxck.

Get my drift tell the WHOLE STORY or NO STORY but never ever ever HALF A STORY.

Imagine your father slapped the shyt out of your fiance for something YOU did. Is this ever justified??? EVER??

Not saying this is exaxtly what happened but honestly its close enough

 

[#1 pick]

Yea I heard Nigerian pops don’t play

I still get clowned for how my dad used to go off at school by my homies. On teachers, coaches, me, etc. My wedding night, yo, remember when your dad started wildin on Mrs....

What's crazy is now that I am older, I be wildin on these cacs. They be getting scared af too. My wife told me to watch my temper

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If yall kmew what he did... yall woulda probably beat your father's ass for doing the same.

Trust me i wanted to, my brother stopped me

Did he say he wanted to pipe your wife before the wedding prima nocta style?

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

God puts on us no more than we can bear. You can and will handle the situation; we get tired but we bend and not break.

Maybe try a mediatory person to talk it out? At least give him the option to apologize or uninvite himself.

My dad was a pedophile and I had to forgive him in my heart to fully move on from the disgust. I didn’t want him to die with me angry at him bc when he died that anger would never be able to go away. I forgave him. Never forgot, but I lived by the Only God can judge philosophy.

Just my two cents breh, wish you the best and praying for y’all.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

Did he say he wanted to pipe your wife before the wedding prima nocta style?

This gotta be it

 

[Gold]

I appreciate the responses you guys. The ones who disagree with me and the ones who agree i respect them all.

This is not a decision to be taken lightly. But if i cannot defend my wife, im not ready to marry her

 

[African Peasant]

Let him come to the wedding, then you will continue your beef later.

Cause You might regret not having him at the wedding if you squash it later; this is a once in a lifetime moment.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Don't talk on shyt you don't know. "They say". Stop generalizing.

U always negative fam be happy sometimes

 

[Keepya onya toes]

Imagine your father slapped the shyt out of your fiance for something YOU did. Is this ever justified??? EVER??

No it's not. Forget the wedding you need to univite your father out of your life if your father slapped your soon to be wife for something you did.

Biblical quote him if he's playing the honour thy father and mother rule. Parents should not provoke their children to anger.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

Did he say he wanted to pipe your wife before the wedding prima nocta style?