I have a confession and it's killing me

[5n0man]

Yeah but the way the sentence was contstructed(I'm not english major, its not my language), I was like but they havent been together in a while.

It's only been a month. It could take that long to get rid of an std.

 

[the cac mamba]

This is why i'm so anti-religion. it just makes people do stupid shyt.

the idea that "god" would give a fukk about one single human fukking her boyfriend while half of the world lives in poverty and despair :mindblownj: christianity is nothing but arrogance and narcissism. that's literally insane

 

[Jhoon]

leave her.

religion makes sex = sinful. Therefore even if you would eventually get married, she would still have guilt associated with sex because of how she was raised.

You are absolutely correct.

 

[phcitywarrior]

I don't know if anyone asked this but has she given you a reason why she chose celibacy? No one chooses it out of nowhere. If she didn't, that's fukked up. Is she going through something?

OP said she's been getting more religious and has been feeling guilty about fornication.

 

[Armchair Militant]

Put a ring on it, simp.

 

[phcitywarrior]

the idea that "god" would give a fukk about one single human fukking her boyfriend while half of the world lives in poverty and despair :mindblownj: christianity is nothing but arrogance and narcissism. that's literally insane

It's a little deeper than just that. There was a really good thread in here a while back that broke it down. Even if you were agnostic, if you at least agreed with the premise then the logic was airtight, of course you have to agree with the baseline premise first and foremost.

 

[hatealot]

Shes unsure if she caught something when cheating on you and she loves you so much that she doesn't want to infect you.

or

the other dude is beating her shyt up so good that she is preserving it for him only because shes been compromised.

Shes too timid to tell you the truth and she is forcing your hand to bring up the issue so she can vent and not be looked at as the bad person when she wants see other people.

 

[the cac mamba]

It's a little deeper than just that. There was a really good thread in here a while back that broke it down. Even if you were agnostic, if you at least agreed with the premise then the logic was airtight, of course you have to agree with the baseline premise first and foremost.

im not even gonna talk any shyt, no one wants to hear that shyt it just amazes me that people delude themselves like this in 2019

 

[phcitywarrior]

im not even gonna talk any shyt, no one wants to hear that shyt it just amazes me that people delude themselves like this in 2019

Ay man, people all have different beliefs. As far as they aren't blowing up buildings I'm like do you.

 

[Solano707]

I am actively cheating on my girlfriend. But only because she decided to go celibate on me about a month ago. That includes absolutely nothing. No fukking, sucking, touching and it's even a chore to see her naked. I love her we have been together for almost 3 years now, however, you can't simply go celibate out of the blue in the middle of the relationship and expect everything to be ok. She says it's for religious reasons, god made her feel shytty about fornication.

I know what you guys are thinking, she may be cheating on me already. I cannot know for sure whether or not she is. But I'm going to get mine, I'm building up this relationship with this side piece trying to be the main piece and if shyt hits the fan....it won't hurt as much I hope.

I just felt the strong need to tell someone even though the lot of you are anonymous, don't know me, my girl or my situation.

But this definitely helps.

But please, let me know, am I the a$$hole in this situation? I would NEVER have thought of cheating if she never would have done this.

Nah man, get out of that. She unilaterally changed the relationship on you without even consulting you first. She don't respect you at all. AT ALL! Your best bet is to just leave and don't look back. Trust me, you will be more happier with another woman who is willing to please you. The girl you creeping with could fill that purpose, but again, it's an option.

 

[I Really Mean It]

I cannot let her go just yet. I've tried but I ended up busting down and crying and taking her back. I never cry but god dammit she got me fukked up.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Celebate during a relationship? Sex is one of the biggest reasons people cheat wether it’s male or female. Not smart on her part. Any reasons why?

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Cera isn’t going to like this. Hopefully y’all are still safe from Sharp-Tooth

 

[phcitywarrior]

Celebate during a relationship? Sex is one of the biggest reasons people cheat wether it’s male or female. Not smart on her part. Any reasons why?

OP said she's been getting more religious and has been feeling guilty about fornication.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

OP said she's been getting more religious and has been feeling guilty about fornication.

Religion wow lol no offense to anyone lol