I just checked my girl on some sh!t I thought was disrespectful

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

i probably would have been annoyed by that shyt too but, "i don't bow down to no one", is some shyt straight out of a bad 80s action movie starring random white guy with blonde hair.

 

[dontreadthis]

I think you overreacted. Tbh the whole thing aint that serious.

nah.
if I ask you a question, ANSWER ME. don't just sit there when you and I both know you heard me.

 

[MarloStanTrill]

So we sitting here in the living room and eating dinner. She happened to buy dinner tonight (fried fish from Crockettes in Montclair NJ) because she didn't take anything out to defrost this morning to make or I could make. So I'm sitting down flipping through the channels for something to watch and I settled on ABC to check the news out or watch Jeopardy afterwards. She fixed me a plate of food, which was some fried whiting. I said "thanks Babe" then got up to get some hot sauce to put on the coffee table for us to use plus get her some electrolyte water to drink. Now what occurred after us finish eating is what pissed me off. I finished my meal, she was done with hers too so I got up with my plate and went over to where she was sitting to get her plate. I stood in front of her and asked her to give me her plate but she did not respond to my request for the plate so I motioned with my hand to give me the plate but she kept looking at the TV. I eventually asked again then she gave me her plate. As I was leaving to go to the kitchen she said "why you aint just bend down and get the plate?". I said "what you just say?", she responded by saying "why didn't you just bend down and get the plate". . I let it ride for maybe 20 seconds while I was in the kitchen scraping the bones in the trash and was thinking ...then I got pissed even more about it Then came back and sat down and she asked "why you seem tight"? I said "what you said awhile ago was disrespectful", she asked "how was it disrespectful?" I said, "all you had to do was just give me the plate so I could take it but for whatever reason you saw fit to ask me to bend down and get it, I don't bend down to no one". She then was like "there you go with that manly stuff. I was like "what manly stuff, I just felt I was disrespected and it has nothing to do with manly stuff" She then was like "if I disrespected you, I apologize, i know its things you Jamaican men don't tolerate", then I said "ok apology accepted" but now she all tight and silent. Now i don't know what prompted her words but I also don't want her to take certain liberties with me. Yes I do speak my mind but at times my words do cut and I come off insensitive and cold due to my years of being HOH's. I already know the answer but was I wrong for checking her?

the first mistake was your wife didnt cook or take care of preparing food/dishes all that--- I'll be damned if i do that shyt while my girl at home chilling- its her job to cook and wash dishes. If yall both work then its on both of yall, but she sounds hella lazy and I cant do attitudes at all

 

[DEAD7]

Shoulda punched her out

 

[The Don]

I stay with her. Aint no way I'm checking her phone because I aint insecure. She already under pressure to lose 15 lbs by the end of November or else I'm out.

no wonder she aint payin you no mind. How you gonna try to be dominant in her house and require her to lose 15 lbs or else???? Tighten up OP. That's shallow as hell.

 

[Black Cac]

no wonder she aint payin you no mind. How you gonna try to be dominant in her house and require her to lose 15 lbs or else???? Tighten up OP. That's shallow as hell.

Wait, so this nikka in HER house trying to run things?! nikka talking about or he out, where you gonna go? Back to mommys house?

 

[The Don]

Wait, so this nikka in HER house trying to run things?! nikka talking about or he out, where you gonna go? Back to mommys house?

 

[Pazzy]

no wonder she aint payin you no mind. How you gonna try to be dominant in her house and require her to lose 15 lbs or else???? Tighten up OP. That's shallow as hell.

Lmao @ losing 15 pounds on the same month as thanksgiving and eating food like fried fish. He's probably cheating on her anyway which is why hes ready to dip.

 

[Gold]

no wonder she aint payin you no mind. How you gonna try to be dominant in her house and require her to lose 15 lbs or else???? Tighten up OP. That's shallow as hell.

Woah I didn't catch that....


Breh....


BREH....


I change my stance 100%.... OP you in the wrong breh

 

[Wiles]

so if ur grandma or mom drops her keys you won't bend down to pick it up?

But she is young could of grabbed her plate he already cleaning it for her damn. I hope your a woman because if not prepare for a life of

 

[Kane1]

That is what I am thinking. She was just trying to see how far things would pop off. In other words chick is crazy.

You give them an inch and they'll take a mile


Island cats don't play....my Haitian fam know the deal.

He did right. I would have said it once and kept it pushing. My girl had been asking me to put my dish in the dish washer for years!! All she gets is my dish in the sank.

 

[Gold]

@agnosticlady is your man a Nigerian?

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Dude if you stay with a woman don't expect her to have full respect to you negga. She can kick you out today if she wanted. She coulda locked you out when you went to throw the garbage and nothing you could have done. You lost respect in yourself by moving with her so you better cooperate and put that manly shyt on pause unfortunately. Just cooperate with her and do it 50 50 cuz that's how it will go. Also you don't want her to remind you that's her place breh

 

[agnosticlady]

@agnosticlady is your man a Nigerian?

He's African American.....Part of my family back home was disappointed, but oh well Afric00ns gonna c00n.

 

[agnosticlady]

LOL your facial expression. Yeah that would be going way overboard and is the true definition of emotional.