I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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her mom needs loving.

the wife should know caring is sharing especially if her mom had a string of bad relationships and her mom being a widow too, if the wife was really about that life, she would know and be ok with it. They would have to set boundaries for when they do it.
 

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her mom needs loving.

the wife should know caring is sharing especially if her mom had a string of bad relationships and her mom being a widow too, if the wife was really about that life, she would know and be ok with it. They would have to set boundaries for when they do it.

Cotdamn y'all some reasonable azz nikkaz. :wow:
 

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Yeah, the shyt they are talking about is disgusting. :snoop:


A white woman's sense of entitlement, period, is the worst ever. I posted about this in the random thoughts thread a while ago. They have no shame when it comes to getting what they want. They have been taught from childhood that the consideration of their feelings are the end all be all of everything a man does, and the ultimate justification for why they are right about everything, no matter how wrong they are.

Just look the ads that both political parties run to try to gather an emotional pull. Two of the main ones from each party center around a white woman and her child.

They have been trained to think they are the prized possession of the world. :skip: And they act and demean men as such :whew:

I'm late as hell, but you ever see the movie "Eat, Love, Pray"...its embodiment of this behavior...but while white women may be the biggest offenders...this is a western ideal at heart...more specifically America...everyone is so fukking self-indulged nowadays its disqusting.
 

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Oh my gosh.

Da mama must got da ILL NA NA.

:merchant:

Sounds like reality kings "My friends hot mom" but this time it's "My wife's hot mom" :obama:

Not matter how :drunk: I am I can't see myself doing this....but if the mom looked like Nina Hartley :shaq:
 

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From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

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I can't help but think of that Fresh Prince episode with Pam Grier.

shyt I'd cave too :stylin:
 

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I finally installed a recorder in wifes car. I got all I needed in one day plus something I wish I never heard. She said she was ashamed to me seen in public with her and she would walk several feet away Married 25 years next month.I am fhicially ill now. I have call and cancelled the rest of my chemo and radiation. I now officially don't care anymore. I am doneWhen she leaves I lose all heat insurance. and home.
 
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