I Need a Male's Perspective

[TheFemalePerspective]

Gain your attention, but u the one quoting me.....why dnt u worry about finding a man u dumb c*nt

Who tagged me first? Then negged me and cried in the comment section because I didn't respond?

Bounce, you attention wh0re.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

never initiate conversation and then wonder why dudes barely hit you up brehettes

 

[Dwolf]

The man should always be the first to initiate everything. Ladies are supposed to just sit back and relax. If he can't be bothered to do the legwork, then this ride is not for him.

Invest in cats.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

never initiate conversation and then wonder why dudes barely hit you up brehettes

I do respond, but I don't initiate conversation until I think you're worth it.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Who tagged me first? Then negged me and cried in the comment section because I didn't respond?

Bounce, you attention wh0re.

I was trying to help u and give u advice, I then proved a point about how u claim to respond to men and initiate convo but in reality u dnt and love the attention u whore. I didn't cry and I negged u with a winky face, u hair hatted hooligan . Please dnt quote me again

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

probably shy and wanted u to hit him up first

That's how I am on dating sites. I'm shy and nervous that if I actually messaged the women I wanted to meet that I would just get no response.

Which is probably why I deleted by okcupid account in the first place.

I prefer meeting women in real life and basking in their radiance.

Too many people lie and deceive online and when I meet them in reality, they are not what they seem.

That's just me trying to keep it real.

 

[ScoopNScore]

Gain your attention, but u the one quoting me.....why dnt u worry about finding a man u dumb c*nt

Good, let the HOH flow through you. Take this :hoh: smiley and spread the word to the misguided.

 

[Batman]

I was trying to help u and give u advice, I then proved a point about how u claim to respond to men and initiate convo but in reality u dnt and love the attention u whore. I didn't cry and I negged u with a winky face, u hair hatted hooligan . Please dnt quote me again

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I was trying to help u and give u advice, I then proved a point about how u claim to respond to men and initiate convo but in reality u dnt and love the attention u whore. I didn't cry and I negged u with a winky face, u hair hatted hooligan . Please dnt quote me again

That's what you call flirting? The f*** is wrong with you? But now that you've explained your primitive ways, I guess -- I can forgive you. Let's call for a truce.

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

I do respond, but I don't initiate conversation until I think you're worth it.

that logic is flawed, but to each its own. You're giving mixed signals, you want to talk to him clearly but you're not showing him that.

 

[innocentdevil]

But what I don't understand is: If he likes me, why isn't he being more straightforward? Why is he being all non-nonchalant about it? That's such a turnoff.

If you like him why aren't you?

Show some interest in him too...nothing wrong with laying your cards out on the table and letting him decide

I learned this lesson before I got with my current bf....had to put aside that mindset of "men chase women" I showed my interest regularly and it paid off

 

[KOOL-AID]

That's what you call flirting? The f*** is wrong with you? But now that you've explained your primitive ways, I guess -- I can forgive you. Let's call for a truce.

are u metal challenged, it was sarcasm u dumb bytch, I wasn't flirting with u. And I dnt want no truce nikka...HOH

 

[skeetsinternal]

I recently decided to put 1 foot into the online dating game.


There's one man, I gave a chance to.



But then he started acting weird, so I thought he's not interested, and pretty much told him to take care, because a fine girl like myself...



doesn't wait for a man to play interested.

As a result, he messaged me to say he actually enjoyed our convo and would like to continue. Reluctantly, I gave him another chance, and then he disappeared on me.

I was like.. you just got played.



Thankfully, I'm a real cutie so that didn't hurt my self-esteem at all. I can walk outside and get a flock of men walking behind me at every block.



So I was like... whatever



THEN, a few days go by (nearly a week) and he hits me up, like nothing happened.



Is this guy bipolar?

Give me some male insight, please.

This has nothing to do with bipolar. The nikka got horny and went back to one of the chics or only chic that gave him some play and came back at you acting brand new hoping you forgot bout that little incident and maybe give him some pity p*ssy. Real talk.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

are u metal challenged, it was sarcasm u dumb bytch, I wasn't flirting with u. And I dnt want no truce nikka...HOH

metal?

Open your dictionary before talking to me.

Because...

 

[kevm3]

depends. he could be playing, but you could also be coming off as not interested. a man has to initiate, but it gets tiring having to carry the conversation all the time. If you're merely responding and mirroring what he's doing, he can take it that you're not interested. if you never initiate contact with him, he could feel like he's carrying the load and just get tired of it after a while.