I Need a Male's Perspective

[TheFemalePerspective]

here's some advice.

Stop fronting and stop lying to yourself. your ego will be your downfall.

the wise will understand it and the clever will use it.

You're right; I think he bruised my ego a little. I'm used to men fawning over me, and I feel that he's very hot and cold. He appears interested but distant. Yet, when I try to walk away, he doesn't let me. It doesn't add up. It's actually pretty childish to me. It's sad because he does have what I'm looking for, but I guess since we're both kinda stuck up, it's not going to work out. I need someone to chase me, and I think he's used to the same thing.

It is, what it is.

 

[Chill]

You're right; I think he bruised my ego a little. I'm used to men fawning over me, and I feel that he's very hot and cold. He appears interested but distant. Yet, when I try to walk away, he doesn't let me. It doesn't add up. It's actually pretty childish to me. It's sad because he does have what I'm looking for, but I guess since we're both kinda stuck up, it's not going to work out. I need someone to chase me, and I think he's used to the same thing.

It is, what it is.

 

[Trillion]

You're right; I think he bruised my ego a little. I'm used to men fawning over me, and I feel that he's very hot and cold. He appears interested but distant. Yet, when I try to walk away, he doesn't let me. It doesn't add up. It's actually pretty childish to me. It's sad because he does have what I'm looking for, but I guess since we're both kinda stuck up, it's not going to work out. I need someone to chase me, and I think he's used to the same thing.

It is, what it is.

u looking for a thirsty ass lame thas gonna tell you what u wanna hear?

 

[Killer Instinct]

You're right; I think he bruised my ego a little. I'm used to men fawning over me, and I feel that he's very hot and cold. He appears interested but distant. Yet, when I try to walk away, he doesn't let me. It doesn't add up. It's actually pretty childish to me. It's sad because he does have what I'm looking for, but I guess since we're both kinda stuck up, it's not going to work out. I need someone to chase me, and I think he's used to the same thing.

It is, what it is.

 

[Turbulent]

You're right; I think he bruised my ego a little. I'm used to men fawning over me, and I feel that he's very hot and cold. He appears interested but distant. Yet, when I try to walk away, he doesn't let me. It doesn't add up. It's actually pretty childish to me. It's sad because he does have what I'm looking for, but I guess since we're both kinda stuck up, it's not going to work out. I need someone to chase me, and I think he's used to the same thing.

It is, what it is.

you're playing yourself. setting yourself up for the big fail. is he really the childish one?

 

[Batman]

Oh well, there's millions just like you. Chicks with zero, and I mean zero personality. It's not your fault, probably some bs advice you've internalized.

I've put average chicks on my team and still close to some of my exes because they had personality and weren't afraid to take the lead sometimes.

 

[Diondon]

 

[Killer Instinct]

Guarantee if you were in the same vicinity as Idris Elba, you wouldn't wait for him "to chase you."

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

u looking for a thirsty ass lame thas gonna tell you what u wanna hear?

Not thirsty, but a man who makes it clear that he wants me, instead of trying to emotionally manipulate me. Love doesn't grow from mind games; he probably thinks the attraction is growing when the reverse is actually happening -- I'm slowly being turned off. He could easily just be himself, but nope, he has to act all macho and pretend he has no emotions.



I can tell when a man is calculating his moves instead of just being natural.

 

[Trillion]

Guarantee if you were in the same vicinity as Idris Elba, you wouldn't wait for him "to chase you."

nobody care bout that nikka outside of the internet

 

[Killer Instinct]

nobody care bout that nikka outside of the internet

Leave him in the same room with your woman.

 

[Trillion]

Not thirsty, but a man who makes it clear that he wants me, instead of trying to emotionally manipulate me. Love doesn't grow from mind games; he probably thinks the attraction is growing when the reverse is actually happening -- I'm slowly being turned off. He could easily just be himself, but nope, he has to act all macho and pretend he has no emotions.



I can tell when a man is calculating his moves instead of just being natural.

since when is asking for an equal interest in conversation manipulation
all that shyt you just wrote is you psyching yourself out because You got too much pride

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

you're playing yourself. setting yourself up for the big fail. is he really the childish one?

Wait, how am I the childish one? I'm pretty responsive whenever he sends me a message. He's the one calculating everything and pulling disappearing moves. If he was just honest and more straightforward, then I wouldn't be in this predicament. I blame chicks who are constantly chasing men and making them feel like they're the prize. Look what we have now? Men sitting there.. waiting to be hit on.

Disgusting.

 

[Chill]

Not thirsty, but a man who makes it clear that he wants me, instead of trying to emotionally manipulate me. Love doesn't grow from mind games; he probably thinks the attraction is growing when the reverse is actually happening -- I'm slowly being turned off. He could easily just be himself, but nope, he has to act all macho and pretend he has no emotions.



I can tell when a man is calculating his moves instead of just being natural.

You're right, love isn't built on mind games. But you also have to step outside of your comfort zone and boundaries for someone when it comes to love. He just might be that catch you're looking for and you're letting him go.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

You're right, love isn't built on mind games. But you also have to step outside of your comfort zone and boundaries for someone when it comes to love. He just might be that catch you're looking for and you're letting him go.

But.... I don't want to be the woman, he settled for.

That's what happens when you choose the man instead of allowing yourself to be chosen.