I Need a Male's Perspective

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:duck: says she's responsive but doesn't reply back when @d and tagged in the thread
 

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But.... I don't want to be the woman, he settled for.

That's what happens when you choose the man instead of allowing yourself to be chosen.


But how exactly is he settling for you when you are showing him you are better than the rest of his choices? Also would you want to be that person with regret thinking that he may just have been that catch all because you decided to not take a chance?
 
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But how exactly is he settling for you when you are showing him you are better than the rest of his choices? Also would you want to be that person with regret thinking that he may just have been that catch all because you decided to not take a chance?

You make a good point, but there are so many men out there ready to show me more attention that him....

I guess I made this thread because I was curious to hear the responses. I was expecting more people to tell me he's a player and to throw him in the bushes. It didn't occur to me that people would think there was something wrong with me.

:pachaha:

If a guy posted this, would you guys have told him to be as understanding? Tell him, he might be missing out on love due to his pride.

:wtb:
 

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You make a good point, but there are so many men out there ready to show me more attention that him....

I guess I made this thread because I was curious to hear the responses. I was expecting more people to tell me he's a player and to throw him in the bushes. It didn't occur to me that people would think there was something wrong with me.

:pachaha:

If a guy posted this, would you guys have told him to be as understanding? Tell him, he might be missing out on love due to his pride.

:wtb:


A lot of men like the fact that a female will take a step towards starting something. It makes her stand out and says a lot about her.

If a guy had posted this, yeah I would have said the exact same thing, but a lot of dudes on here aren't really looking for a relationship at this moment.
 

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You make a good point, but there are so many men out there ready to show me more attention that him....

I guess I made this thread because I was curious to hear the responses. I was expecting more people to tell me he's a player and to throw him in the bushes. It didn't occur to me that people would think there was something wrong with me.

:pachaha:

If a guy posted this, would you guys have told him to be as understanding? Tell him, he might be missing out on love due to his pride.

:wtb:

We deal with females like you every day. :comeon:

I have chicks act all cool and nonchalant with me but I always see her looking at me from the corner of my eye like:leostare: or one of my boys will point it out. But her nonchalance told me she wasn't feeling me like that.
 
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@KOOL-AID You're neggin me because I didn't respond to you?

TALK ABOUT EMOTIONAL!

Here, take a tampon.

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But how exactly is he settling for you when you are showing him you are better than the rest of his choices?
You make a good point, but there are so many men out there ready to show me more attention that him....

I guess I made this thread because I was curious to hear the responses. I was expecting more people to tell me he's a player and to throw him in the bushes. It didn't occur to me that people would think there was something wrong with me.

:pachaha:

If a guy posted this, would you guys have told him to be as understanding? Tell him, he might be missing out on love due to his pride.

:wtb:
if a guy said a girl hit him up a bunch of times and he let it die because he was being too much of a p*ssy yeah i would say he's being a faq
 
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A lot of men like the fact that a female will take a step towards starting something. It makes her stand out and says a lot about her.

If a guy had posted this, yeah I would have said the exact same thing, but a lot of dudes on here aren't really looking for a relationship at this moment.

I like your posts, Chill.

Thanks for the advice my brother.
 
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