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Get some professional help bro. You are going to have to make some major sacrifices to get back in control of your life. I'd say start putting your body and mind before everything.
I think I'm clinically depressed...I want to end it
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Get some professional help bro. You are going to have to make some major sacrifices to get back in control of your life. I'd say start putting your body and mind before everything.
Learn to embrace the small things in life. My homeboy is 27---no job, no whip, fake Jordans on his feet, mom in poor health, yet he still keeps a smile on his face. Like Young Jeezy said "fukk you 'plainin' 'bout? It ain't like you got cancer."
Isn't there a mental health group on the coli? They'd probably be able to offer better advice in this situation.
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Breh. After "Ass Eating Thread #2094" you kinda had it coming.i feel the same way, now that i can't post threads anymore on the coli
medication might help, but there are side effects. i'm on prozac & 2 other meds for depression/ocd, and it helped me realize just how depressed i was. cause i figured i had typical mood swings like the average person, but it was a lil more serious & i was having suicidal ideations like you. you should probably discuss it with a doctor or go to a mental health clinic.
Your daughter needs you, NEEDS you. Nothing else matters. Please go get help, its good you realize you have a problem. If money in an issue they have free counseling and help available. What state are you in? If you tell me I will take time to link you to programs.
Remember everything is temporarily, even feelings of depression. There are thing you can do to better your life work towards those and in a year or more you can look back on this stage an realize it was just a moment in a whole life. She needs you.
Remember everything is temporarily, even feelings of depression. There are thing you can do to better your life work towards those and in a year or more you can look back on this stage an realize it was just a moment in a whole life. She needs you.
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OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
yes the colis nuthouseIsn't there a mental health group on the coli? They'd probably be able to offer better advice in this situation.
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Breh. After "Ass Eating Thread #2094" you kinda had it coming.
go to a childrens hospital or homeless shelter
little kids dying still smiling and ish.
life could always be worse.
Meds are horrible, and when you weeze off them they are horrible just as well.
Definitely need to seek professional help. They also have mental health boards available that enables you to chat with others who have been down that road and will take your situation seriously. You've gotten some good to great advice in this thread, but it's still littered with too many idiots that struggle with the concept that nobody on this Earth cares about their views on suicide or religion, but you're going to get these in every mental health thread here, so your best bet is finding an alternative board to discuss this or consult a therapist. Best of luck to you.
this is like the worst advice ever you can give to someone with depression.
anyways
@DaIpod2012 you should try and find a local psychiatrist and therapist and get some help.
another person who doesn't understand mental illness.
stop giving advice, seriously.. it's useless and you're not a fukking psychiatrist or doctor.
ole "depression will go away, you just gotta go out there and life is what you make it" clown. DEPRESSION IS NEVER CURED. IT DOESN'T JUST GO AWAY. and trying to fixing things on the outside is pointless unless you go and fix shyt thats "wrong" on the inside. yes, things might be better for us, for a bit.. but then inevitably we fall right back, regardless of how good things are going on the outside.
your types are the worst and you don't even realize how your words do more harm than good.
unless you've experienced chronic depression or mental illness, or have done research on it.. stop trying to give advice. because your advice is trash and SUCKS.
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Lets hold hands together and commit suicide
so fukking true. great posts in this thread, dude.. really.
a compliment to me is basically an insult.
i hate when im being deprecating to myself like getting ready and looking in the mirror and say "wow, i look like shyt" or "im so ugly" and my mom says something like "omg dani, no you don't..i wish i was as skinny as you etc etc blah fukking blah blah"
because the way i process it is not as compliment, at all. i don't think as compliments as compliments, i mentally process them as insults like i think "no, you're only saying that because youre my mother and you're supposed to say things like that to try and make me feel better".
last week or so some guy i "know" from highschool messaged me on facebook and was like "is this the Dani i went to school with? Wow, you're looking really good these days, we should hang out sometime" and I thought "oh.. these days?" cause THOSE days in highschool when you were popular, i was ugly.. but now you're out of high school and not a popular jock and gained 80 pounds im good enough for you to talk to now?"
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Thoughts:
- this is normal when you have a baby, especially if you "weren't ready" for them.
- it's one thing if your current job is bringing you down, but dig - you aren't gonna be happy "working" anywhere.
Your next job will have it's own problems. I say that not to further discourage you, but to point out that maybe
the job is not really what's wrong, but the idea that maybe you thought you'd be at a different point at this time in your life,
as some have mentioned. If so - there's nothing you can do about that, mayne. Don't go backward - go forward.
If you wanna find something else, figure out what your strengths are and try to find something where you can use them.
But while you're at your current job, WORK THE CHIT OUT OF THAT JOB, cuzz. People may not notice if you're depressed,
but they do notice hard work, so you never know what opportunities may open up...
- also, figure out what you're in school for. For example, some folks are just going to school because everybody goes to school.
But what classes are you taking? I say that because...well, i'll illustrate. If you do some accounting somewhere, most places
only care that when you went to school, you took 9-12 credit hours of accounting, knamtalmbat? You gotta focus on what you're
in school to do, instead of just taking the classes you "need" to get a piece of paper.
- you have to take time out to do something fun for yourself. You HAVE to. Some have mentioned working out in here.
That's all well and good, but with all the stuff you got going on right now that just might make you (more) tired. Find a hobby
that will make you excited and give your brain stimulation. A healthy mind is as important as a healthy body...
...matter of fact - find something you can do with your daughter.
- iono what your relationship is with your Babeh Mama, but if it's halfway decent you gotta have this talk with her, too.
(sidebar: I said this presuming it wasn't your wife. Sorry if she is your wife. It's kinda fucced up when we just assume
nobody is married anymore when they have their kids now, but it is what it is...) She can be an ally here, because she
wants you to do what you can for y'alls daughter as well. If she knows how you're feeling here and she's a down-ass broad,
she's gonna do what she can to help out, too.
Bottom line: maybe you are "clinically" depressed, I don't know. But before you go throwing down pills,
consider some things like these, that can assess what you can do right now to improve your situation.
- this is normal when you have a baby, especially if you "weren't ready" for them.
- it's one thing if your current job is bringing you down, but dig - you aren't gonna be happy "working" anywhere.
Your next job will have it's own problems. I say that not to further discourage you, but to point out that maybe
the job is not really what's wrong, but the idea that maybe you thought you'd be at a different point at this time in your life,
as some have mentioned. If so - there's nothing you can do about that, mayne. Don't go backward - go forward.
If you wanna find something else, figure out what your strengths are and try to find something where you can use them.
But while you're at your current job, WORK THE CHIT OUT OF THAT JOB, cuzz. People may not notice if you're depressed,
but they do notice hard work, so you never know what opportunities may open up...
- also, figure out what you're in school for. For example, some folks are just going to school because everybody goes to school.
But what classes are you taking? I say that because...well, i'll illustrate. If you do some accounting somewhere, most places
only care that when you went to school, you took 9-12 credit hours of accounting, knamtalmbat? You gotta focus on what you're
in school to do, instead of just taking the classes you "need" to get a piece of paper.
- you have to take time out to do something fun for yourself. You HAVE to. Some have mentioned working out in here.
That's all well and good, but with all the stuff you got going on right now that just might make you (more) tired. Find a hobby
that will make you excited and give your brain stimulation. A healthy mind is as important as a healthy body...
...matter of fact - find something you can do with your daughter.
- iono what your relationship is with your Babeh Mama, but if it's halfway decent you gotta have this talk with her, too.
(sidebar: I said this presuming it wasn't your wife. Sorry if she is your wife. It's kinda fucced up when we just assume
nobody is married anymore when they have their kids now, but it is what it is...) She can be an ally here, because she
wants you to do what you can for y'alls daughter as well. If she knows how you're feeling here and she's a down-ass broad,
she's gonna do what she can to help out, too.
Bottom line: maybe you are "clinically" depressed, I don't know. But before you go throwing down pills,
consider some things like these, that can assess what you can do right now to improve your situation.