I used to pay for first dates

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

How'd you get here from what I said in my post?

Walk me through it.

my post is a combo of the ops topic, my post and response to you calling my post lazy.
so i elaborated and gave you an actually valid example of emotional and intellectual laziness, which is exactly what OP is on IMO
go ahead and put it all together, i assure you it makes sense

 

[Loose]

I dont pay unless we dating

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I mean all throughout my 20s I paid for the dates but as I’ve gotten older until we become cool and I smash we splitting the bill.

If you're trying to smash, splitting the bill on dates is a good way to guarantee that you don't smash

 

[Richard Glidewell]

I always have the lady pay on the first date.

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

I got the first one. I notice that women are “passive” when it comes to getting up so I initiate the meet and pay (but I usually do drinks, no food) at this point in my life, I need reciprocity… I can’t mess with a woman who thinks I’m going to spend spend spend and all she has to add of value is a $2 box and a 50 cent mouth

 

[maxamusa]

Damn OP paid the bill and left dry. Terrible.

 

[Neuromancer]

Some dudes are in women's phones as "Food". And it's sad.

 

[Neuromancer]

If you're trying to smash, splitting the bill on dates is a good way to guarantee that you don't smash

Women don't owe us sex man. I've had women pay for my meal and still had sex with them. Not all people are created equal.

 

[maxamusa]

Some dudes are in women's phones as "Food". And it's sad.

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

Women don't owe us sex man. I've had women pay for my meal and still had sex with them. Not all people are created equal.

Are you quoting the right person? I'm confused because I never said anything even remotely implying that

 

[maxamusa]

If you're trying to smash, splitting the bill on dates is a good way to guarantee that you don't smash

U gotta be the ultimate lame 2 tell a hoe u trying 2 fukk to split the bill; could there be a faster way 2 dry up the coochie

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

U gotta be the ultimate lame 2 tell a hoe u trying 2 fukk to split the bill; could there be a faster way 2 dry up the coochie

i think i'd rather split it with someone who legit doesn't have the money than split with someone that is mad and carrying baggage from past trickin ewww

 

[Phitz]

What do lesbians do? Split the bill? Can they use the “ provider” excuse as well? lol

great question

 

[Phitz]

shytttt looking back on women I’ve dealt with from my early 20s to mid 30s, the ones who I had something with we never did anything serious cost wise on the first date/ first meet. It’s the ones I jumped through hoops for on a first date/meet up to “impress” that I never got the drawers…and it was directly proportional to how attractive/ my type the woman was…

I played myself

So like I should’ve been doing all along now all these hoes get the same treatment REGARDLESS of how attracted to ‘em I am and I’ve been able to weed out the bullshytters

This was my similar experience also

The ones I never took on a date i ended up long term relationship with. Of course during the relationship I didnt' mind spending anything because at that point you know how she really feels.

Never had anything with someone I took to dinner. I stopped doing that EARLY on when I noticed it is a waste of time.

I think because most women you end up with long term you meet through some social circle or cultural circle or mutual interests where you some what familiar.

Never heard of anybody smashing or getting into anything long term after these dinner dates.

 

[Phitz]

Money shouldn’t be an issue when a woman shares her time with you.

Even trade.

If a woman rushes to pay the bill before you it’s a warning sign that she will be competing with you for supremacy in everything even when you don’t know there’s a battle.

Waste of time.

Let them eat p*ssy and find you a woman that enjoys the soft life.

this is some keen insight here...

was this the issue of why you battle with your wife?