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my post is a combo of the ops topic, my post and response to you calling my post lazy.
so i elaborated and gave you an actually valid example of emotional and intellectual laziness, which is exactly what OP is on IMO
go ahead and put it all together, i assure you it makes sense
If not for me, break it down for the other folks in the thread.

Cause you still haven't
 
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If not for me, break it down for the other folks in the thread.

Cause you still haven't

what exactly don't you get sir lol, it's only so many ways i can say what i said.
i gave a tldr... and then i spelled it out.
do you just want my attention? cuz i don't think you have a legit disagreement with what i'm saying and i seriously doubt you don't understand
 

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You sound broke

@tuckgod dapping a broke washed up sex workers post. You really are a trick.
Aww, you sound jealous that I can demand better treatment than you. I never paid for a date and never will. Keep spliting the Olive Garden bill to try to prove to yourself that you weren't born worthless.

:mjlol:

Creep ass fan, stalking my daps like a weirdo. Never even heard of you. Now you go on the blocklist so I can forget you and you can return to the land of bytch ass nikkas where you belong.


Smoochies
 

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what exactly don't you get sir lol, it's only so many ways i can say what i said.
do you just want my attention? cuz i don't think you have a legit disagreement with what i'm saying and i seriously doubt you don't understand
Yeah what I'm saying is my response to your broad sweeping comment about my poignant and valid statement is also broad and sweeping.

Since we're having a discussion why not elaborate?

I feel my statement didn't really need any further exposition.

You commented on it with a broad general statement that I feel needs a little detail, lest we misinterpret.

If you don't, that's cool, you can just say so and KIM.

But as it stands, you said some dumb shyt and I'm calling you on it.
 

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Aww, you sound jealous that I can demand better treatment than you. I never paid for a date and never will. Keep spliting the Olive Garden bill to try to prove to yourself that you weren't born worthless.

:mjlol:

Creep ass fan, stalking my daps like a weirdo. Never even heard of you. Now you go on the blocklist so I can forget you and you can return to the land of bytch ass nikkas where you belong.


Smoochies
your a sex worker.:pachaha: it don't take more than a couple dollars to get your attention . unlike you I don't have a price:umad:.

block me we still gonna point and laugh at you.
 
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Yeah what I'm saying is my response to your broad sweeping comment about my poignant and valid statement is also broad and sweeping.

Since we're having a discussion why not elaborate?

I feel my statement didn't really need any further exposition.

You commented on it with a broad general statement that I feel needs a little detail, lest we misinterpret.

If you don't, that's cool, you can just say so and KIM.

But as it stands, you said some dumb shyt and I'm calling you on it.

sir, it was actually you that gave a broad sweeping and dumb statement "there are dishonest unscrupulous men AND women, and that both sides need to earn things"

which is why my response was to condition it on common sense "use discernment and act accordingly" rather than treating all types in a certain way as op says "i don't pay for dates anymore"

now where did we get lost? :jbhmm:
 

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sir, it was actually you that gave a broad sweeping and dumb statement "there are dishonest unscrupulous men AND women, and that both sides need to earn things"

which is why my response was to condition it on common sense "use discernment and act accordingly" rather than treating all types in a certain way as op says "i don't pay for dates anymore"

now where did we get lost? :jbhmm:
You think we're saying the same thing?

But you ALSO think I gave a broad, sweeping and dumb statement??
 
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and the common sense i speak of is just based on common courteosy which i hope yall parents taught you a little bit of.

it doesn't makes sense to eyeball someone up and down,
using my looks to bless your eyes,
decide to ask me for personal info and my time
then ask me to spend money, when I dont know you from adam and probably didn't even get the same visual experience

like my job had a after hours thing yesterday.
they wanted us to come out and spend time as a team and build or whatever
they didn't ask us to bring money
they provided food and drinks and prizes lol

i invite someone to my house,
i am going to give them food and drink
i am not going to ask them to bring a meal

etc.

if you feel like it's shady, then maybe you shouldn't be there in the first place!

did yall parents learn you hospitality and grace and common sense? :jbhmm:
 
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You think we're saying the same thing?

But you ALSO think I gave a broad, sweeping and dumb statement??

so when you said women and men have to earn it.... who is exempt from this? if the answer is no one then yes it is a broad statement as it includes everybody, and everybody isn't dishonest and unscrupulous which is the condition which you made this rule based on. if you are treating everyone the same (treatment which goes against common manners i might add) based on a few people, then yes that is dumb. :manny:

which goes back to my og statement.... acting out of baggage is ewwwy.
 

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Aww, you sound jealous that I can demand better treatment than you. I never paid for a date and never will. Keep spliting the Olive Garden bill to try to prove to yourself that you weren't born worthless.

:mjlol:

Creep ass fan, stalking my daps like a weirdo. Never even heard of you. Now you go on the blocklist so I can forget you and you can return to the land of bytch ass nikkas where you belong.


Smoochies
do you have a man right now or a sugar daddy?
 

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i think i'd rather split it with someone who legit doesn't have the money than split with someone that is mad and carrying baggage from past trickin 😓 ewww


You claim 2 be a female right? you one of those "I wanna save you n make you better" girls huh :dead:

you'd be way in the mood if a P pulled out a knot n said I got it dont trip :ufdup:
 

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so when you said women and men have to earn it.... who is exempt from this? if the answer is no one then yes it is a broad statement as it includes everybody, and everybody isn't dishonest and unscrupulous which is the condition which you made this rule based on. if you are treating everyone the same (treatment which goes against common manners i might add) based on a few people, then yes that is dumb. :manny:

which goes back to my og statement.... acting out of baggage is ewwwy.
Everyone isn't dishonest or unscrupulous

But some people are.

And you will never know, so both sides should play it cool and not overinvest time or money into each other.

That's why what you said is lazy, because it is.

It has nothing to do with baggage.
 
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You claim 2 be a female right? you one of those "I wanna save you n make you better" girls huh :dead:

you'd be way in the mood if a P pulled out a knot n said I got it dont trip :ufdup:

i would just think he has manners. cuz before he even gets to that point i'm going to ask how much i owe on the bill..... cuz i was raised proper. get it? its the golden rule in effect, the rules dont depend in what genitals someone has :snoop:
 
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