"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Meanwhile ugly gang already knew the truth on the 1st day of class

 

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I can't believe actually read her article...
I wasted 3 mins of my life on a chick using every excuse in the book to explain away her social deficits by using the issues in the black community as a smokescreen for her problems.

She's a walking breathing Shea Bitter stereotype. I had so many translations running thru my head when I was reading that shyt.
That shyt she said about blk men putting their accomplishments in their profiles reminds me of dumb shyt blk dudes have said about blk women putting their educational achievements in their profile. Stop being a miserable fukk and be proud of people getting their shine on!

Heteroflexibility?! Translation: "I'm lonely b/c Boris Kujoe can't handle all of this so I'm turning to p*ssy.

"This is not a build up for why I no longer date black men."
Translation: Yes it is. I already know ya'll gon accurately call me a c00n imma address it upfront.

"Historical context for issues impacting black community...blah, blah, blah..."
Translation: My own personal issues need a larger platform so I'll use the black community as an excuse for why I suck in relationships.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

That's why I said it's not always on us, it's on them too sometimes. Also not the case at all in the situations I'm speaking of. One chick was just constantly abused and devalued by the men she was with, I know her well enough to know her personality is fine in a relationship. Little-to-nothing wrong with her, but she ended up with guys constantly disrespecting her, cheating on her, etc.

If I were to end up in relationships where I'm constantly being disrespected and cheated on... I would have to check my character because nobody is getting disrespected repeatedly without allowing it. People with high value don't get with people of low morals. Blaming it on me being black and dark would be the last thing on my mind. My two cents

 

[BigMan]

Nah, one of them I know dated a meh looking dude just because she found him intellectually interesting, enjoyable to talk to, and he treated her well and respected her.
Another is dating a guy definitely below her in attractiveness who has his faults really just for the fact that he treats her really well and is kind to her and she's not used to that in the slightest


That's why I said it's not always on us, it's on them too sometimes. Also not the case at all in the situations I'm speaking of. One chick was just constantly abused and devalued by the men she was with, I know her well enough to know her personality is fine in a relationship. Little-to-nothing wrong with her, but she ended up with guys constantly disrespecting her, cheating on her, etc.

I know another girl who just can't get the attention of a lot of brehs in the first place simply because she's dark skinned so it doesn't even get to the relationship phase even though she's like an 8.5 prolly

I believe water finds it’s own level so I doubt there’s “little to nothing wrong” with her if she consistently attracts abusers/cheaters etc. she probably has issues stemming from that and/or is attracted to abusive men

Don’t feel like engaging on the second chick

 

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Nah, one of them I know dated a meh looking dude just because she found him intellectually interesting, enjoyable to talk to, and he treated her well and respected her.
Another is dating a guy definitely below her in attractiveness who has his faults really just for the fact that he treats her really well and is kind to her and she's not used to that in the slightest


That's why I said it's not always on us, it's on them too sometimes. Also not the case at all in the situations I'm speaking of. One chick was just constantly abused and devalued by the men she was with, I know her well enough to know her personality is fine in a relationship. Little-to-nothing wrong with her, but she ended up with guys constantly disrespecting her, cheating on her, etc.

I know another girl who just can't get the attention of a lot of brehs in the first place simply because she's dark skinned so it doesn't even get to the relationship phase even though she's like an 8.5 prolly

I agree with everything you've said and have seen this shyt play out too.

But I think it needs to be underscored that she is not getting overlooked for shallow reasons. Even if she was skinny, she would still be miserable to deal with. Internal ugliness is a waaaaaaaaaaaay stronger cockblock than people wanna acknowledge. She needs counseling. That article is a psychoanalyst's wet dream.
There are so many intriguing questions and insights I could mine from the lil shyt she revealed in her article.

"Why does black male acheivement make her uncomfortable or incensed?"

"What happened in her past relationships?"

"Why does she seem unable to acknowledge toxic behaviors black women engage in with blk men?"

"Let's dig a bit deeper into this heteroflexibility?"

"She automatically comes to the table with negativity and lowered expectations, so why is it a black man's job to pull her out of her fog of miserable fukkism, just to gain the dubious privilege of having to entertain her?"

I wouldn't even wanna be friends with her b/c I hate negative people and it's got nothing to do with how she looks.

 

[Billy Ocean]

You ain’t pro black if you don’t wanna date her

Shut the fukk up. Don't speak on Black issues cac fakkit.

 

[number21]

The reality is she has more dating options than the avg coli dude does

You mean more people willing to fukk and of course breh, shes a woman.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Another obvious cash grab. Shes trying to make a personal issue into some sort of commentary on relationship dynamics. Negus aren't checking for you for a variety of reasons. The kind of man you want is being pursued by several other women too, you need to distinguish yourself if you hope to get his attention. It's really that simple. I'm tired of women and men whining about nobody that they want wanting them back and they're unwilling to make changes in their lives.

Dating as a man is difficult as hell. Let someone be a micro inch under six feet and some chihuahua sized woman be out here talmbout I only date men 6'2 and taller. These women be watching Tyler Perry movies and grey's anatomy thinking that men are naturally rippling with muscle and that shyt doesnt take hours of painful effort and discipline. Talkinbout "I need a man who takes care of himself" while she built like a melting ice cream scoop.

I level these same criticisms to these lame incel herbs who are totally unwilling to read books and study so they can learn how to be more engaging in conversation, how to tell good stories and jokes, how to dress well, how to get into good shape and how to make money, travel the world and have interesting life experiences. Or seek counselling and medication for their mental and emotional problems. Or who dont want to go under the knife to fix their weak chins or long noses or whatever physical issue theyve got going on. These negus really think its everyone else's fault that people dont fukk with them instead of looking in the mirror and being honest about what they need to improve.

 

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Another obvious cash grab. Shes trying to make a personal issue into some sort of commentary on relationship dynamics. Negus aren't checking for you for a variety of reasons. The kind of man you want is being pursued by several other women too, you need to distinguish yourself if you hope to get his attention. It's really that simple. I'm tired of women and men whining about nobody that they want wanting them back and they're unwilling to make changes in their lives.

Dating as a man is difficult as hell. Let someone be a micro inch under six feet and some chihuahua sized woman be out here talmbout I only date men 6'2 and taller. These women be watching Tyler Perry movies and grey's anatomy thinking that men are naturally rippling with muscle and that shyt doesnt take hours of painful effort and discipline. Talkinbout "I need a man who takes care of himself" while she built like a melting ice cream scoop.

I level these same criticisms to these lame incel herbs who are totally unwilling to read books and study so they can learn how to be more engaging in conversation, how to tell good stories and jokes, how to dress well, how to get into good shape and how to make money, travel the world and have interesting life experiences. Or who dont want to go under the knife to fix their weak chins or long noses or whatever physical issue theyve got going on. These negus really think its everyone else's fault that people dont fukk with them instead of looking in the mirror and being honest about what they need to improve.

Yep.
Rejects wanna lead the revolution.

 

[Dave24]

I hear you

But just to make things more interesting, aren't those the same attractive black woman who reject average Urkel nikkas because they are too nice?

So it would be hypocritical to be mad at those type of black man

Do you do good with women? Are a lot of them attracted to you?

 

[bill riser]

I literally can't unsee the bolded now

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

What happened to her top row?

Does a steak not have to be thawed?

 

[Koba St]

Shut the fukk up. Don't speak on Black issues cac fakkit.

One neg and these fakkits start stalking you across the forum.

 

[Billy Ocean]

One neg and these fakkits start stalking you across the forum.

You still acting like you Black on the internet, cac fakkit?

 

[Devilinurear]

@Devilinurear take this one off our hands Playboy

What's her email?