"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

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One chick was just constantly abused and devalued by the men she was with, I know her well enough to know her personality is fine in a relationship. Little-to-nothing wrong with her, but she ended up with guys constantly disrespecting her, cheating on her, etc.

I know another girl who just can't get the attention of a lot of brehs in the first place simply because she's dark skinned so it doesn't even get to the relationship phase even though she's like an 8.5 prolly

The first girl has a problem with choosing the wrong dudes or just plain ole like the that type of treatment.

The second one is probably ignoring the type of guys that is actually giving her attention or you're just gassing her up. I'm not believing a damn near 9 is getting straight ignored by most black men because of skin tone.

These "sob stories" ain't getting sympathy from me or really any dude with their head straight. :yeshrug:
 

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But what she wants is validation from a grudge she is carrying against top tier black dudes who she was invisible to.

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They can't get the black men that they want or feel like they're entitled to, so they make it a black Male issue as a whole.

She looks like Peter Griffin with dreads, so her dating pool is going to be limited to bums and chubby chasers that fetishize her. I bet if a dude approached her that was decent but looked like her, she would reject him.

Aint that P.M Dawn?
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So we just gon lie today baby?:usure:
We just gon act like she ACTUALLY likes black men?

It's not even her weight that's the problem b/c there are dudes who would date her.
But what she wants is validation from a grudge she is carrying against top tier black dudes who she was invisible to.
One of the most irritating aspects of reject culture is the lies. The LIES! They burrrnnn!

:damn: This ain't about blackness or being too "real". This about being unattractive to the men you claim to want.

And I say claim b/c I need people to understand this sickness. A lot of people don't even WANT love. She could have a great blk guy and will STILL shyt on him b/c she has a chip on her shoulder for being considered unattractive by fine dudes growing up.

Rejects take on the persona of extreme entitlement as a defense mechanism for being ignored and or rejected. They crave validation to prove to those that didn't want them that they were worthy.

They want attention.
A large subset of c00ns (b/c ya'll know that's what this hoe is trying to set up a contingency for btw:youngsabo:) fall into this category as well. For many it's not even the lure of whiteness that draws them to non-blks but the hope that somebody will hate on them for being with a non-blk partner.

Again, they want ATTENTION.
But once they get it, it'll never be enough. Nothing feeds that gaping wound to their ego by their initial rejection in their youth. Which is why many who date out will STILL have major hate in their hearts for the opposite sex of their own race even when they get a mythical non-blk partner.:mjlol:

So they will claim to want love but fukk over everybody they encounter until they come to terms with the bitterness that makes them seek attention and validation.
This shyt is fascinating to me.

Cliffs:
-She is pathetic and just wants attention and validation from men that don't want her and I'm fascinated by reject culture and the lies they tell themselves to avoid taking honest inventory of why they are abhorrent to the opposite sex.:francis:
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