If a lady requires her mates to have a car and job then she is materialistic

[Sierra Mist]

True but he said nothing about specifics just a job and a car. Based on the question asked no. How is he surviving without a job and dating someone without a car could be annoying and an inconvenience.

They think a woman demanding a man to have a job and a car means she demands him to be a CEO at a Fortune 500 Company driving a Benz. lol If they live in a city where cars are not needed then I guess it might not matter as much but no job?

 

[rapdonttweet]

As a guy you should be requiring your girlfriend to have a car and a job as well. Its not about being materialistic, its about character. Someone without those things is most likely lazy and unmotivated in life, and dependent on other people.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

As a guy you should be requiring your girlfriend to have a car and a job as well. Its not about being materialistic, its about character. Someone without those things is most likely lazy and unmotivated in life.

I think it is more about adulthood and one should have certain things by a certain time. I know lazy mofos with cars and jobs.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I think it is all about standards, but it's also subjective to where you live. If I lived in NY, I wouldn't expect my dude to be driving since a car isn't a necessity in that city, But a job is a non-negotiable.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Not sure about the car part since its not a necessity unless you live outside a big city but If i had a daughter I wouldnt let her date a dude without a job and his own place.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

A car is one thing.

Why wouldn't a job be a requirement?

I mean if you're a fulltime student/take care of a sick family memeber/disabled etc, that different.

But if you're not doing nothing...........what the fukk are you doing with yourself?

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Materialistic

 

[PabloEscobar]

nikka whats hard to understand about what i said????

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

No you broke ass nikka

spinoza put it perfectly... I wouldnt want my daughter all wifed up w/some broke dude

 

[BrothaZay]

A car is one thing.

Why wouldn't a job be a requirement?

I mean if you're a fulltime student/take care of a sick family memeber/disabled etc, that different.

But if you're not doing nothing...........what the fukk are you doing with yourself?

im trappin

 

[Ain't That Something]

i just want to know, where is it written that having a job and a car disqualifies you from being a bum ass nikka? i know plenty of bum ass nikkas with jobs and cars. that's why that requirement is bunk. it doesn't work and it doesn't disqualify bum ass dudes...

nikka that is not the requirement it's a prerequisite. Just like a phat ass and a nice smile don't make a good woman. It helps eliminates the bums early.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

nikka that is not the requirement it's a prerequisite. Just like a phat ass and a nice smile don't make a good woman. It helps eliminates the bums early.

even as a prerequisite, it doesn't eliminate bums and doesn't attract good people...

 

[Ain't That Something]

even as a prerequisite, it doesn't eliminate bums and doesn't attract good people...

Again it a starting point not the decisive factor. A bum with a job is better than a bum without one. I'm pretty sure.... well I hope these chics are not making their final decision on a job and car alone.

 

[winb83]

Do yall agree

my attitude is this if you have it then you got a right to demand the person you date has it.

if she has a job and a car and wants him to match her then no.
if she doesn't have a job and a car and wants him to have them then yes.

 

[screenname01]

I think it's a stupid requirement because what if the only guy that will ever truly love you for you don't have a car when y'all cross paths? You gonna fukk that off for a car? Of course you'd fukk it off for a car. Second, say you got your own place and your own car and you meet a guy. He got his own apartment and hoopty too and y'all are going around for about a year and he get a call that he just sold his app and now he's rich. Seeing as how he's rich now do he get to flip the script on you and make it a requirement that his women gotta have an s class and a house in Telfair?