If a lady requires her mates to have a car and job then she is materialistic

[Chris.B]

It goes both ways...don't come at me with something you don't have

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Again it a starting point not the decisive factor. A bum with a job is better than a bum without one. I'm pretty sure.... well I hope these chics are not making their final decision on a job and car alone.

they're both bums, who gives a fukk?

 

[Kalik]

Thats basic living necessities breh, unless you both live in a city with major public trans. Subways, cabs etc.

 

[Ain't That Something]

they're both bums, who gives a fukk?

Women. It takes time to know someone, at least they eliminate the jobless one early. It's all part of having a set standard for yourself. A minimum requirement. I do the same a woman has to have a job and a car for me to even give her a chance. Then as I get to know her if she displays bird behavior she is dismissed.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Women. It takes time to know someone, at least they eliminate the jobless one early. It's all part of having a set standard for yourself. A minimum requirement. I do the same a woman has to have a job and a car for me to even give her a chance. Then as I get to know her if she displays bird behavior she is dismissed.

this isn't strengthening your argument. so, use materials as a means to eliminate a person when the materials don't define the person to begin with. your argument makes little sense. maybe it's because this is logic of females (which i won't argue over because it opens another whole can of worms). the focus is on the wrong thing...

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Come on, breh. She (and you) are going to have to have a means to do fun and interesting things. Having a car is all-important to do that. Transportation, shelter, and fun shyt to do. That's all you really need to at least try to get and keep a woman's interest.

 

[Ain't That Something]

this isn't strengthening your argument. so, use materials as a means to eliminate a person when the materials don't define the person to begin with. your argument makes little sense. maybe it's because this is logic of females (which i won't argue over because it opens another whole can of worms). the focus is on the wrong thing...

Again you can take ya broke nikka stand all you want but yes monetary vlaue is a big part in relationship. Facts finances is the 3rd biggest reasom of all divorces.

 

[Fellatio]

most of the ladies on here are dishonest pieces of trash if im honest

 

[Malik]

I had a job and a car in 11th grade breh. You kinda setting the bar a little low here, dont you think?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I think it's a stupid requirement because what if the only guy that will ever truly love you for you don't have a car when y'all cross paths? You gonna fukk that off for a car? Of course you'd fukk it off for a car. Second, say you got your own place and your own car and you meet a guy. He got his own apartment and hoopty too and y'all are going around for about a year and he get a call that he just sold his app and now he's rich. Seeing as how he's rich now do he get to flip the script on you and make it a requirement that his women gotta have an s class and a house in Telfair?

There is more than one person for everybody bruh.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

this isn't strengthening your argument. so, use materials as a means to eliminate a person when the materials don't define the person to begin with. your argument makes little sense. maybe it's because this is logic of females (which i won't argue over because it opens another whole can of worms). the focus is on the wrong thing...

I dont see what you are crying about. If you dont have a job, why would you want to date a woman who requires them? You wouldnt be on the same page. People have the right to date who they want, and theres nothing unreasonable about wanting to be with someone who is in a certain place in life. Especially if you are at or past that place.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Again you can take ya broke nikka stand all you want but yes monetary vlaue is a big part in relationship. Facts finances is the 3rd biggest reasom of all divorces.

don't get it twisted, i'm not arguing for being broke, i'm pointing out the obvious flaw in the system. and your point about finances being the third biggest reason leading to divorce doesn't mean shyt. sounds like people are requiring people to have jobs and cars and shyt but still breaking up with them later because of some financial reason. obviously focusing on finances isn't making marriages last longer. you keep on proving my point and making it more powerful honestly...

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I dont see what you are crying about. If you dont have a job, why would you want to date a woman who requires them? You wouldnt be on the same page. People have the right to date who they want, and theres nothing unreasonable about wanting to be with someone who is in a certain place in life. Especially if you are at or past that place.

you're discussing a different point all together. now you're talking about why should a man pursue a woman that requires these things of him. i'm talking about why the requirements make no sense. trust me, if a bytch told me i needed to do x, y, and z to get with her, i wouldn't mess with her personally...

 

[Ain't That Something]

Come on, breh. She (and you) are going to have to have a means to do fun and interesting things. Having a car is all-important to do that. Transportation, shelter, and fun shyt to do. That's all you really need to at least try to get and keep a woman's interest.

nikkas love having the standards lowered for them but have ridiculous requirement for chicks. What I look like riding the Bus going out on a date or invite her over and tell her to get an all day pass :hey:

 

[Ain't That Something]

don't get it twisted, i'm not arguing for being broke, i'm pointing out the obvious flaw in the system. and your point about finances being the third biggest reason leading to divorce doesn't mean shyt. sounds like people are requiring people to have jobs and cars and shyt but still breaking up with them later because of some financial reason. obviously focusing on finances isn't making marriages last longer. you keep on proving my point and making it more powerful honestly...

Ain't no point even debating with you. You obviously done watch too many movies.

Women crave security and one of the means to provide said security is to be financially stable. When that stability gets rocky so does the relationship. Now you can keep believing the fairy tales all you want to but it want change life and reality.

Now you go be happy with a female that you got to support financially and I will go be happy with a female that is on the same financial lane that I am and coming up