if she never reaches out to you first...

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just wondering how all of y'all deal with this.

You communicating with a girl trying to see what's up, and she never reaches out to you first... it's always you reaching out to her first, and if you don't reach out, you'll never hear from her.

the convo is decent enough when I do reach out.... but I can go a week without saying anything to her, and she wont even shoot me a text to see if I'm okay

I'm feeling like I'm ready to end this... :patrice:

and chalk it up to the game... :yeshrug:

This real easy, dawg. You don't have to think too hard about this one. She's not that into you. Just stop texting her. Simple and plain.

And learn this lesson for next time: the lesser you stress her, the quicker she falls.
 

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Are you fukking her? If not then just ignore that bytch forever. And when she does eventually hit you up be like "oh you tryna come over and bangout?" If she says no swerve her like i said.


If you're fukking then just continue to fukk. Step your D game up and may she'll start contacting you first. Doesn't matter either way. Lol p*ssy is p*ssy. But stop calling/texting the bytch. When you hit her up just be like "you ready to meet? Nah? K text me when you can meet"
all of this is the truth op
 

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If you like her you should say something to her. Doesn't have to be confrontational just a "hey why don't you ever hit me up first?" or something like that. If you come off as busy maybe she doesn't want to be a bother so she just waits on you. If she still doesn't make any initiative after you've pointed it out, then just leave her alone.
 

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In 5 sec she about to garggle some balls



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Yup she's just took one to the face



But ya keep texting her
 

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This real easy, dawg. You don't have to think too hard about this one. She's not that into you. Just stop texting her. Simple and plain.

And learn this lesson for next time: the lesser you stress her, the quicker she falls.
Yup

Problem is that nikkas have to much pride

Rule number..you gotta accept the fact that not every girl will be in to


Put your ego to the side and Kim

And damn have a roster ...smh at only relaying on one girl to eat
 

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If you like her you should say something to her. Doesn't have to be confrontational just a "hey why don't you ever hit me up first?" or something like that. If you come off as busy maybe she doesn't want to be a bother so she just waits on you. If she still doesn't make any initiative after you've pointed it out, then just leave her alone.
Nah, don't ask her why she doesn't text you first. :comeon: If she were interested, she'd text you. That should be apparent.
 

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Nah, don't ask her why she doesn't text you first. :comeon: If she were interested, she'd text you. That should be apparent.
I think that's an assumption. Like I said if he comes off as busy or working a lot she may not want to call an interrupt something. I am just speaking from my recent experience and how I think sometimes, especially when I talk to someone new.
 

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I think that's an assumption. Like I said if he comes off as busy or working a lot she may not want to call an interrupt something. I am just speaking from my recent experience and how I think sometimes, especially when I talk to someone new.
Its extremely easy to send a text tho. Its not really an interruption because you can respond at any time
 

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If you like her you should say something to her. Doesn't have to be confrontational just a "hey why don't you ever hit me up first?" or something like that. If you come off as busy maybe she doesn't want to be a bother so she just waits on you. If she still doesn't make any initiative after you've pointed it out, then just leave her alone.


remember to never listen to advice from women breh

asking a woman hey why don't you ever hit me up first will kill EVERYTHING as you come across as desperate in her mind.
 

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Its extremely easy to send a text tho. Its not really an interruption because you can respond at any time
Not everyone thinks that way though. My friend dug in my shyt for the same thing.
him: Don't you want to talk to me?
me: Yeah
him: Then why the fukk you don't hit me up then?

I was like :lupe: my bad. I'm not saying beg her to hit you up but you could ask. Women are weird and could be thinking anything.
 
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