If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple
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Out of any 2 people or several hundred thousand or million somebody is most superior, someone would be next and so on.
There is no such thing as 100% equal.
I look at as he's 100 and I am 99. Contrary to what has been bandied about in this thread it's not 100 to 0 or even 100 to 50.
In my household and family my husband is the final or biggest authority. That doesn't mean at all that I have no authority.
I have an equal amount of authority as he does.We are the adults and we are partners. However we discussed way back when we were dating if there was ever gonna be a major decision and we couldn't agree who would make the final decision and we both decided together it would be him.
Most often we discuss and agree without much hoopla because we love and respect each others thought process and both of us have an end goal of what is best for our entire family.
It's not as nefarious as some would like it to sound lol. He doesn't have me chained to the stove and only stops by to give me chores or shove his dikk in my mouth.
how do I feel being the "inferior one" in my relationship? I have a really amazing relationship so I feel great.
I personally have no interest I n having an inferior man by my side.
what would I ever want that for?
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UpAndComing
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Out of any 2 people or several hundred thousand or million somebody is most superior, someone would be next and so on.
There is no such thing as 100% equal.
I look at as he's 100 and I am 99. Contrary to what has been bandied about in this thread it's not 100 to 0 or even 100 to 99.
In my household and family my husband is the final or biggest authority. That doesn't mean at all that I have no authority.
I have an equal amount of authority as he does.We are the adults and we are partners. However we discussed way back when we were dating if there was ever gonna be a major decision and we couldn't agree who would make the final decision and we both decided together it would be him.
Most often we discuss and agree without much hoopla because we love and respect each others thought process and both of us have an end goal of what is best for our entire family.
It's not as nefarious as some would like it to sound lol. He doesn't have me chained to the stove and only stops by to give me chores or shove his dikk in my mouth.
how do I feel being the "inferior one" in my relationship? I have a really amazing relationship so I feel great.
I personally have no interest I n having an inferior man by my side.
what would I ever want that for?
Such a beautiful post
Drip Bayless
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Well she better be a virgin
Because these days its most likely for your girl to have been with plenty of other dudes before me
They all fukked her and got service from her without marriage
So don't act like the cost of getting treated like a boss is at an all time high
Maybe if i was her first or something
Out of any 2 people or several hundred thousand or million somebody is most superior, someone would be next and so on.
There is no such thing as 100% equal.
I look at as he's 100 and I am 99. Contrary to what has been bandied about in this thread it's not 100 to 0 or even 100 to 50.
In my household and family my husband is the final or biggest authority. That doesn't mean at all that I have no authority.
I have an equal amount of authority as he does.We are the adults and we are partners. However we discussed way back when we were dating if there was ever gonna be a major decision and we couldn't agree who would make the final decision and we both decided together it would be him.
Most often we discuss and agree without much hoopla because we love and respect each others thought process and both of us have an end goal of what is best for our entire family.
It's not as nefarious as some would like it to sound lol. He doesn't have me chained to the stove and only stops by to give me chores or shove his dikk in my mouth.
how do I feel being the "inferior one" in my relationship? I have a really amazing relationship so I feel great.
I personally have no interest I n having an inferior man by my side.
what would I ever want that for?
See fellas this is why she is married in the first place
Her attitude is proper
She helps to create a happy work environment for her family gladly
Then if you are holding her against that standard you better be a virgin with stacks. Yall nikkas stupid as fukk and very unrealistic.
HellRell804
Banned
Lol if you read the bible you would know that he gave this world to the devil. That's why everything is ass backwards. White folks are literally waging a war on Nature/God. Its hilarious to watch weak black people try to be down. Get your testosterone up and be a man. Then you won't need a masculine woman for balance.
Proverbs 21:19
"It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman"
If a girl isn't submissive and isn't comfortable as the man taking the lead, I don't even look her way
I see all this back and forth on these threads about the relationship dynamic and modern women. It just makes no sense. nikkas in here puling their hair out on what happened to women
Simple, just get you a submissive woman
I can't count how many times I've talked to women who were proud about not knowing how to cook and clean, and dismissing them and deleting their numbers. It feels great. No sense in stressing about it
My last girlfriend was submissive, and I loved it
-Cooked and cleaned to perfection
-Always cooked a hot meal for me when I came back from work
-Held my opinions with weight, and listened to my advice
-Never denied me sex cause she wanted to "teach me a lesson" or "was mad at me"
-Did every type of sexual thing under the sun, freak in the sheets
-Never got an attitude with me
-Convos always flowed smoothly. Would give great advice, without a reprimanding/condescending tone
Every week I see a thread of "Oh my women won't do this", "Oh women these days are always saying this"
Just leave those feminists alone brehs. Don't attack them, don't try to apply logic to their lives. Leave them be. It would be like putting a square peg in a circular hole. It just won't work. If they want to be alone forever, that's on them
Any guy who deals with a feminist, have fun
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/advice-on-the-role-of-a-woman-to-a-real-man.297252/
MrSinnister
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It's all good for them to be submissive, until they turn on you lmao. If they're submissive to you, then they can be for their bosses, friends, families, etc..etc. Say you were having a secret relationship with a woman that really love you, but being submissive, she had to weigh everyone else's opinions about you when you two are found out (nothing nefarious, just an international LTR).
She was a sub when we started talking because she didn't have a strong father (he was always drunk or awkward). I feel in love, deeply, with this woman and her bosses introduced her to their nephew lmao. A strong woman would've been able to work in the Mid. East, while I was grinding in college and knew our future was how we'd planned it.
I made her into an equal, but the sub failed me and us and nearly drove me to insanity with all the time she took up (beautiful but clingy as hell) after she burn noticed me. Nah, no more weak women for me. Too much fixer upper and empathy with little cache gained from it.
Give me a strong woman with her shut together that demands I catch up and keep up with her without being a cut about it. Especially in front of the children. We'd all be stronger and that temptation from insecurity shyt is a none issue.
She was a sub when we started talking because she didn't have a strong father (he was always drunk or awkward). I feel in love, deeply, with this woman and her bosses introduced her to their nephew lmao. A strong woman would've been able to work in the Mid. East, while I was grinding in college and knew our future was how we'd planned it.
I made her into an equal, but the sub failed me and us and nearly drove me to insanity with all the time she took up (beautiful but clingy as hell) after she burn noticed me. Nah, no more weak women for me. Too much fixer upper and empathy with little cache gained from it.
Give me a strong woman with her shut together that demands I catch up and keep up with her without being a cut about it. Especially in front of the children. We'd all be stronger and that temptation from insecurity shyt is a none issue.
@MrSinnister if you ask me traditional marriage works best when both partners are natural leaders
The male is still the leader of his household while the woman is more than capable of leading
In your absence.
A strong man is best paired with a strong woman who respects and admires his strength intelligence and leadership.
The male is still the leader of his household while the woman is more than capable of leading
In your absence.
A strong man is best paired with a strong woman who respects and admires his strength intelligence and leadership.
MrSinnister
Delete account when possible.
I didn't love her because she was submissive. I did because she was intelligent, multi-lingual, had a good heart, and beautiful. Just had a couple bad boyfriends before me that had her jaded and withdrawn. It started as the best decision I'd ever made to learn and pick her up.
Then the inevitable conflict. She just couldn't handle when things got less than perfect at times and lost focus. Not necessarily blaming me, but herself a lot, and was too sensitive to course correction. Always thought I would leave her from little faults. But, again , the great days were amazing. I just think she was a borderline personality, as I'd never put so much to seemingly get so little respect in the end for it.
My mother ain't submissive and my daddy ain't no hoe.
How the hell have these two strong-willed individuals stayed married for 42+ years?
They submit to each other and they are honest about who is better at what. They also want to help each other become better and learn whatever they are weak in, so there's very little ego in them.
They've argued and disagreed, but their pragmatism and common sense doesn't allow them to hold a grudge when something needs to be done.
To this day I'm blessed to have a father who NEVER implied that my mother was inferior or needed to submit to him in ANY way. If he sees weakness in my mother, hell he is the one who pushes her to eliminate it. ( she could careless about learning "man shyt" as she says).
To this day, I've never seen a time when my mother didn't support or uplift my father, even when he was out of work for a year and she had to be the primary provider.
Some of ya'll will never know what it looks like for a man and a woman to live together on the same page w/o needing subservience or submission because you've never seen what that looks like. It's compromise and wanting each other to live to their fullest potential that is most important.
For all the bytching and whining about submission, I have yet to hear any of this. Which let's me know you don't deserve it anyway.
How the hell have these two strong-willed individuals stayed married for 42+ years?
They submit to each other and they are honest about who is better at what. They also want to help each other become better and learn whatever they are weak in, so there's very little ego in them.
They've argued and disagreed, but their pragmatism and common sense doesn't allow them to hold a grudge when something needs to be done.
To this day I'm blessed to have a father who NEVER implied that my mother was inferior or needed to submit to him in ANY way. If he sees weakness in my mother, hell he is the one who pushes her to eliminate it. ( she could careless about learning "man shyt" as she says).
To this day, I've never seen a time when my mother didn't support or uplift my father, even when he was out of work for a year and she had to be the primary provider.
Some of ya'll will never know what it looks like for a man and a woman to live together on the same page w/o needing subservience or submission because you've never seen what that looks like. It's compromise and wanting each other to live to their fullest potential that is most important.
For all the bytching and whining about submission, I have yet to hear any of this. Which let's me know you don't deserve it anyway.
havoc
Superstar
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FreedS[ohh]lave
Banned
Out of any 2 people or several hundred thousand or million somebody is most superior, someone would be next and so on.
There is no such thing as 100% equal.
I look at as he's 100 and I am 99. Contrary to what has been bandied about in this thread it's not 100 to 0 or even 100 to 50.
In my household and family my husband is the final or biggest authority. That doesn't mean at all that I have no authority.
I have an equal amount of authority as he does.We are the adults and we are partners. However we discussed way back when we were dating if there was ever gonna be a major decision and we couldn't agree who would make the final decision and we both decided together it would be him.
Most often we discuss and agree without much hoopla because we love and respect each others thought process and both of us have an end goal of what is best for our entire family.
It's not as nefarious as some would like it to sound lol. He doesn't have me chained to the stove and only stops by to give me chores or shove his dikk in my mouth.
how do I feel being the "inferior one" in my relationship? I have a really amazing relationship so I feel great.
I personally have no interest I n having an inferior man by my side.
what would I ever want that for?
Beautiful post
I tell dudes all the time women want their man to be the superior one!
The minute a women feels she's better then you or even equal she's gone
She wants to look UP to you not down or equal