If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

[The Maverick]

Any woman surrendering her decision making skills and free will to a man that is not her husband is a fool. These dudes can't lead a horse to water, and they expecting women to rely on them to survive. Y'all trying to lead these women off a cliff.

 

[Killer Instinct]

These dudes can't lead a horse to water, and they expecting women to rely on them to survive. Y'all trying to lead these women off a cliff.

With this type of cynicism and extremes, why even bother getting married?
If you won't sample the milk before purchasing the cow, why look for a long term mate in the first place?
Since it seems so many men are incapable of tying their own shoes, wouldn't one be better served not entertaining marriage at all?
I mean, you don't trust him to lead you while you're unmarried, so why run the risk of marriage?

 

[714562]

My last girlfriend was submissive, and I loved it
-Cooked and cleaned to perfection
-Always cooked a hot meal for me when I came back from work
-Held my opinions with weight, and listened to my advice
-Never denied me sex cause she wanted to "teach me a lesson" or "was mad at me"
-Did every type of sexual thing under the sun, freak in the sheets
-Never got an attitude with me
-Convos always flowed smoothly. Would give great advice, without a reprimanding/condescending tone

Nothing on your list really has anything to do with being submissive.

sub·mis·sive
səbˈmisiv/
adjective
adjective: submissive

1. ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive.

As far as I know, women can cook and be polite without being submissive. And shyt, cooking is a skill that both sexes find attractive. It'd be cool to have a wife that did all those things, but I also don't want to live with some some mute housekeeper. That's boring.

 

[Yup]

I am childless, don't have an account on LSA

Ok

 

[010101]

women are submissive
to dominant males*

 

[Dev2103]

basically...not worth the stress and trouble. happy wife happy life doormat lifestyle being controlled due to weakness for the boxdap/rep

 

[FeloniousMonk]

So to force a woman to be my subservient is to hinder her forward progression as a human.

Who said force..did you not read my first sentence?



Submission has nothing to do with force..

Daam some of you Coli people..

 

[FeloniousMonk]

You couldn't sound anymore like a bytch if you tried.......

Haha

I actually thought he was until he posted he was male.

 

[Queen]

You might as well just give up on life now if you think that way, what do you think dating is? It's the screening process to find the partner that you will mate with for life smh

Dating is practice for divorce. I have never advocated dating because its a poisonous mindset that allows you to view people as disposable. That is a hard habit to break.

Most of you aren't screening anything, you are running through women left and right while leaving them emotionally damaged and sullied for the next dude to deal with. Most if you aren't looking for a life partner because you don't have to. That is why women need to take back control of expectations and stop giving up so much for little in return.

Courting is the screening process for marriage and when done properly it does not involve sexual intercourse. It involves evaluating a persons values, life goals, and mindset. Courting does not involve viewing people as buffet items to pick through.

Guess what, the whole free sex with no expectations thing isn't working out. It doesn't benefit women or children. It's time to try something else.

 

[freetroit]

These hoes so far removed from their nature as helpers

Alot of bytches go to church where their god has told they dumb asses that he invented them for the purpose of helping men

God created women to help and serve us men

The fact that they have abandoned that role to become our competitors is the problem

Men and women were not created to compete with each other

Most women would rather do all the things men do rather than have their own identity

Everything is about

Well men do it so can i
You do it too
I can do things better than you

I think submissiveness is born from the mind of a woman who views herself as a mans helper

Combativeness is born from the mind of a woman who wants to compete with her man

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Using the word submissive always throws these condos into a tizzy.
I am not a submissive person. I am pretty aggressive.
I submit to my husband.

The definition of submission is to yield to a superior force. In order for someone to be superior, that means someone else is inferior. How do you handle being the inferior person in your marriage?

 

[FeloniousMonk]

If women aren't submissve, they wouldnt wait to be approached by men..

They would know by instinct who's a good provider and who isn't and go in for the commitment!

Now with that being said...how many women in this thread went after their s/o and remains the leader and protector?

 

[freetroit]

I know women are inferior because when you allow them to lead even when they are wrong they blame men

I have heard women say you the man you should have stopped me

The way they skirt responsibility and blame men proves they are inferior

When women are fukking up they can fall back on the excuse

That an aint shyt woman is the creation of an aint shyt man

So since we will be blamed anyway might as well be the dominant one

Thats my logic on the subject

 

[The Maverick]

With this type of cynicism and extremes, why even bother getting married?
If you won't sample the milk before purchasing the cow, why look for a long term mate in the first place?
Since it seems so many men are incapable of tying their own shoes, wouldn't one be better served not entertaining marriage at all?
I mean, you don't trust him to lead you while you're unmarried, so why run the risk of marriage?

The thing is, a lot of dudes can't act right and women are still giving them enough cache to try lead them. Even to their own detriment, a lot of women are giving men the opportunity to establish themselves as the head of the household. Some men just ain't worth the title. A woman doesn't gain much by surrendering her will to a man who will not commit to making an honest woman out of her.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I have heard women say you the man you should have stopped me