If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

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:martin:@ everyone questioning why OP isn't with his ex anymore. Sometimes sht happens, even if the relationship was going well. Y'all too damn old not to know this.

I have learned to background check anyone that claims to be an authority on anything. Most "preachers" don't practice what they preach to others.

If someone that perfect got the boot people will obviously want to know why. Especially if you presented that person as the best thing since slice bread.
 

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The thread starter is right in theory but unfortunately it never works out that way. If I were single I'd want men who are desperate to find power in life by demanding submission in their women to avoid me like the plague just like I'd avoid them. But people are always trying to get others to live as they live to justify the way they are living. Its why thread starter and those agreeing with him will shame men who don't want the same and talk badly about women who don't want the same.

You should visit Africa then
 

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This thread was entertaining. One if the things I've loved about this board is how long its been around. You get to see entire evolutions.

Young, impressionable kids get a few college courses under their belt and think they know everything. They know more than god lol. The world smacks them in the face time and time again and reveals the true nature of things. The smart ones start figuring it out and adapting. The losers keep complaining to the bitter end. And the old heads who went thru this same progression are like :mindblown:

Tl,DR: people would be happier if they stoppee fighting God/ Nature/ the natural order whatever you want to call it. Its man, woman, child smh

Biology is undefeated
Its hilarious watching some squirm against it though :whew:
 

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More about this ex he so-called was perfect, looks like he wasn't up to her standards lol:

My ex broke my heart. She basically told me she doesnt want anything to do with me. Not even be friends. Hardest breakup i ever had. I didnt sell her dreams. I sold myself a dream. That break up made me realize that every woman isnt genuine.

I do appreciate the LSA advice. they get me through my situations lol

Met Her At 10PM......Taking That Down At 2AM - Page 2
 

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I'm African (Parents from there). This thread just keeps getting better and better :laff::laff::laff:

Your parents being from Africa doesn't mean you've lived there to speak with any type of authority. I've lived in various countries in (Western) Africa for months at a time and for as much as submissiveness is associated with women, healthy modern African families (those with wealth anyway) run more like an equal partnership. However, admittedly, they do still mostly play lip service to that way of life, but they don't really operate that way. This is what I've seen with my own eyes.
 

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Your parents being from Africa doesn't mean you've lived there to speak with any type of authority. I've in various countries in (Western) Africa for months at a time and for as much as submissiveness is associated with women, healthy modern African families (those with wealth anyway) run more like an equal partnership. However, admittedly, they do still mostly play lip service to that way of life, but they don't really operate that way. This is what I've seen with my own eyes.

Stop backtracking. You said I "prob never been there", and I proved that I visited there a couple times :mjlol:
 

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Your parents being from Africa doesn't mean you've lived there to speak with any type of authority. I've in various countries in (Western) Africa for months at a time and for as much as submissiveness is associated with women, healthy modern African families (those with wealth anyway) run more like an equal partnership. However, admittedly, they do still mostly play lip service to that way of life, but they don't really operate that way. This is what I've seen with my own eyes.
Came back from Africa in June 2015...that has been my experience.
 
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