If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

freetroit

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Sometimes you gotta let a bytch do what she wants to do bruh

Live and learn

That was back when i actually believed women were eQual to me in their logic
 

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This thread was entertaining. One if the things I've loved about this board is how long its been around. You get to see entire evolutions.

Young, impressionable kids get a few college courses under their belt and think they know everything. They know more than god lol. The world smacks them in the face time and time again and reveals the true nature of things. The smart ones start figuring it out and adapting. The losers keep complaining to the bitter end. And the old heads who went thru this same progression are like :mindblown:

Tl,DR: people would be happier if they stoppee fighting God/ Nature/ the natural order whatever you want to call it. Its man, woman, child smh
Why can't you guys just be happy saying this is what I want personally? You really gonna pull the, this goes against nature thing? Living past 40, and driving cars pumping carbon out by the liter also go against nature, but you're gonna pretend that doesnt happen huh? And if you read the bible, you'd know God is not very smart
 

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I want to drive a tesla but the cacs are holding it back because they own gas companies i want the price to go down first

But this isnt a discussion about cars

Why can't you guys just be happy saying this is what I want personally? You really gonna pull the, this goes against nature thing? Living past 40, and driving cars pumping carbon out by the liter also go against nature, but you're gonna pretend that doesnt happen huh? And if you read the bible, you'd know God is not very smart
 

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I cook also, and have been since I was 14. I cooked all the time with her, and cook together with my current girl. I also do my own laundry

Cooking and cleaning to perfection is a trait that ALL wives and girlfriends should have, plain and simple. Just like providing for your girl is what I did for her. Why the assumption that I didn't? :patrice:

This "She's my personal slave" angle is getting tired

And the ability to pay for the majority of all your girlfriend's expenses is something that ALL MEN should be able to do for every girl they wanna get with, right?

I don't care as long as you're not being hypocritical. You're saying that girls shouldn't be with dudes aren't financially supporting them like a husband would and guys shouldn't be with women who aren't submissive, right?
 

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Your parents being from Africa doesn't mean you've lived there to speak with any type of authority. I've lived in various countries in (Western) Africa for months at a time and for as much as submissiveness is associated with women, healthy modern African families (those with wealth anyway) run more like an equal partnership. However, admittedly, they do still mostly play lip service to that way of life, but they don't really operate that way. This is what I've seen with my own eyes.
You have no idea what the hell you're talking about.
 

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These hoes so far removed from their nature as helpers

Alot of bytches go to church where their god has told they dumb asses that he invented them for the purpose of helping men

God created women to help and serve us men

The fact that they have abandoned that role to become our competitors is the problem

Men and women were not created to compete with each other

Most women would rather do all the things men do rather than have their own identity

Everything is about

Well men do it so can i
You do it too
I can do things better than you

I think submissiveness is born from the mind of a woman who views herself as a mans helper

Combativeness is born from the mind of a woman who wants to compete with her man
All that shyt isn't for every man but the one man she marries and no where did it say she is to serve him, its says she is the companion. You nikkas are crazy as fukk to look at women like objects and things to own.
 
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Here's where a lot of y'all nikkas get fukked up in the game. You aint gotta tell a women to be submissive. You aint gotta even bring the subject up. You just have to be a man worth submitting to and women will naturally fall in line. The reality is most y'all nikkas really aint bout shyt and the women you fukk with treat you accordingly.

Why would a women follow you when most y'all nikkas can't even lead yourselves out of debt?

:ehh: The 'ol "treat 'em how you meet 'em approach. That's why I :mjlol: when some some dudes cosign this narrative like there ain't some of us who can't even handle their own business :childplease: Like some adult woman wants to follow some dusty nikka to the poorhouse with no way out or worse. Don't forget this is someone's daughter, who didn't exactly raise their kid to just be somebody's appendage, especially someone who's just a failure.

Plus there's some confusion between "submissive" (always agrees with you, makes absolutely no decisions and has to wait for you to give the final say, even when pressed by herself, just literally revolves her lifestyle around you) and respectful (not being spiteful, listens and gives advice, open-minded...kinda like OP's ex :leon:!), so you need to know what you are talking about.

If you want something like either one, you need to put in some kinda legwork too. Not saying you gotta be the perfect guy off some lame fantasy, but be something worth it.
 

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submissive..

is a little boring.

I prefer wild cats... sex is better with strong minded women ..

she only needs to be submissive in the bedroom


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