"If you make $80,000 you have no business marrying a woman that makes $35,000"

[BlackBall]

Men generally dgaf how much a woman makes, although i get the logic. Eventually you gonna get divorce and owe alot more money to a broke woman then you would have if you have been with a successful one.

Yup

 

[Bubba T]

Another example of people not understanding the concept of marriage and using “tradition” to promote their selfish desires.

Do yourselves a favor and don’t get married. A lot of you can’t handle it.

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

There is no benefit to marriage. Stay single. fukk bytches. Get money.

The only flaw in this is children

Marriage is really about raising kids together and family unit

If you don't want to have kids then I agree.. don't ever get married.

 

[Rawtid]

I’m convinced that some of y’all gonna be stuck on high school mode til death and miss out on growing up and dealing with life.

That’s what they want. It’s tough being an adult and many are too scared to do so.

 

[Rawtid]

This thread is lowkey fascinating, brehs are claiming to want the old ways of engagement (being the sole provider) regardless of the fact that the institution of marriage and inter-martial relations has vastly changed for several reasons (economically, financially, socially, culturally, etc...).
It actually explains why things are the way they are nowadays, men are willingly refusing to adapt despite being in the losing end of the bargain at the current time.

Yes.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

LMAO

MEN HAVE NEVER CARED ABOUT
HOW MUCH THEIR WIFE MAKES
AND ACTUALLY PREFERRED HER
TO A BE A STAY AT HOME MOM.

HE DOESNT SPEAK LIKE
A HETEROSEXUAL MAN.

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Rules have changed in this modern age
Social class gap has increased

 

[Yinny]

Cool story but this message is not told to women at all.


The message is clear on the women side that “love does not pay bills”.

It doesn’t, neither does a wet a** or c***

 

[Rawtid]

Cool story but this message is not told to women at all.


The message is clear on the women side that “love does not pay bills”.

Women labeled “pick me’s” don’t feel this way.

 

[EndDomination]

If you make $80,000 and you marry someone making $35,000.00. You know have a household income of $115,000.00. Sounds like more money to me.

 

[#1 pick]

He's right.

 

[EndDomination]

Pretty sure a lot of people who are getting screwed over by alimony thought as you do.

The majority of divorced men aren’t paying alimony.

 

[#1 pick]

No men have never preferred this

Marriage is a partnership first and foremost

 

[malleymal]

When it started dating my now wife, she was making 40 thou and I was at 70 or so. I am well into 6 figures now and she is making more than me and also working on her doctorate. This is some foolishness.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

If she’s bad enough why would anyone care? Her money isn’t going to satisfy men this man.

Plus … not to go all 6 figures, 6 feet on anyone but making more than her to me is a must.

First comes the money
Then the power
Then the respect.

Men care when it's divorce time

 

[#1 pick]

When it started dating my now wife, she was making 40 thou and I was at 70 or so. I am well into 6 figures now and she is making more than me and also working on her doctorate. This is some foolishness.

You is what he's talking about dummy