I'm 40 today. Does life truly begin now?

UpAndComing

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Man look, I know I'm not even in my prime yet. I can't be, I spent the majority of my life fukking off. Physically, I'm starting to grow a gut (I don't drink) and put on more weight, but I feel tremendous. I look at it like i have a chance to really atone for a bunch of wasted years, and I'm really pleased with the trajectory of what I'm building...

To be clear though, my 20s didn't suck in my opinion. I just wasted time doing shyt that ultimately wasn't productive. But i had a shytload of fun: traveled the country, had sex with alota different women, sold alota drugs, and met some great people. Learned alota lessons too, most of them the hard way for sure, but those lessons were needed to develop me into the man I am now, and the one I'll ultimately become...

These 30s might be better than anybody's 30s ever lol...



No doubt, appreciate it fam!


Yeah that's what I mean. The fact that you weren't productive means it sucked
And even if you are somewhat productive, that learning/growing process sucks as well. You go through so much trials and tribulations, so much self doubt, so much failure.... But none of this is a bad thing though. Its a process

That "sucks" feeling is a pathway to success
 

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Think you're looking at it backwards. 30 to 40s is the time period where you truly understand yourself and understand a lot of other things especially money. Had fun in my twenties but in my 30s life is way better.

Gotta harp about on you about the women comment. I will take a mid 30 women in the bedroom over any of these airheads 20's women in a heartbeat. Either way blessing breh!
 

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OP, I am about to be 69 and I too feel that life has just begun. I have been growing plants in my spare time and prb 90 percent of my home is filled with plants until I can barely walk through it. They are up to the ceiling by now and there's birds in the house even though the windows are never open. The air quality of my home is incredible. Also, I have joined some library clubs, such as stitching and a book club and also, i recently bought some sweaters. I'm not saying these things to try and stunt on other dudes who aren't on this level, but just to give encouragement and knowledge that you just have to go out there and make it happen.
 

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So. Let me get this straight. Because I don't find some balding, crypt keeper looking, bland joke telling, pudgy stomach having, try hard CAC funny, that means I have a "low IQ"? Funny. That's EXACTLY something a CAC would say. Oh. And your screen name gives away your CACness as well.Whenever a Black man doesn't fall for or go along with your bullshyt, our intelligence is immediately called into question. Well. fukk BOTH of you sun allergic, red faced, micro penis inflicted, banana in the sun aging CACs. Hop off my dikk. Not spending the first day of my forties arguing with some alt right angry CAC who's waiting to snap to go shoot up a mall. Go troll somewhere else. Won't see another word that you write. Ignore :umad:

Lol you nerd. If you think you're talking to a white person because I posted a video that popped on my YouTube list yesterday you are retarded. 40 ain't nothing special about it. Only a loser post their birthday here because they don't have real friends to talk to.

My screen name is from this song where Birdman says it..

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Hold that L you dusty ass nikka
 

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Welp. Let's see how this middle age thing works out :flabbynsick: Women my age range are all bitter and damaged goods. Blew out p*ssy, b*stard kids, and trash bodies. My wrist and knee pain and dings from the gym are lingering a little longer than usual for me. Harder and harder to keep in shape. Gotta worry about old nikka shyt like getting my prostate checked and high blood pressure and diabetes medication. I'm not liking this aging shyt at all :mjcry: But I'm happy to be alive:blessed:Life's a bytch, but God forbid the bytch divorce me :ahh:
I'll be with you in 15 months
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