I'm dating this single mom

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Please treat the mothers good out there y'all.

 

[MalikX]

You can do much better than a single mother?

Are you homeless?
Are you living in your car?
Do you work at McDonalds?
Are you over 40 years old?
Do you have kids?
Are you dead ass broke?
Are you hideously ugly or overweight?

If your answer is no to all those questions, then why are you with a single mom? Find a childless woman and build your own legacy

 

[MalikX]

No you don't. You simply have years and years of bitterness around not being "chose" by the girls you desired in middle-school, high-school, and young adulthood (I doubt you went to college).

Instead of looking in the mirror and really peering into the essence of who you are, your wants, your desires, your needs, your ambitions, your flaws, your insecurities, and your fears, you decided to walk around and play victim all day long.

People change. The girls you wanted back then are not the same girls. The person you were back then should not be the person you are now. You should understand this change and flow with it, instead you're stuck with the image of who you were back then and the hurt and pain you endured during that time.

The truth is, they didn't want you back then because you were lame. The truth is, they don't want you now because you walk around with a chip on your shoulder, still in victim mode, looking to hurt anyone who you come into contact with.

Smarten up man.

Dog.....those chicks didn't owe him anything back then and he doesn't owe them anything now.

What's the problem?

Sounds fair to me.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

I don't demonize single moms because I don't have the rejection bitterness of some dudes who do that. A lot of the disrespect thrown towards single moms has its origins in crybaby "she didn't pick meeee!!!!" narratives. (There's a lil green goblin with a high pitched voice is what I'm imagining they sound like)

However I also don't romanticize single motherhood either because it's not an easy lifestyle. There are a lot of elements and nuances to deal with. However, if she is a genuinely good person, there's nothing u can't work beyond.
Just know ur not obligated either way. People will pressure u for their own agendas.
"Don't save that hoe!" (Translation: I was virtually invisible to every decent chick in grade school and so I paint every relationship problem a woman has as a failure to choose a good guy...like my creepy ass. Punish her! Shun her! That's what she gets for not fukking me...er...being a hoe!)

"Marry her immediately!!"(Translation: I live vicariously through every stupid chick who ever opened her legs to the wrong nikka but magically ended up cuffed! Ciara is my patron saint!)

 

[#SOG_soldier]

So…are all single mothers pariahs of society to y'all?

Are they not capable of being loved because they have a child?

Yes to both questions.

 

[Action Mike]

Go for it.

You can be her number 6 priority.

1. God (these thots)
2. Her babies.
3. Her parents.
4. Baby daddy.
5. Work.
6. Raheem.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

If having a kid didn't keep the first nikka around more than likely she ain't shyt

 

[#SOG_soldier]

If you're just trying to smash then be upfront with her. Don't really bond with the children and don't lead her on. Be 100% with her. If you think it could possibly lead to something then take things slow. Don't get too attached to the children right away.

Being honest is the quickest way to no p*ssy

 

[Diyhai]

If having a kid didn't keep the first nikka around more than likely she ain't shyt

so guess only men are the determiners on if a relationship last lol
I see more and more everyday why these hoes diking
the logic of u nyggas

 

[#SOG_soldier]

so guess only men are the determiners on if a relationship last lol
I see more and more everyday why these hoes diking
the logic of u nyggas

If she left him she obviously is an idiot. The chances of a single mom finding another nikka is slim. If she willingly chose to be a single mom, she is bushes status based on her being too dumb to realize she threw her own life in the trash

 

[richaveli83]

Being honest is the quickest way to no p*ssy

So it's better to lie your way into p*ssy? Some women just want some dikk and some dudes just want some p*ssy. I don't like playing games so if she can't handle the truth then keep it moving.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

So it's better to lie your way into p*ssy? Some women just want some dikk and some dudes just want some p*ssy. I don't like playing games so if she can't handle the truth then keep it moving.

It's easier for me to just tell the bytch what she need to hear.

 

[Paradise50]

Nothing wrong with dating single moms but I know I couldn't date one with 2 kids. I already have one so being around 3 kids would blow me

 

[richaveli83]

It's easier for me to just tell the bytch what she need to hear.

 

[Diyhai]

If she left him she obviously is an idiot. The chances of a single mom finding another nikka is slim. If she willingly chose to be a single mom, she is bushes status based on her being too dumb to realize she threw her own life in the trash

u sound crazy dudes wife single mothers everyday B
If you a quality woman without multiple baby daddies dudes will date you
Nyggas need to stop perpetuating this lie
Plenty of dudes in way better financial, physical, emotional, social status and with more options on choosing women than you have wifed a single mother having no kids themselves
quick examples Russell Wilson, Usher, Shannon Brown..... etc
A woman is not ruining her life leaving an unfulfilling relationship