I'm dating this single mom
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Doomed to fail broGot involved with a single mom when I was 19......love the kid to death
If I can go back I would have ran out that damn restaurant the minute I saw that car seat
That single mom was a supreme chicken head in disguise
Youseenmywork
KING
So…are all single mothers pariahs of society to y'all?
Are they not capable of being loved because they have a child?
It.not that it just that it not a lot of GREAT single mothers. Also it's not too many men I know that wanna take care of somebody else kids. That really is thought and what's sits in most men's gut. I don't date women with kids it's my preference and I'm 31. You have to look at man's perspective. These women that be 30 + in church looking for a man that "forgives" and has somebody else kid...they brouget the on themselves. These same women tortured men in there 20s. And then when nikkas anit checking for you anymore you a good man but life don't work that way. It's plenty of good guys that said women could have gotten with in there 20s and grew with him to he got all the resources.
If woman is beautiful she has NEVER struggled to get dikk. I can tell speaking for I've struggle and it don't feel good to know you was a winner the whole time and women just over looked you. I'm 31 now I'm starting to stock pile resources and I don't want to get married but if I did my consolation prize should be a women that has been ran threw in 20s and in her late 20 early 30 decides she wants a good man. Naw my nikka life don't work like that.
God didn't create me to be the captain save a hoe type nikka. My heart pump ice cubes for how irrational these women are.
There is a difference in not wanting to date a single mother (I can't blame any dude for not wanting to) and the disdain that some guys have for a generalized group. Seems weird to have such a strong opinion on someone you wouldn't be interested in dating.
I wouldn't have had you around my kid this early but some people say you should. If you aren't trying to be in a relationship and ready to deal with the kids then leave the situation. If you were going to smash and dash why meet the kids even if she seemed cool with it?
As for all the other single mom stuff
This is the last place for advice for that.
As for all the other single mom stuff
This is the last place for advice for that.
Paradise50
Superstar
Never fukk with a single mom with a history of going back and forth with her ex.
On any level imo.
On any level imo.
u sound like a bitter dude dat aint get no pussc
painting every single woman's story like that is ridiculous
just cuz a chick dont have kids doesnt mean she hasnt been ran thru and have mad emotional issues or had numerous abortions
People are so judemental and are missing out on meeting good people because they imagine what a person is like instead of getting to know them
I can respect u not choosing to deal with single women but your logic is super flawed
Youseenmywork
KING
I agree it just few and far between in finding a good single mother. And you have to think once a guy his shyt together assuming he has around 28-30. He has the pick of the litter especially if he dosent have kids himself. Life is a circle breh . Women is skill just like anything else (cooking, fixing a cars , speaking another language). nikkas act like you can't learn this game or something.
I can't wrap my head around becoming a part of and then possibly taking care of someone else's kid at this point in my life. Not going to demonize single mothers but I couldn't be in a relationship with one.
A lot of dudes are hurt. Just from skimming through a couple pages I have seen multiple dudes reference chicks curving them in their 20s and now looking to settle down with the nice guy now that they are in their 30s with kids. There are guys that view single motherhood as comeuppance for poor decision making. Reasonable guys just don't want the extra shyt that comes along with it.
TeFLoNBoMBz
Pro
I couldn't either at the time. Part of it was I had my own child that I was raising on my own. When I met my ex her son was 4 at the time. I was on some smash and dash shyt. She would always be some "O, my son doesn't have anybody to throw the football with and do manly stuff with. Mind you he was still wetting the bed every night and wearing pull-ups at 4. I felt bad for lil homie tbh. He was a good kid.
That is why I preach be careful because the kids are not the problem its the mother. Believe it or not, some of these females will pimp their kid out using the the "I'm a single mother woe is me" game to get benefits. Once you get attached to the kid thats it.
#SOG_soldier
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Every nikka you named is an effimante simp
