I'm Jaded Brehs... GMB

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I don't trust ppl that cheat on their wives and brag about it.

What happened to doing dirt in the dark? Seems like Shame and Guilt are dead in our society.

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THIS. Couldn't have said it better myself.

I dont care if a man is out there with chics. We're human, I don't know his situation or whatever.

But once he starts bragging about it and wearing it on his sleeve, he's out of line and thats foul because if you got an issue, man keep that to yourself.

I dont need to know that. Every man and woman should give people plausible deniability and should have some sense of shame if for no other reason than how most ppl in society would view it.

My wife told me a long time ago... she never wants me to cheat. But if I do, she asked me not to embarrass her. And I respect that.

If I were to cheat, only folks gon know is me and the woman im cheating with.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Exactly. Why else would a bunch of men leave their wives and families to go to some foreign country? @Gold what did you expect was going to happen? The minute I hear 'Boy Trips' I automatically assume that fukking will be going on.

 

[jay83]

I’m not married but if I were to cheat I definitely wouldn’t be telling my close friends. They wouldn’t need to know. At the same time telling your woman about the fukkery was unnecessary and can cause a lot of fallout. Just pull them aside and let them know you can’t rock with them anymore but their secret is safe with you.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Exactly. Why else would a bunch of men leave their wives and families to go to some foreign country? @Gold what did you expect was going to happen? The minute I hear 'Boy Trips' I automatically assume that fukking will be going on.

Again, why would ya'll wanna do all that without your families? I don't blame you at all but that's usually why "guys trips" exist. It's like when men go Brazil because they "love to travel." We know what it is.

So many unfortunate implications in this post.

Y'all need to pay attention. She's basically calling men sex tourists. Like black men lack the refinement and self control to just travel for the sake of travel, relaxation and exploration. Yeah, fukkery can occur but that doesn't mean it will or that it's the intended purpose of the trip. You're painting with a broad brush here.

 

[jay83]

So many unfortunate implications in this post.

Y'all need to pay attention. She's basically calling men sex tourists. Like black men lack the refinement and self control to just travel for the sake of travel, relaxation and exploration. Yeah, fukkery can occur but that doesn't mean it will or that it's the intended purpose of the trip. You're painting with a broad brush here.

Lots of women are conditioned to think this.

I go to Vegas once a year but I genuinely love gambling and playing the table games. My ex used to actually feel comfortable when I went to Vegas alone or with my homie cause she knew ain’t no woman gonna distract me from playing craps or the poker table.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

These nikkas ain't Solomon and this ain't those times. These nikkas living a secret and if their wives found out, that's their ass. nikka talking about God as if God talking to these goofy ass nikkas. Stop it, stop using God for fukkery.

Facts

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So many unfortunate implications in this post.

Y'all need to pay attention. She's basically calling men sex tourists. Like black men lack the refinement and self control to just travel for the sake of travel, relaxation and exploration. Yeah, fukkery can occur but that doesn't mean it will or that it's the intended purpose of the trip. You're painting with a broad brush here.

I am talking about married men and yes I standby what I said. If you are taking none business trips away from your family for the intentions of having "fun" then I would suspect that "fun" includes falling into some strange.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Are you trolling

dude you sound LAME as hell.

Not because you didn’t cheat on your wife, but because you sounding like a naive simp nikka that don’t even know the circle he runs in.

you went on a guys trip on some:

OP: “ yeah guys we’re gonna have a BLAST this weekend, I’ve already looked at the brochure and they have an amazing brunch package and couples massages, raise your hand if you want to be my massage buddy for the weekend. It’s gonna be a BLAST

OP’s Homie: Nikka I ain’t come down here to have brunch and go snorkeling with yo bytch ass, I’m trying to get on hoes. My wife ain’t fukked me in months and she blaming it on the kids.

OP: But what about the hike up the Palo Maria trail you PROMISED me you’d go on with me.

OP homie: Nikka fukk all that.

*opens door to let some bad mamacita’s in the room*

OP: OH GOODNESS ME! You guys aren’t the friends that I know, what’s gotten into you guys?
Im gonna excuse myself, if anyone needs me I’ll be at the salsa dancing lessons that I went out of my way to get us ALL groupons for

OP’s Homie: *deep in some Mexican box* BY NIKKA!!!!

I felt like that when my dad was cheating on his wife.

What really got to me was the fact that she did EVERYTHING she was supposed to do as a wife on some 50s shyt.

His dinner would be hot off the plate by the time he came home at 7pm, super supportive, 3 course meals, clean house smelling like lemons, his clothes ironed for the next day and he still unapologetically had an affair with his business partner.

The whole time I thought his bonding sessions with me and my sister was him being a better father when in actuality it was a coverup in case she asked him where he was.

His mistress lived 10 minutes from me

When his ex-wife found receipts for jewellery I never snitched but it pissed me off having to witness her mental breakdown.

Did you know how well your step moms p*ssy was? Was her mouth crazy? If not stfu and stay out that man business

THIS. Couldn't have said it better myself.

I dont care if a man is out there with chics. We're human, I don't know his situation or whatever.

But once he starts bragging about it and wearing it on his sleeve, he's out of line and thats foul because if you got an issue, man keep that to yourself.

I dont need to know that. Every man and woman should give people plausible deniability and should have some sense of shame if for no other reason than how most ppl in society would view it.

My wife told me a long time ago... she never wants me to cheat. But if I do, she asked me not to embarrass her. And I respect that.

If I were to cheat, only folks gon know is me and the woman im cheating with.

That’s why y’all p*ssy. Y’all care to much about his society gonna view. I don’t even care about how my family would feel. Anyone can get the fukk

 

[The M.I.C.]

Ain't much she can do. This was for the OP closure. This shyt must be burning him. I can tell.

It should but we as men have to operate on logic rather than emotion. I would’ve been cool with him rebuking his boys directly, he might’ve been able to shame them into guilt and garner some respect, rather than subletting his feelings to his woman, risking her going rogue and causing all types of mayhem.

Naivety. His woman went on a trip with her girls and I guarantee you she edited out details of shyt her friends did down there out of her report to him but he willingly gives up his friends without even talking to them like men. She’s more loyal to her friends versus her relationship to @Gold who’s more loyal to his relationship versus his friends..how absurd is that?? Closure is gotten when you discuss the issues with the offending parties NOT a third party in any circumstance. This is also a rule in business as well as in life..it’s a bad look overall.

 

[HARLEM AL]

dont let these weirdos who have never been in a long term relationship troll u

u did right by telling your wife tbh

No the fukk he didn’t. When she get mad she will bring that shyt up. She is going to associate his friends with him. shyt, deep down she probably think he a bytch for telling him. Like damn this nikka really told me that.

How the fukk I didn’t catch that he told his wife…. Man that shyt over for them nikkas. Shorty definitely going to drop a dime on those nikkas.

 

[International Playa]

Why did OP tell his wife, his wife can easily volunteer the information to the other wives.

What happens on these trips, stays on that trip

 

[Speaking Womanese]

@Ineedmoney504 p*ssy AnD mOufGaMe?

She was his WIFE not a slide you unswallowed mistake from the 80s.

Don’t quote me again.

 

[The M.I.C.]

No the fukk he didn’t. When she get mad she will bring that shyt up. She is going to associate his friends with him. shyt, deep down she probably think he a bytch for telling him. Like damn this nikka really told me that.

How the fukk I didn’t catch that he told his wife…. Man that shyt over for them nikkas. Shorty definitely going to drop a dime on those nikkas.

Thank you.

These soft hearted ass nikkas thinking that testifying shyt to your woman is OK.

I’ve seen marriages break up over one party not being able to maintain discretion too many damn times but these nikkas gonna learn.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

@Ineedmoney504 p*ssy AnD mOufGaMe?

She was his WIFE not a slide you unswallowed mistake from the 80s.

Don’t quote me again.

Why do you y’all think a marriage over rides basic human needs? If he wasn’t being pleaded sexually he has the right to cheat. Same with her

 

[HARLEM AL]

Thank you.

These soft hearted ass nikkas thinking that testifying shyt to your woman is OK.

I’ve seen marriages break up over one party not being able to maintain discretion too many damn times but these nikkas gonna learn.

Yeah big homie, when nikkas pillow talk to their wife it’s over. You just set you timer and just watch.

Telling your way wife about your friends shyt is a big no no. I don’t give a fukk how you feel about them. That’s between you and them. And like I said subconsciously she’s going to look at her husband differently. shyt she might even feel less attractive towards him.