Intentionally dating less attractive women

Diyhai

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I should’ve asked this earlier, What is your definition of less attractive? Can you please post photos to support your opinions. Thanks
its subjective based on your taste
everybody has their preference
I'm just harping on the fact appearance is prone to be the sole criterion
 

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its subjective based on your taste
everybody has their preference

I'm just harping on the fact appearance is prone to be the sole criterion

That’s why threads like these are difficult to gauge because of the subjective nature of the subject matter.
In your opinion please give examples of what is less attractive to you. Thanks
 

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My question is why are we prioritizing look
A less attractive women could be a better cook, make more money, have better sex and be more loving. But people are putting so much stock into the looks they miss out on these other qualities.
Crazy, I'm not attracted to BBW's at all, but ended up throwing one in the friendship pit cause she was dope.

Over the years we became cool and I'm like:dwillhuh::dwillhuh: this woman would be perfect if it wasn't for her weight. Non-argumentative, cooks really well, motherly, loving, freak levels, good with money....she just fat

:hubie::unimpressed::patrice:
 

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Crazy, I'm not attracted to BBW's at all, but ended up throwing one in the friendship pit cause she was dope.

Over the years we became cool and I'm like:dwillhuh::dwillhuh: this woman would be perfect if it wasn't for her weight. Non-argumentative, cooks really well, motherly, loving, freak levels, good with money....she just fat

:hubie::unimpressed::patrice:
I feel that, looks can definitely be a dealbreaker not telling dudes not to have standards
 

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I see that as an excuse
like colorism its perpetuated by media
I think most people just have the group think mentality
men literally notice physical attributes from a woman first. :comeon: It is what we prioritize on a primitive subconscious level. Even down to where we choose women who we think have child-bearing hips. It's hardwired.
 
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Crazy, I'm not attracted to BBW's at all, but ended up throwing one in the friendship pit cause she was dope.

Over the years we became cool and I'm like:dwillhuh::dwillhuh: this woman would be perfect if it wasn't for her weight. Non-argumentative, cooks really well, motherly, loving, freak levels, good with money....she just fat

:hubie::unimpressed::patrice:


No offense but I don’t understand this logic. If you really like her and can see a future with her, why not encourage her to get healthy? It can be something you do together. Or are you afraid that if she loses weight, she probably will upgrade to someone else?
 

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No offense but I don’t understand this logic. If you really like her and can see a future with her, why not encourage her to get healthy? It can be something you do together. Or are you afraid that if she loses weight, she probably will upgrade to someone else?
you gotta like someone for who they are
can't see potential or try to change someone
 

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My question is why are we prioritizing look
A less attractive women could be a better cook, make more money, have better sex and be more loving. But people are putting so much stock into the looks they miss out on these other qualities.
100s of thousands of years of evolution. Difficult to work against our hardwiring
 

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you gotta like someone for who they are
can't see potential or try to change someone

Out of curiosity, what do you bring to the relationship/dating table considering you are expecting a certain standard from your women?
 

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Has anyone done this? Was having a convo about how men a lot of times prioritize looks over all other qualities when approaching women. Thoughts and experiences concerning this:patrice:

I don't have high stands but it's still nah...

Now If you put two broads in front of me like Girl A is an absolute dime according to my tastes but she's a bytch and Girl B is basic but I'd be happy with her. I'm choosing Girl B easy.

Now alter the question and if it's all about smashing I'm choosing Girl A.
 

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My jail bird cousin did

he one of them g money pretty motherfukkers

he told me years and years ago

He love fukking around with less attractive women 5s or 6s cause they treat you like a king and spend money on you and u don’t have to do shyt, because they have low self esteem and suckers for anything u say to them

As years went by he finally found him a lawyer chick to settle down with at 47 years old and she works and pay for everything
 
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