Intentionally dating less attractive women

[Guess Who]

No offense but I don’t understand this logic. If you really like her and can see a future with her, why not encourage her to get healthy? It can be something you do together. Or are you afraid that if she loses weight, she probably will upgrade to someone else?

Good luck trying to encourage a woman to get healthy

Tried that before, there were lots of tears or I was getting cussed out…every time I’ve tried it

 

[Guess Who]

She doesn’t have to be the finest thing ever but she has to be attractive enough that you want to smash purely off looks. Otherwise it won’t work. This goes for men and women and everyone in between.

Everybody has an ideal and everybody has a floor…your mate has to be at or above your floor or it won’t work.

 

[Diyhai]

100s of thousands of years of evolution. Difficult to work against our hardwiring

it’s a simple bias that if you pay attention to it can easily be overcame
Not really that hard

 

[Diyhai]

Tried didn't work.
That shyt will make you resentful af

Resentful how?
Like bytch you don’t deserve me
Y’all better never be mad at a beautiful woman for rejecting you again or all these ig chicks chasing millionaires
I assuming the resentment comes from feeling like you are settling?

 

[Starburst]

Good luck trying to encourage a woman to get healthy

Tried that before, there were lots of tears or I was getting cussed out…every time I’ve tried it

I guess it would depend on your approach. If she decides she doesn’t want to change then it’s fair to move on.

 

[TheBigBopper]

it’s a simple bias that if you pay attention to it can easily be overcame
Not really that hard

Good luck trying to get an erection for a woman you don’t think looks very good

 

[Diyhai]

Good luck trying to get an erection for a woman you don’t think looks very good

I didn’t say don’t have a standard
I said not prioritizing
Basically not putting looks above other more meaningful qualities
Not saying deal with women your not attracted to

 

[TheBigBopper]

I didn’t say don’t have a standard
I said not prioritizing
Basically not putting looks above other more meaningful qualities
Not saying deal with women your not attracted to

I don’t know who does over 28 years old or so. I will say though that looks probably have equal weighting with other characteristics for me at least.

 

[Hollywood Co]

Thanks for the explanation.
Would you not be proud of your woman if she was a doctor, but didn’t look like an Instagram model?

A lot of the responses in this thread, in my opinion are the reason why so many women have the BBL surgeries, and use Botox and fillers because they want to be desirable to men.

According to the responses in this thread, loving yourself as you are appears to not be acceptable anymore.

In my opinion. You are doing a disservice to yourself if you have the ideology that you can’t be happy with a woman who you fear others wouldn’t find attractive.

I feel that I was pretty open to dating women that wasn’t the prototype when I was single but I still had to find a woman attractive in some way and feel confident seeing you as you my lady. A personality would definitely play a huge part in making feeling real but I gotta like what I see everyday as well. otherwise they’ll be a lack of passion that I place high value on when in a relationship.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Resentful how?
Like bytch you don’t deserve me
Y’all better never be mad at a beautiful woman for rejecting you again or all these ig chicks chasing millionaires
I assuming the resentment comes from feeling like you are settling?

Yes because deep down inside your not truly happy & want better for yourself.

You're better off and would more happy

A. Taking the journey to better yourself, thus attracting better women

B. Being single and even thinking you deserve better. Ignorance is bliss

Sidenote: Yes we are mad . That's why redpill exists