Beanz is a good dude.
Married, works, supports his wife.
He just has different views than you.
its a controversial view
i been getting shytted on for it for years. i stand by it tho 
Is cheating the worst thing in a relationship?
- Thread starter Remote
- Start date
its a controversial view
i been getting shytted on for it for years. i stand by it tho 
Who killed themselves?
That's some sad shyt.
Doubt it was from the cheating though. They probably had emotional issues from the jump.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Beanz is a good dude.
Married, works, supports his wife.
He just has different views than you.
:ducktales: Doesn't sound like a good person to me. But this is the coli, a man could have a second family behind his wife's back and give her every std there is and you guys will still call him a good dude.
You're calling him a bad person based on an opinion that he has.
It's not like he cheated.
You think you don't have opinions that others would disagree with?
I'm sure they wouldn't call you a bad person because of them though.
just answer this for me.
lets say u have a husband, and u find out he got drunk at his friend's bachelor party and fukked a stripper who he doesnt even remember and u know for a fact he only fukked her once and felt bad and never fukked her again.
now lets say u find out ur husband has another woman on the side and tells her he loves her and when he tells u he working overtime, he is at her house.
which one hurts more?
doesnt matter if u think im a bad person, u dont know me. i know what i am. i just have a different view. doesnt mean i would ever cheat on my wife. shyt i been to DR by myself and didnt cheat. n i wasnt even married at that point.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Who killed themselves?
That's some sad shyt.
Doubt it was from the cheating though. They probably had emotional issues from the jump.
My aunt, My coworker (recently, like a few days ago), a girl that was in my accounting class, my bf's sister.
They all seemed fine to me, of course after they were cheated on they were depressed for a while and never got over it.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I feel bad for your wife. When she finds out you're cheating on her you're be like "
it's not that bad, I was just being a weak man".
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
You're calling him a bad person based on an opinion that he has.
It's not like he cheated.
You think you don't have opinions that others would disagree with?
I'm sure they wouldn't call you a bad person because of them though.
Yes, I think a cheater is a bad person.
im not downplaying how much it hurts for a man to cheat, which is why i would NEVER cheat on my wife (unless nicki minaj is hounding me).
im just saying, a man could cheat and not give a shyt about the person he just busted a nut with, erase her number, not even know her name, act like he doesnt even know her. we can have meaningless sex. it still hurts, but it wouldnt hurt as much as if a man decided he was in love with someone new would it?
It's all the same.
It's all the same.
Picture the women that you love
fukking another man
Her ignoring your phone call as they get busy
Lying saying she somewhere she isnt
sucking his dikk
Swallowing
Him breaking her back
Doing shyt she hasn't done to you in years
Having multiple orgasms
Laying her head on his chest afterwards
Stroking him telling him it was awesome
Now tell me if you can make shyt work
The past is the past
All that matters is the here and now
I feel bad for your wife. When she finds out you're cheating on her you're be like "
never have and never will cheat on my wife.
your exaggerating what i said. i never said its OK for a man to cheat. that it doesnt hurt. of course it does. i would pull my eyeballs out before i hurt my wife. just imagining her crying over something i did makes me feel like shyt. she is the world to me and i treat her as such. i promised her early one i would never make her cry and only make her laugh everyday as long as she is mine and i have kept that promise. im a dedicated husband.
all im saying is, most of the time, when a wife cheats on her husband, it was not meaningless. that other man took more than just her p*ssy, he took a piece of her heart from u. that is ether of the highest kind.
most of the time when a husband cheats, it was some meaningless romp with some whore. most of the time when a man cheats, its meaningless.
STILL HURTS, but not as much as it would hurt if he was going around spending time with a new love.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Men always tell themselves the things they do aren't "as bad" to make themselves feel better. It's all the same.
Nino Soprano
Superstar
Picture the women that you love
fukking another man
Her ignoring your phone call as they get busy
Lying saying she somewhere she isnt
sucking his dikk
Swallowing
Him breaking her back
Doing shyt she hasn't done to you in years
Having multiple orgasms
Laying her head on his chest afterwards
Stroking him telling him it was awesome
Now tell me if you can make shyt work
I don't think a cheater is necessarily a bad person.
It's all the same.
It's all the same.
That's way too much of a black-and-white opinion.
You have to understand that life is complicated.
Relationships are complicated.
Infidelity can be complicated.
I'm not condoning cheating but you really gotta be careful about making broad comments about this kind of thing.
I mean, (and this is just an example)...
I don't condone murder.
Are all murderers evil people? Or could you come up with a scenario where you could sympathize a little bit?
Like suppose a man has a 6 year old daughter who gets abused and killed by a pedophile.
That's a horrible, horrible situation.
The child's father finds the abuser and shoots him dead on the spot.
That father is a murderer.
But a lot of people would sympathize and understand the motive, even if they disapprove of the act.
Right?
Now that's an example.
Is that the same as someone who cheats? No.
It isn't.
Just for the goddamn fukkfaced coli c*nts who are gonna tell me "murder aint the same as cheating"...I KNOW.
But I was just illustrating a point where something that people are overwhelmingly against could also be viewed from a sympathetic perspective.
So does cheating make you a bad person?
My answer is....maybe.
It depends on the situation.
You don't condone it, but you don't go making definitive judgments about another person's character, either.