Is cheating the worst thing in a relationship?

[Remote]

lol how would you know if I lack the ability to read between the lines?

I don't "lack the ability" to read between the lines, I can do it just fine. YOU just think that because I'm not agreeing with you that I don't know what you're saying.

So let me help you out

I get that you don't think cheaters are bad people, you think "shyt happens" and that a person can lie to their partner and hurt them and still be a god person.

I don't think that, I think that if you KNOW something is going to hurt someone and YOU STILL DO IT, you're a shytty person, you're scum etc.

Fair enough.

I'll just leave with this one comment....

Around 50% of all marriages end in divorce.
Roughly 55% of them cite infidelity as causing their divorce.

There are about 2.2 million marriages every year.

You essentially believe that 990,000 people are on their way to being worthless pieces of shyt...every single year.
Start compounding that and doing the math.

I respect your opinion about philanderers, but what a cynical view.

 

[Remote]

It aint the first time people didn't see eye-to-eye.

 

[DarlingNikki]

i get killed for this by women and male feminists when i say it but thats why it hurts more when a woman cheats.

a man cheats, he just being a weak man. succumbing to natural urges.

a woman cheats, she was either a hoe, or she really caught feelings for that dude.

idk which hurts more, realizing u were in love with a thot, or the woman u love falling in love with someone else

If a male cheats he's also a "thot" fukk outta here.

 

[Elle Driver]

It aint the first time people didn't see eye-to-eye.

It's never understandable. Have you ever been cheated on?

 

[Remote]

It's never understandable. Have you ever been cheated on?

Once.

Relationship grew apart and it sucked.
But here's the thing...I don't look at her as an evil person.

Some of yall do, though.

It is what it is.

 

[Elle Driver]

Once.

Relationship grew apart and it sucked.
But here's the thing...I don't look at her as an evil person.

Some of yall do, though.

It is what it is.

It is evil. I think it's evil because of the intentional heart break and emotional trauma.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Suppose you have a couple that has been together for a long time.
And suppose they have children.

And one person in the relationship slips up and sleeps with someone else.

Is that act of infidelity worth breaking up a family?



I know, I know...

These chics/dudes aint loyal...

But is more damage done by infidelity, or taking away one's parent?

3 things break relationships apart friend, infidelity, lies and squandering the family fortune on failure.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Fair enough.

I'll just leave with this one comment....

Around 50% of all marriages end in divorce.
Roughly 55% of them cite infidelity as causing their divorce.

There are about 2.2 million marriages every year.

You essentially believe that 990,000 people are on their way to being worthless pieces of shyt...every single year.
Start compounding that and doing the math.

I respect your opinion about philanderers, but what a cynical view.

they were more than likely shytty ppl before they got married.

 

[Dwolf]

Once.

Relationship grew apart and it sucked.
But here's the thing...I don't look at her as an evil person.

Some of yall do, though.

It is what it is.

This explains a lot.

 

[Remote]

This explains a lot.

lol, like you're in any position to analyze anyone

 

[Gains]

So your woman steps out with another dude...and you got kids....

You gonna let them grow up fatherless, breh?

and guess who she's spending that child support money on

 

[Dwolf]

My aunt, My coworker (recently, like a few days ago), a girl that was in my accounting class, my bf's sister.

They all seemed fine to me, of course after they were cheated on they were depressed for a while and never got over it.

Well that fukking sucks.

 

[Remote]

and guess who she's spending that child support money on

 

[Dwolf]

lol, like you're in any position to analyze anyone

Ok

 

[Gains]

Infidelity. Cause if she cheats on you and you forgive her for it, there's a chance she'd do it again and turns around and serving you the papers instead. Not to mention the dynamic changes and kids aren't stupid, they can tell something's up. The lack of respect for you will become more and more apparent to the point where the kids might follow suit. So I'd rather be the father that kept his distance than be the father that got the boot from his own family.

and careful if she's the type to turn the kids against you putting all kinds of shyt in their heads

automatically disrespect any future partner you might have

It's levels to cheating...just sex is something that can possibly be gotten over. Possibly.

What's worst is carrying on a whole different relationship. Like, going to somebody else house, chilling with them, going out to eat, actually having feelings for another person. That's considerably worst than sex imo

or your cheating spouse fukking on your bed


using your shower

wearing your bathrobe

eating your Pringles

Cheaters are scum only cheaters think cheaters are scum.

And that goes for all you emotional cheaters as wel

them " emotional friends " females have