Is It Worth It To Still Try To Date/Find Love After 40?

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Why are you 40 posting in thecoli . To answer your question, if you 40 you have to look outside of USA. My mom's coworker married a woman from Trinidad. They met while he was on vacation. They seem happy .

If you 40 looking for love in America you finna take some Ls. You will be dealing with divorced women and single mothers .

 

[Elim Garak]

For people without children, age matters.

Maybe for the woman if they want kids but that's not nearly as large of a factor in 2020 imo where it's not unusual for women to have kids later in life.

 

[cobra]

Look for 20ish year olds from Africa or the Caribbean

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Its never too late. just watch my latina gf eat out a fine ass indian girl we meet. i fell in love with her at that moment. the way she devoured the p*ssy while the girl leaned on me as I held her legs back. my girl is a wreck now cuz she feel in love with the p*ssy. so no its never too late

What kind of swinger shyt is this ?

 

[International Playa]

Brehs u shouldnt be obsessed with finding the right woman, enjoy the process till you meet your queen.

Before I met my current lady, I was meeting different women on dating apps every week, some I ended up fukking & some we just became friends. Till this day I still have flashbacks of the many good memories I had with those various women

 

[Dave24]

if you're 35+ with no kids and no s/o you're gonna die alone and no one will remember you or your existence.....

It can still happen for someone later in life. I am 35 and have no children and no significant other.

 

[Sad Bunny]

You think you need a master's in IT when there are certs?

Nah

It's paid for by my company and as long as you get a master's degree that looks good at any company can't say the same for certifications

But I got promoted in my current field since this post and I got a certification so I'm pretty set right now not changing careers anytime soon

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Why are you 40 posting in thecoli . To answer your question, if you 40 you have to look outside of USA. My mom's coworker married a woman from Trinidad. They met while he was on vacation. They seem happy .

If you 40 looking for love in America you finna take some Ls. You will be dealing with divorced women and single mothers .

I wasn't aware that the coli had an age limit

You do realize that there are MULTIPLE late thirties, early forties brehs that post here, right? You do realize that, God willing, you'll be 40 one day right? Or did you think you got to 25 and stopped aging?

 

[semicko82]

if you're 35+ with no kids and no s/o you're gonna die alone and no one will remember you or your existence.....

Nobody remembers Prince

 

[King Poetic]

First off

don’t listen to majority of these potato chips in the basement living motherfukkers

being 40 in real life u not going to find some woman in her 20s looking at you in the long run, unless u a fukking celebrity

it’s going to be hard finding a black woman in her 30s or 40s without a kid or who’s in that age range who’s not masculine, have a shytty attitude, etc,,, because the previous nikkas never put a ring on it because of it

 

[Blankthawtz]

Nobody remembers Prince

u really comparin your life to Prince?....

 

[Dave24]

I’m 36 and I often think about this. I basically turned around one day and went, “shyt, I missed the boat on this relationship thing “

I have no kids, never been married. I refuse to date a girl with kids, I don’t drink or do drugs, so I’m boring to younger women who just wanna party. I guess it’s Not meant to be

I make pretty good money and live in cheap ass Texas. I guess I’ll let my expensive ass pc and audiophile equipment keep me warm at night


I also take antidepressants and antipsychotics so I have no sex drive either, which doesn’t help with finding a good woman.

I work stupid hours at work, being more productive and flexible than my coworkers who have spouses and kids. “Give it to Ciggavelli, he’ll work 12 hour days. He doesn’t have a family”.

I don’t really know what I’ll do after I’ve bought all the bullshyt I want. The only thing I look forward to is getting paid and then buying shyt. At some point I’m gonna have all the material things I want. What do I do after that?

Tupac, fukk the world

@Ciggavelli sorry you have to take amtidepressants/antipsychotics breh.

What job/career do you have?

 

[Bossino]

Is being alone that tough for people. Maybe I'm an outlier personality wise but y'all SAWFTer than Charmin

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Hole thread kinda crazy Maybe I’m not at that age but this whole looking for love things seems backwards to me, only thing I’m looking for in a chick is some good vibes and to drop dikk off every once in a while

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

@ the bolded....

Couldn't have put it better myself.

Having a woman is like having a child, minus the unconditional love that's induced via biological imperative.

The coli is mad broken. None of y’all have had cool chicks that weren’t pains 70-80% of the time? Damn. I feel for y’all.