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No.
Stop dating immediately.
Never approach a woman again.
Let the young brehs get p*ssy now.
You had your turn.
Your life is over, you old
I don't even know why you bother getting out of bed every day.
Is It Worth It To Still Try To Date/Find Love After 40?
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Yeah this is going to get interesting.
Trust me, what’s important in your 40s is not the same as your early to mid 30’s so if the expectation is can you have the fairy tell marriage then probably not.
Bottom line can you find a relationship that suits both sides after 40 yes. It comes down to what the collective expectations are and if both sides are willing to work to meet the expectations. If you assume that she’s going to me one way and one way only then it’s never going to get off the ground.
Trust me, what’s important in your 40s is not the same as your early to mid 30’s so if the expectation is can you have the fairy tell marriage then probably not.
Bottom line can you find a relationship that suits both sides after 40 yes. It comes down to what the collective expectations are and if both sides are willing to work to meet the expectations. If you assume that she’s going to me one way and one way only then it’s never going to get off the ground.
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no, but I think them being more experienced/established gave the women a sense of security I assume. I dont know.
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Virtuous_Brotha
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Not every 40 is equal, you need to fall within the right category of 40+ for there to be any remaining hope.
1. Financially stable, nice place, in good psychical shape, spent his 20's and 30's grinding and got a good career, somewhat of a blessing to have zero baggage since he can now effectively provide for a family with an adequate amount of resources.
2. Living paycheck to paycheck, no savings, dad bod without being a dad, dead end job
If you in the first group you good, it's probably just a marketing issue where you ain't putting yourself out there enough the clock is still ticking though, second group it probably isn't worth it ain't this stage wtf were you doing with your time in your 20's and 30's no kids yet still broke in a dead job , that needs solving first and it may take a few years since you so far behind
1. Financially stable, nice place, in good psychical shape, spent his 20's and 30's grinding and got a good career, somewhat of a blessing to have zero baggage since he can now effectively provide for a family with an adequate amount of resources.
2. Living paycheck to paycheck, no savings, dad bod without being a dad, dead end job
If you in the first group you good, it's probably just a marketing issue where you ain't putting yourself out there enough the clock is still ticking though, second group it probably isn't worth it ain't this stage wtf were you doing with your time in your 20's and 30's no kids yet still broke in a dead job , that needs solving first and it may take a few years since you so far behind
@Virtuous_Brotha I am 37 years old and in the second group. My social anxiety and self esteem issues fukked me up in my twenties and thirties I could never get any consistent progress and momentum going in my life.
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@Magic Mulatto
Late 30's, but I'm gonna give one more shot. If it don't work out then I'm cool with being a eternal bachelor.
Magic Mulatto
Here Today, Gone Tomorrow. . .
Issa wrap for us, breh…
It's not a wrap. You need to take a break from the Coli and get your shyt togetherYeah, looking like it
Gym and career change would help your situation.
A lot of life left to live young fella
