Is It Worth It To Still Try To Date/Find Love After 40?
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I’m 36 and I often think about this. I basically turned around one day and went, “shyt, I missed the boat on this relationship thing“
I have no kids, never been married. I refuse to date a girl with kids, I don’t drink or do drugs, so I’m boring to younger women who just wanna party. I guess it’s Not meant to be
I make pretty good money and live in cheap ass Texas. I guess I’ll let my expensive ass pc and audiophile equipment keep me warm at night
I also take antidepressants and antipsychotics so I have no sex drive either, which doesn’t help with finding a good woman.
I work stupid hours at work, being more productive and flexible than my coworkers who have spouses and kids. “Give it to Ciggavelli, he’ll work 12 hour days. He doesn’t have a family”.
I don’t really know what I’ll do after I’ve bought all the bullshyt I want. The only thing I look forward to is getting paid and then buying shyt. At some point I’m gonna have all the material things I want. What do I do after that?
Tupac, fukk the world
@Ciggavelli how are things going since you posted this??
I got a few girls in rotation. Nothing that screams kids to me though. I got a hot asian girl (who used to be a model). I got a semi-fat white girl who knows about good food. I got a Nigerian girl who knows how to cook. Still nothing substantial. It's easy to find girls online. I'm a white guy, and white girls fukking hate me for some reason. It's weird. I can't pull white girls, but I can pull hot as hell pakastanis, africans, etc. White girls fukking suck. I don't know what it means, but I can't get a white girl to even like me. Black girls, foreign girls, they love me. I prefer them anyway. Still, no marriage material
What dating apps do you use to get women??
Hinge (which is the fukking shyt...I've got so many girls off that app), and Match (where I found the fat girl). It's not that hard. I'm surprised by how easy it is. Still you gotta like 50 before you get 1, but there are a plethora of girls to like
Do you think Hinge could work for me even though I have social anxiety?
InGodWeTrust
Tall & Handsome in ATL
If you got kids just let it come.
If not, go after 28 and up as a 40 year old.
I’m 38 and look 28 tho
If not, go after 28 and up as a 40 year old.
I’m 38 and look 28 tho
100% yes. You gotta have a good first date game though. Play to your positives. It's really not that hard, and I have social anxiety too. Drinking helps, but I'll admit, I have a drinking problem. It's really not that hard. Take some good pics, post them, and then like 50-100 girls. You'll find at least 1 person to like you back. I've found throwing money at the situation helps too. Take her out to a fancy ass restaurant.
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
Only way to find out is to give it a shot
100%
levitate
I love you, you know.
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
@Ciggavelli you a white bread Ned Flanders type of white guy? Or like an action Bronson, the alchemist type of white guy
I'm more like an Action Bronson/Alchemist type of white guy. My attire keeps it kinda cool. I wear a death metal t-shyt, jeans, and some Jordan 3s. Most girls like it. fukk white girls though. I dunno what they want
#BOTHSIDES
Superstar
That makes sense.
Ezekiel 25:17
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Damn it's THAT rough out here?
What if you a combination of HVM, tall, and handsome? Surely good women would be shooting their shot?
What do ya'll do social wise?
What if you a combination of HVM, tall, and handsome? Surely good women would be shooting their shot?
What do ya'll do social wise?
