Is there anything lonelier than “Conscious” Black Men?

[TEH]

It’s extremely difficult to navigate this terrain with knowledge of self as a black man because it turns women off (Black, White, Or Hispanic) nothing gets a bytch p*ssy dryer than a black man speaking about systematic racism, it has alienated all of my friends because they think you’re too militant and you become the butt of all the Farrakhan Malcolm X dusty Hotep Jokes


The black man that understands the black community is desperate for true leadership and recognizes that opportunistic charlatans like Umar Johnson (Political) Tariq Nasheed (Knowledge) Boyce Watkins (Financial) Dr Sebi (Medical) have recognized the void and takes advantage and exploits all the while victim blaming and gaslighting the community



The black man who recognizes that altruistic “Black leadership” is dead along the lines of MLK Malcolm X Marcus Garvey etc... have been replaced by compromised double agents

The black man whose objective enough and knows his history enough to criticize democratic leadership and neoliberalism and recognize it’s insidious effects on the black community as well as lambasting conservative republican ideals and respectability politics


The black man that recognizes the black community is matriarchal and matrilineal and understands it’s effects on black male adolescence who are deprived of positive black role models and if you criticize the black women and her alliance with white feminism and it’s ideals you are gay or hate your mother



The black man that recognizes white supremacy is the root cause of black violence in the black community but doesn’t absolve black accountability in it’s perpetuation of said violence without being a “c00n”

Stop throwing pearls before swine brother

 

[BossmanChad]

OP It doesn't have to be this way but if you're a dude that talks about "militant" stuff all the time that will turn off any woman.

As long as you know when to bring that subject (not on dates, most social situations)

 

[semicko82]

I know what turns em off

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

What do you mean by this

Feminism
The biggest shell/con game known to man
The same white women screaming intersectionality/women’s rights/equality
Had black women raising their kids/cleaning their houses
Weekend activist
Meanwhile they escape back to their noninclusive suburban enclaves
While black women still face poverty and systemic policies that keep them from certain promotions at jobs and other institutions
Scream empowerment but vote every time against progression that could jeopardize/set up roadblocks for their child’s future
Convinced them in the “I can do bad by myself, I’m strong independent, don’t need no man”
Meanwhile white women out here marrying any man that tolerates them
Because they know they can’t do it by themselves and need protection/provision
But you can’t tell any of these hard head females this out here
Especially the free roaming femcels on this forum
You geek nikkas hype up

 

[Jesus Bhrist]

Just to provide further clarification and context I’m from The Bronx and we know how much Hispanic woman love black men (We are fetishized by all races even our own sister’s sometimes) but i be checking bytches that say nikka every 5 seconds or have subtle anti-black comments about black women and our culture


Alot of times the homies will let Spanish and Non-black women slide with saying suspect shyt because they wanna fukk them, this is what i mean about turning them off, for example one time my young boy (Currently doing 6 years) girlfriend (Puerto Rican) got into an argument with this black chick from the block and she started ranting about how she hated nappy headed black ass bytches and they stink etc... i checked shorty and reminded her that her boyfriend has a black mother and a black sister and I won’t tolerate her talking like that around me she apologized and corrected herself, from that incident nikkas started calling me Malcolm X on some corny joking shyt

 

[skylove4]

Feminism
The biggest shell/con game known to man
The same white women screaming intersectionality/women’s rights/equality
Had black women raising their kids/cleaning their houses
Weekend activist
Meanwhile they escape back to their noninclusive suburban enclaves
While black women still face poverty and systemic policies that keep them from certain promotions at jobs and other institutions
Scream empowerment but vote every time against progression that could jeopardize/set up roadblocks for their child’s future
Convinced them in the “I can do bad by myself, I’m strong independent, don’t need no man”
Meanwhile white women out here marrying any man that tolerates them
Because they know they can’t do it by themselves and need protection/provision
But you can’t tell any of these hard head females this out here
Especially the free roaming femcels on this forum
You geek nikkas hype up

So your weird ass thinks women shouldn’t have the autonomy to do what they want with their lives like the fully realized adults they are

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Feminism
The biggest shell/con game known to man
The same white women screaming intersectionality/women’s rights/equality
Had black women raising their kids/cleaning their houses
Weekend activist
Meanwhile they escape back to their noninclusive suburban enclaves
While black women still face poverty and systemic policies that keep them from certain promotions at jobs and other institutions
Scream empowerment but vote every time against progression that could jeopardize/set up roadblocks for their child’s future
Convinced them in the “I can do bad by myself, I’m strong independent, don’t need no man”
Meanwhile white women out here marrying any man that tolerates them
Because they know they can’t do it by themselves and need protection/provision
But you can’t tell any of these hard head females this out here
Especially the free roaming femcels on this forum
You geek nikkas hype up

Facts. Black liberation should be a bigger priority over feminism. Systemic racism is deeper and more complex than the fight for feminism. Same goes for the LGBTQ fight

White/nonblack feminists do not care about the racism we face as a people more than they do about women's rights. At the end of the day, they won't fight for black women at that level when racial injustice happens and the system of white supremacy works against them

We are black before anything else. Alot of the new age misandrist black feminists just don't understand that

 

[Lemons]

Feminism
The biggest shell/con game known to man
The same white women screaming intersectionality/women’s rights/equality
Had black women raising their kids/cleaning their houses
Weekend activist
Meanwhile they escape back to their noninclusive suburban enclaves
While black women still face poverty and systemic policies that keep them from certain promotions at jobs and other institutions
Scream empowerment but vote every time against progression that could jeopardize/set up roadblocks for their child’s future
Convinced them in the “I can do bad by myself, I’m strong independent, don’t need no man”
Meanwhile white women out here marrying any man that tolerates them
Because they know they can’t do it by themselves and need protection/provision
But you can’t tell any of these hard head females this out here
Especially the free roaming femcels on this forum
You geek nikkas hype up

Black women don’t feel love anywhere. That’s what you keep missing. Yes there are a lot of black men who adore BW but there are many who delight in slandering BW and do so on a public platform. You think these constant “BM ain’t shyt” rants come from no where? These women are hurting and it shows. They don’t feel loved or appreciated so of course the next step is to fight for their own interest. And since so much anti-racism advocacy centers black men, many are choosing to fight elsewhere.

You think black women chose to be doing everything all by themselves all the time? When in human history has the female sex voluntarily chose to separate herself from the protection, provision, and assistance of the male? It’s unheard of. Black women adopted the “independent” mindset because they have had no choice. Look at the stats of the black man in America: incarceration, unemployment, education attainment etc where is the incentive for black women to submit and “go home” to these men? White women have the agency to fight and go home to their men because they literally can. They have a group of high earning men who WANT to marry them and in turn give their kids a better life. If black women were to wait for successful black men to marry them and start a family en masse, they’d be waiting forever.

BW put their money where their mouth is and time after time we see who is most loyal to the black community through advocacy, VOTING, and marching. Men like you are just upset because you want us muling for you 100% because you can’t do shyt by yourself.

 

[360dagod]

Just to provide further clarification and context I’m from The Bronx and we know how much Hispanic woman love black men (We are fetishized by all races even our own sister’s sometimes) but i be checking bytches that say nikka every 5 seconds or have subtle anti-black comments about black women and our culture


Alot of times the homies will let Spanish and Non-black women slide with saying suspect shyt because they wanna fukk them, this is what i mean about turning them off, for example one time my young boy (Currently doing 6 years) girlfriend (Puerto Rican) got into an argument with this black chick from the block and she started ranting about how she hated nappy headed black ass bytches and they stink etc... i checked shorty and reminded her that her boyfriend has a black mother and a black sister and I won’t tolerate her talking like that around me she apologized and corrected herself, from that incident nikkas started calling me Malcolm X on some corny joking shyt

You were totally correct in checking her...

You gotta lighten up about that malcom x shyt tho...you know its jokes

And that hanging on the block shyt is a no go..that's why they see you the way they do...
You can't be on the block talking that black power brotherman talk when you on the same level as them..

You gonna have to make some real moves out here and then shyt falls into place without you speaking

 

[3rdWorld]

What OP is saying, is that the Black community is largely non conscious, hence conscious men being lonely.

That is a sad indictment on the Black community. We are not all c00ns you know.

 

[Drip Bayless]

Breh talking to the lumpenproletariat about knowledge of self lol

from that incident nikkas started calling me Malcolm X on some corny joking shyt

Yep sounds about right

 

[UpAndComing]

@Dap Fishin @HARLEM AL @KingZimbabwe


Exactly bro Nipsey is the last person that actually tried was murdered in cold blood and kicked in his face


We are dying like dogs in the street whether it’s George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, Rashard Brooks, Elijah Mcccain etc. or


Pop Smoke, King Von, Mo3, FBG Duck, XXX, Nipsey Hussle etc.., were all brutally murdered on camera and we are desensitized to it

Everywhere we turn we are being murdered and turned into Hashtags and our black bodies are being commodified and they are enriching themselves of our deaths that’s why it’s frustrating because i see it on the news and see it in the hood my lil mans is in the Feds facing 20 years, my other homie Just got NATURAL LIFE, my other homie just took 6 years, my father came home last month after 20 years straight etc.. and when i mention these systematic issues that disproportionately affect black men I’m lambasted and labeled as a racist black supremacist lol

If we can't or unwilling to segregate economically from other races, we will never achieve salvation. NEVER

 

[UpAndComing]

The black family and black economics is what im all about now.. Without that, then the black race will be diluted away in due time..

I've come to the sad conclusion everyone is out for themselves in the community, because I 100% believe in my heart that black people can fix our own issues..

There you fukking go!!!!!

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The black family and black economics is what im all about now.. Without that, then the black race will be diluted away in due time..

I've come to the sad conclusion everyone is out for themselves in the community, because I 100% believe in my heart that black people can fix our own issues..

I agree 100%.

Which is also the reason I can't respect the vast majority of hoteps. If you (general) aren’t creating black business or wealth or a nuclear BF I just don't care how you (general) feel about racism or the state of the BC. If you (general) aren't apart of the solution you are part of the problem. People who constantly sit around and complain about racism without actively being apart of the solution are a wash to me. But honestly people who are active aren't sitting around complaining.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I agree 100%.

Which is also the reason I can't respect the vast majority of hoteps. If you (general) aren’t creating black business or wealth or a nuclear BF I just don't care how you (general) feel about racism or the state of the BC. If you (general) aren't apart of the solution you are part of the problem. People who constantly sit around and complain about racism without actively being apart of the solution are a wash to me. But honestly people who are active aren't sitting around complaining.

We can do anything we set our minds to in the black community.. But sadly competition and the desire to make oneself seem more than what they are has hurt us.. We all fcked up and up against the wall..

I'd gladly live a mediocre lifestyle for some community unification.. Black businesses, black schools..