Is This Man Correct About "Victim Blaming?"

[Poitier]

Use hyperbole when discussing statistics brehs

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Form follows function

 

[Poitier]

You could also make the argument that someone walking across the street is responsible for getting hit by a car simply for putting themselves knowingly in a dangerous situation.

In certain situations its a very valid argument i.e. walkers and bikers walking in front of incoming traffic (which is common in NYC)

 

[MikelArteta]

We can understand rape... if we choose to. Once we understand it, we can work to minimize it way better than through telling women to not be anywhere men are.


What % of rapes are avoidable? Cite sources.


Thanks for this, brother Scarf. Let me extrapolate some tips for our brehettes to not give the p*ssy away to rapists.

- Dig a tunnel from your house to 1 mile away from your house.
- Don't know or ever be alone with ANY man.
- Don't be home.
- Don't be in a parking garage.
- Don't exist between the hours of 6pm and 6 pm
- Dont be anywhere with alcohol- bars, parties, chemistry labs, grocery stores, pharmacies, sidewalks with drunk bums

Brehs, keep giving women a reason to be more careful

I hope this is helpful

be dumb brehs, just like anything in life you can lower the risk

eating healthy lowers risk of heart disease and cancer
make sure the man wears a condom and taking birth control lowers the risk of getting pregnant
doing good in school and choosing a good major lowers the risk of living in poverty in life

so why must stats that hsow that certain things that would lower the risk of rape be shunned

most rape victims know thier perpetator and a large segment of the time its a boyfriend or male friend, choose wisely who you associate with.


but go ahead chew up that slut walk feminist jargon

 

[The5thLetter]

In certain situations its a very valid argument i.e. walkers and bikers walking in front of incoming traffic (which is common in NYC)

or wearing all black at night while walking/riding

 

[MikelArteta]

You could also make the argument that someone walking across the street is responsible for getting hit by a car simply for putting themselves knowingly in a dangerous situation.

its the same if you drive through a intersection you are docked points on a driving test if you don't look both ways even if you have the right of way

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Forgive me if im wrong because I only glanced at the tweets...this man didnt really say anything along the line of "she deserved it" "brought it on herself". He's advocating being cautious from what I can judge. Although it did sound like he was arguing that a victim is responsible for being a victim in the latter tweets. I cant take this guy serious either way.

You could also make the argument that someone walking across the street is responsible for getting hit by a car simply for putting themselves knowingly in a dangerous situation.

See this is the problem, you guys want to ignore reality and come up with BS like this. Read my previous post man,

You don't think his point about staying safe instead of putting yourself in dangerous situations is valid?

If you had a son, wouldn't you educate him about how white people will view him? Especially if he grabs a hoodie and says he's walking to his friends house? At night time?

You guys are getting emotionally charged, leaping to women's defense, but there's no offense to defend, it's just common sense.

But to address that crossing the street point, i'd tell my kids to look both ways before crossing the street, and not to jaywalk if they can help it. "Obviously you don't want to increase the risk of getting hit by a car, or getting fukked with by some pig". And if they get hit by a car while not looking both ways, i'd say "I told your ass to look both ways, so why didn't you?"

Some of you guys have a real problem with accountability.

 

[MikelArteta]

i remember when that white dude who biked around the world got in a car with them 3 nikkaz and got killed folks were like hes so stupid how could he etc., but when a woman just meets a guy at a bar or a club and goes back to his place or wherever and gets raped its all :kony:

 

[Poitier]

I always thought learning and knowledge was to inform decision making but apparently not

 

[MikelArteta]

I always thought learning and knowledge was to inform decision making but apparently not

member that chick natalee holloway?

leave a bar drunk with 3 dudes you just met

 

[No_bammer_weed]

You don't think his point about staying safe instead of putting yourself in dangerous situations is valid?

If you had a son, wouldn't you educate him about how white people will view him? Especially if he grabs a hoodie and says he's walking to his friends house? At night time?

You guys are getting emotionally charged, leaping to women's defense, but there's no offense to defend, it's just common sense.

But this is false tho. Last I checked stripping is legal and quite lucrative in this country. So this nicca sits idly by as we, as a society, legally provide the social apparatus in financially encouraging women to strip, yet wants to judge a stripper when she gets murdered as if she had it coming? What kind of sht is that? If he feels that strongly about stripping, why doesnt his black ass get off twitter and hit the pavement, and try to influence lawmakers or the public about this profession that needs to be eradicated, because apparently its 'cause for justified homicide (oops, hes not blaming the victim) in his mind. If not he needs to K.I.M

Seems mighty small to throw dirt on someone's grave (what does her being a woman have to do with this? Its foul no matter the gender) rather than challenge the environment that produces these choices. He doesnt know her or her personal situation yet he feels fit to judge her life and death. Thats weak-minded.

 

[Drew Wonder]

You don't think his point about staying safe instead of putting yourself in dangerous situations is valid?

If you had a son, wouldn't you educate him about how white people will view him? Especially if he grabs a hoodie and says he's walking to his friends house? At night time?

You guys are getting emotionally charged, leaping to women's defense, but there's no offense to defend, it's just common sense.

This is true, it's a scary, fukked up world and people need to be aware of the situations that put them at risk, I have no problem with this mentality and that line of thinking and I don't view taking precautions or telling people you love and are close to to be cautious as victim blaming.

what I have an issue with is what people do after the fact. what people do after an unarmed black kid wearing a hoodie gets shot and killed, or a girl walking home by herself gets sexually assaulted. instead of addressing the person who committed the offense and the culture that helped perpetuate the mentality that it's okay to mess with a black kid just because he looks suspicious, or it's okay to feel like you're entitled to a woman's vagina just because she's attractive and your horny, they almost immediately jump towards the victim and what he or she could've done differently. they act like they're doing this in order to be "fair" and 'balanced" when in reality they're doing this because they feel uncomfortable that a member of their own group(ie. race, gender) committed a wrongdoing that's indicative of a bigger problem within their said group. it's intellectually dishonest and does nothing to solve the problem. that's victim blaming 101

there is always something a victim of a tragedy could've done differently to avoid his or her fate. but harping on that instead of focusing on the real issue, the perpetrator and the culture that gave the perpetrator the mentality to do what they did, completely misses the point

 

[Poitier]

what I have an issue with is what people do after the fact.

No disagreement here.

there is always something a victim of a tragedy could've done differently to avoid his or her fate.

Depends on how glaring it which is why

focusing on the real issue, the perpetrator and the culture that gave the perpetrator the mentality to do what they did, completely misses the point

Misses the point because both can be done in unison

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

be dumb brehs, just like anything in life you can lower the risk

eating healthy lowers risk of heart disease and cancer
make sure the man wears a condom and taking birth control lowers the risk of getting pregnant
doing good in school and choosing a good major lowers the risk of living in poverty in life

so why must stats that hsow that certain things that would lower the risk of rape be shunned

most rape victims know thier perpetator and a large segment of the time its a boyfriend or male friend, choose wisely who you associate with.


but go ahead chew up that slut walk feminist jargon

Ignore the elephant in the room brehs.

How can society help to stop producing rapists in the first place?

Wats more effective..... trying to avoid rapists, or rapists not existing in the first place

Naturally u choose the option that makes females responsible for male sociopathy

 

[Wild self]

I agree w/ those statements. It's not victim blaming imo. For example, a rapist will be a rapist regardless of how you dress, how late you're out, how drunk you are, etc (most of the time rape is about power rather than aesthetics anyway). but we'd be fools to think that there aren't some practices we can engage in to lessen the likelihood of it happening.

There is someone that gets it

*High 5*