It Appears Girl Code Is harmful to Women

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My reasoning for cutting a friend off is to avoid an awkward fukked situation. I go to my friends house, my husband have met my friends and their spouses. My husband not trying to meet some dude I use to mess with.

Like I said I wouldn’t be mad if it was me. If I’m not with somebody it’s for a reason and I’m not going back. Now if I divorce my husband, he is off limits. We got a kid together.
As if he hasn't done this already. SMH
 

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Never been in that type of situation. None of us have the same taste in men.

Her gf might have fukked him though and that could be the real reason she doesn’t want her dating him. :yeshrug:

I’m not sure how I would navigate something like that, would depend on the friendship and how much I liked the guy.
 

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"Girl code" but men will still be blamed for it, tho. The real "girl code" is more like "who ever has the penis is to blame" :smugdraper:
 

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Ha. Guess he's not such a 'nice guy' guy afterall - dipping in her pool of friends. Friends & Family are off limits.

I wouldn't want anything to do w/a dude who once pursued/was interested in my girlfriend: I would feel insulted.

Care to elaborate on the bolded?
 
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Ha. Guess he's not such a 'nice guy' guy afterall - dipping in her pool of friends. Friends & Family are off limits.

I wouldn't want anything to do w/a dude who once pursued/was interested in my girlfriend: I would feel insulted.



She didnt want him lady libra and he went to the next chick.

She selfish to try to police a situation of a man she didn't want.

Let the brotha eat women always hate and coochie block
 

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Ha. Guess he's not such a 'nice guy' guy afterall - dipping in her pool of friends. Friends & Family are off limits.

I wouldn't want anything to do w/a dude who once pursued/was interested in my girlfriend: I would feel insulted.
Maybe him being dumped for being a nice guy turned him savage.


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Ha. Guess he's not such a 'nice guy' guy afterall - dipping in her pool of friends. Friends & Family are off limits.

I wouldn't want anything to do w/a dude who once pursued/was interested in my girlfriend: I would feel insulted.
This is absolutel bullshyt because women will be friends with another women then be enemies with the same bytch a year later. Women have very little to no loyalties to one another, so expecting men to respect said "friendships" when women don't is hilarious.

And more often than not, its these "pool of friends" that will be the first to go after said man.
 

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As for the post, If she feeling the breh she should tell her girl to kick rocks and jump on the dikk. With that said i really should practice what i preach. I often have exes of my friends who are interested in me and i... i never pull the trigger. But i've often encouraged my friends to date my exes.

One of my good friends was dating my jumpoff from many years before. She and I used to smash in 2006-2007. Then u met him at a party and she met him that same night at the same party. He and I became cool and little did i know they had exchanged numbers. When i found out they were dating i didnt say anything but he knew that i knew her from before. After 2 years of seeing her he finally brough it up. At first i avoided the subject. Then one day as the relationship was on its last leg, they (he and our other homeboy) kinda cornered me so i was like "ok fine. yes She and I used to fukk. Are you happy? Is that all that you wanted to know? " he was like "i just wanted to know that is all"
They broke up maybe a few months after but it was falling apart way before i admitted it to him thus why he was telling us about it in the first place. But it's been years and he still smashes sometimes. She's hollered at me a few times too but i had no more interest in it
 

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This is absolutel bullshyt because women will be friends with another women then be enemies with the same bytch a year later. Women have very little to no loyalties to one another, so expecting men to respect said "friendships" when women don't is hilarious.

And more often than not, its these "pool of friends" that will be the first to go after said man.

Bruh stop it. There are millions of females out here. If a chicks dumps you and you looking to fukk with her family or friends, you aren't a nice guy. If a chick falls for the bullshyt, she isn't your family or a friend. Just stop it. You know and I know, there are lines you dont cross
 

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I'd give her permission and cut her off. She's a snake for even asking.
Why? I dont see the big deal. You didnt want the breh. But you feel like she shouldnt fukk him either? What kinda logic is that? Like if you loved him and he broke it off with you and she asked ...THEN i'd understand. But YOU are the one who didnt want him. Why cant she run with it?
 
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