Quit it.
You must be grimey & quite thirsty then.
It Appears Girl Code Is harmful to Women
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Quit it.
You must be grimey & quite thirsty then.
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Im not talking about myself dear, but if thats what you would like to assume, so be it.Quit it.
You must be grimey & quite thirsty then.
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In my experience, a nice guy is a catch all term that women use when a man has all the qualities that she's looking for but for whatever reason, she isn't attracted to him.
I could elaborate more but I won't
seabreeze80
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I completely understand this in terms of how someone thinking that of you would be insulting. What I do not understand is how that's betraying the friendship if she was straight up about what happened and asked for the green light before taking action, and what I do not understand is why the friend would think it's a betrayal.
Me personally, I'm of the opinion that it's on you to make yourself happy. And I don't think anything should be allowed to stand in the way of that pursuit. If the friend who is on theisn't actively putting the other friend on other cats ... how she feels about any of that is inconsequential, especially if she didn't want him like that.
Now, if they put time in, love was built, etc. then yeah, she gotta fall back. I don't think anything worthwhile was built to where other chick should have to fall back.
That said, friend should have caught the red flag as soon as the other chick was like, "Don't leave him. He's a good dude, give him a chance, etc." because USUALLY, if a woman is thinking about dropping a breh, her girlfriends will ride on that and probably talk about the other cat(s) they have lined up for her. What that tells me is that she had been eyeing him from the jump or at the very least, saw the potential to where she felt he'd be better off with somebody who would better appreciate him (like herself). She had been thought about it.
Boundaries.
There are some men that have the mentality - It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none.
Then you have men that wouldn't want their guy pursuing a chic if he hasn't sexed her yet. In his mind, she'll say yes 1 day.
Lastly, you have dudes w/the mentality - May the best man win.
You see, it takes all types.
I just like to keep things kosher & clear.
seabreeze80
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I don't believe the scenario in the op is real.
Personally, any friend who dates someone that I have previously been involved with is not a friend. That is automatic grounds for dismissal. As many other women have already said, she could date him but we would no longer be friends. Too much drama.
Personally, any friend who dates someone that I have previously been involved with is not a friend. That is automatic grounds for dismissal. As many other women have already said, she could date him but we would no longer be friends. Too much drama.
this is a term used by females for men they find undesirable usually going along with being too respectful or available.
the story in op states that the girl wanted a "tough guy" with an attitude not a "nice guy"
CreepyMcCreeperson
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With the shortage of good dating material, unless there was a marriage, child, or a relationship over a year, everyone is fair game.
VertigoKnight
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Basically she doesn't want her friend to be happy.
And wants ol boy in a backup position. When her lastest man inevitably bushes her.
And wants ol boy in a backup position. When her lastest man inevitably bushes her.
CreepyMcCreeperson
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This is usually a man who is nice, but they are not physically attracted to him.
Women aren't rejecting attractive men who are nice.
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you date dude for a month or so and he is not your type i.e too nice but your girl loves nice dudes but that is a no go because you didnt want him? you weren't in love and it wasn't a deep relationship so what is the deal other than you being a ego driven toxic female who lays claim to any dikk that takes you out to eat. let me reiterate YOU BARELY DATED DUDE AND YOU WEREN'T EVEN FEELING HIM WHY DO YOU NEED TO CLAIM HIM STILL?
this just goes to show you women never look out for anyone else happiness except thr own..
colicolicoli
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Yeah. I kept turning down a "nice guy" in HS...few years after highschool I walked out my room and he was sitting on my living RM couch with his mouth wide open asking me when I got back in town. My little sister started dating him.
I didn't care.
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It depends how the break up ends if the ex ends up being your worst enemy I wouldn't want my best friend to be with her for his own mental health and so that she doesn't talk shyt to my best friend about me
If it ended amicably but we decided we weren't right for each other and I moved on and got married I wouldn't care what my friend did with that ex.
Someone like breezy has a an unhealthy claim of ownership to his former significant other karreuche so where dudes who aren't his friends are being told to pull up even though he out there smashing other chicks and the relationship passed several years.
I'm surprised people can't move on if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be
If it ended amicably but we decided we weren't right for each other and I moved on and got married I wouldn't care what my friend did with that ex.
Someone like breezy has a an unhealthy claim of ownership to his former significant other karreuche so where dudes who aren't his friends are being told to pull up even though he out there smashing other chicks and the relationship passed several years.
I'm surprised people can't move on if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be
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Can some one explain to me why she doesn't want her friend daring a guy she didn't want in the first place?
