It Appears Girl Code Is harmful to Women

[Wiles]

This is usually a man who is nice, but they are not physically attracted to him.

Women aren't rejecting attractive men who are nice.

so this makes it even worst

the woman isn't even attracted to dude physically she does not have claim to him

but my point is still valid women use the term "nice guy" if he is too available and seems too into a chick that only likes aloof men "bad boy" who treat her like garbage. game matters alot more than looks


stop with all this bullshyt of women not rejecting nice dudes who are nice. they do it all the time and some of the brehs get hoes just have the I am too available vibe that may turn off some hoes who like aint shyt dudes that treat them how they feel less than ...

 

[MajesticLion]

The best part in all this is the boldfaced premise that there's a code.

 

[seabreeze80]

look another selfish women

you date dude for a month or so and he is not your type i.e too nice but your girl loves nice dudes but that is a no go because you didnt want him? you weren't in love and it wasn't a deep relationship so what is the deal other than you being a ego driven toxic female who lays claim to any dikk that takes you out to eat. let me reiterate YOU BARELY DATED DUDE AND YOU WEREN'T EVEN FEELING HIM WHY DO YOU NEED TO CLAIM HIM STILL?


this just goes to show you women never look out for anyone else happiness except thr own..

Its never this easy. There is always drama that comes with accepting a friend dating your ex. The guy never lets you forget and the friend will start to act suspicious and jealous for no reason.

I've experienced these types of situations so many times that I've lost count. The only difference is that no one in my circle has ever left a guy for him being "too nice." That lets me know that the scenario in the op is probably fake.

 

[Software]

Partner or not you fukk it up with a good chick and she on me I’m scooping. Ain’t too many good ones left. I will give notice though

You a snake with a scarcity mindset

 

[HarlemHottie]

Homegirl is a hater. Why block your friend's happiness when you don't even want the nikka?

 

[Wiles]

Its never this easy. There is always drama that comes with accepting a friend dating your ex. The guy never lets you forget and the friend will start to act suspicious and jealous for no reason.

I've experienced these types of situations so many times that I've lost count. The only difference is that no one in my circle has ever left a guy for him being "too nice." That lets me know that the scenario in the op is probably fake.

right so you just exposed that you run with a group of dusties that dont attract alot of men to get these types of situations. I understand, below average or fat girls need not apply to this topic

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Homegirl is a hater. Why block your friend's happiness when you don't even want the nikka?

Exactly. Responses to this thread shytting on the dude and the chick in the OP got me confused. Only reason to stay on a “code” is if it ended on bad terms or she still had feelings for him.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Homegirl is a hater. Why block your friend's happiness when you don't even want the nikka?

This

 

[5n0man]

Imo it's only a problem if they were in a serious long term relationship.

I wouldn't give a fukk if my homie started dating some girl I messed around with and didnt take seriously.

 

[5n0man]

Again, women do this all the time. Men should be criticized no more for it that we criticize women.

Family is whats off limits IMHO.

Truth.

Women have no problem running through their ex's whole circle of friends when the relationship ends, but will have a problem if her homegirl started messing with her ex.

 

[Ohene]

bytch ass nikkas do the same shyt tbh

meh, not if they broke up with the girl

 

[Originalman]

I say old guy should chuck the deuces up to her clown friend and date old dude.

Her friend the dummy that turns down nice dudes.

 

[yyy]

This sounds like something a dude would write. "She wanted a dude with more toughness and attitude?" Women don't speak like that lol. This is just your typical intel posing as a girl. Trying to troll on the topic "good guys finish last."

 

[FocusedDaily]

Nah, forget the reason, that shouldn't matter. If I bushed a chick cause we fell out, you bringing her around knowing she has beef with me is trash. I mean it happens in life, I fell out with a friend over the same thing in my young days.

Dude is my oldest friend, so of course we eventually got past it, but it took a couple months. The chick was scheming, but he was too caught up in it to care at the time. I swear, when he showed up to the function with the chick I dumped a month before, while I'm there with the chick I broke up with her for..
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It's just messy, smash her in secret cool, but don't be parading around with a chick that's currently got issues with me. Shoulda at least a got a heads up, off principle. if it it was just " some chick" i got at, then I wouldn't care, but If I dated her for a year and got aways cause she's a nutjob, don't come around w her.

 

[thekingsmen]

Ha. Guess he's not such a 'nice guy' guy afterall - dipping in her pool of friends. Friends & Family are off limits.

I wouldn't want anything to do w/a dude who once pursued/was interested in my girlfriend: I would feel insulted.

99% of the time people date in the pool of their friends. Just like people date people at work if they spend more than half they life there.

Let's be honest...