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Again, women do this all the time. Men should be criticized no more for it that we criticize women.
Family is whats off limits IMHO.
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Family is whats off limits IMHO.
You ever fukk with a female your guy was fukkin with? I haven't and wouldn't because of the drama it would cause
How many chicks you done fukked with that do this?
Why would she even care if she didn't want the dude? She doesn't own him. 
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fukk her and date the dude....that bullshyt off limits shyt only counts if the relationship was a strong one and lasted. She didn’t even like the nikka and as usual women logic applies only care when something she don’t want is wanted by someone else.
fukk that friendship and date the dude
fukk that friendship and date the dude
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I said she could date him. I just wouldn't speak to her anymore.
I don't want any friends that are comfortable with fukking someone I fukked.
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I've had a few homegirls brag about fukking they man's friend after they got cheated on. Especially in college.
Messy behavior all around no question but it happens.
Why would she even care if she didn't want the dude? She doesn't own him.
People catch feelings all the time. We are emotional beings.
You blind, how are you typing
It happens but it's the company you keep. Not saying I wouldn't be friends with people like that because I'm positive and nice. Labeling our women when it's not all is unproductive
I know of a nikka that use to mess with girl years ago trying to get with her friend now. You underestimate the thirst. He stopped trying my girl years ago when I told him I'd cut his hands off. Her friend laughs at him everytime
What if y'all never got that far? Would it change your perspective then?
Sure.
Let me preface this with - I have older bros, plenty of male relatives, & 2 childhood male best friends: I have seen some things go down w/their girlfriends, flings & conquests...
I've seen women compete, dirty mack, have no shame, backstab & be scandalous. And I've seen my fam & relatives use it all to their advantage. Friendships are burnt and they go on in hot pursuit of the next piece of tail.
I've seen my brothers selectively identify the type that would betray a friendship -
I am not that type of chic and would be insulted that a dude even thought he could pull that w/me.
[Only instance I would be ok w/a scenario like this is if I determined that I didn't want to go further than friends (this is an quick easy task for me as I have to be immediately attracted. Once I see a man as a platonic friend - I don't change my mind. Ever. It wouldn't take me an whole 2 months to figure out that I'm not feeling a man like that. Otherwise, it's not cool.]
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My guy is seeing a jumpoff I had years agoCouple months lol. If it was a couple years then that's off limits.
If my guy showed up to a function with my ex from years ago I'd
In this situation, seems cool. Shorty didn't want dude.
I only get this under certain circumstances. I can see an ex-WIFE or LONG-time SO, especially if the friend got dumped or cheated on. Friend could still have feelings, or the person is banned from the circle for foul behavior. But if the word you use for the relationship is "dating", nah, you're bein' selfish. If the friend cheated on or dumped the person, they should be fair game. Not sure why an unwanted mate would be off limits.
I only get this under certain circumstances. I can see an ex-WIFE or LONG-time SO, especially if the friend got dumped or cheated on. Friend could still have feelings, or the person is banned from the circle for foul behavior. But if the word you use for the relationship is "dating", nah, you're bein' selfish. If the friend cheated on or dumped the person, they should be fair game. Not sure why an unwanted mate would be off limits.
I completely understand this in terms of how someone thinking that of you would be insulting. What I do not understand is how that's betraying the friendship if she was straight up about what happened and asked for the green light before taking action, and what I do not understand is why the friend would think it's a betrayal.
Me personally, I'm of the opinion that it's on you to make yourself happy. And I don't think anything should be allowed to stand in the way of that pursuit. If the friend who is on the
isn't actively putting the other friend on other cats ... how she feels about any of that is inconsequential, especially if she didn't want him like that.Now, if they put time in, love was built, etc. then yeah, she gotta fall back. I don't think anything worthwhile was built to where other chick should have to fall back.
That said, friend should have caught the red flag as soon as the other chick was like, "Don't leave him. He's a good dude, give him a chance, etc." because USUALLY, if a woman is thinking about dropping a breh, her girlfriends will ride on that and probably talk about the other cat(s) they have lined up for her. What that tells me is that she had been eyeing him from the jump or at the very least, saw the potential to where she felt he'd be better off with somebody who would better appreciate him (like herself). She had been thought about it.