It Appears Girl Code Is harmful to Women

[Lady.Libra.]

I'm just saying if you're friend really liked a guy you dated in the past. You wouldn't support her because it would make you feel awkward? If you didn't want him what's the problem? You can't be this conceited.

Huh, what? How is there a correlation with one being conceited??? BTW, I'm far from conceited.

Nevermind...

Listen, people have different kinds of relationships/boundaries with their family & friends.
If you & your friends date in the same pool then do you.
Me & my friends/family don't do that. And we're not unique in that manner.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Huh, what? How is there a correlation with one being conceited??? BTW, I'm far from conceited.

Nevermind...

Listen, people have different kinds of relationships/boundaries with their family & friends.
If you & your friends date in the same pool then do you.
Me & my friends/family don't do that. And we're not unique in that manner.

I think for many of us that disagree, I imagine most don't see what was outlined in the OP as dating.
It literally sounds like they hung out various times, she wasn't feeling him so she opted out.
To me, that's not dating.
That's hanging out, to see if there's a real like there to build to actually dating that person.

This is silly for adults to really goose step around imo.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I know dudes who went through this.

Adam was dating Jenn for over a year (maybe 2).

Throughout their relationship, Adam's best friend, Pete became good friends with Jenn.

Jenn broke up with Adam because things weren't getting serious enough for her. They were exclusive, but she wanted marriage or at least to move in together.

Pete and Jenn keep hanging out. One day, Pete tells her that he has feelings for her. She feels the same way. Adam is upset about it and Pete stops being friends with him.

The people within the social group that think it's wrong...get cut off too. Even the ones who just asked Pete relatively innocent questions like, "Are you sure about this?" They too were cast aside and thrown in the bushes.

Pete and Jenn eventually get married. And they make a good couple.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Truth.

Women have no problem running through their ex's whole circle of friends when the relationship ends, but will have a problem if her homegirl started messing with her ex.

Damn. Has this happened to you before?

 

[director_of_bands]

peep the wording and spin from this broad
"my friend dated this guy" :tellmemorejimjones:
"we kept in touch and remained friends" :tellmemorejimjones:

she's full of sht speaking hoe babble :tellmemorejimjones:

 

[FishNGrits]

You're a liar.

If you & your crew swap/handoff without issues then knock yourself out.

Talk to some one for two months and they off limits

that’s such a shallow relationship how could you be possessive over that. Straight middle school status.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Talk to some one for two months and they off limits

that’s such a shallow relationship how could you be possessive over that. Straight middle school status.

How could you be that desperate...

(As a woman, I definitely wouldn't want to date you for 2 months then decide I want to kick it with your friend if we didn't work out. Trashy, imo.)

I don't know why this concept is so difficult to grasp.

 

[5n0man]

Damn. Has this happened to you before?

My baby moms got knocked up by someone I called a friend two months after we split.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

My baby moms got knocked up by someone I called a friend two months after we split.

Oh shyt. Wow. I’m sorry to hear that. Crazy. Is she still with that man? How is it navigating that, y’all both have children by her—that’s trifling asf. Damn.

 

[MajesticLion]

heh @ the keywords flying around thick and fast in here

 

[5n0man]

Oh shyt. Wow. I’m sorry to hear that. Crazy. Is she still with that man? How is it navigating that, y’all both have children by her—that’s trifling asf. Damn.

She was never in a relationship with him and they didn't get together after the baby.

They were just fukking and she didn't believe in abortions so she kept it. I haven't seen or spoken to dude since.

I try to stay cool with her to avoid child support.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

She was never in a relationship with him and they didn't get together after the baby.

They were just fukking and she didn't believe in abortions so she kept it. I haven't seen or spoken to dude since.

I try to stay cool with her to avoid child support.

Omg, breh. What?! Smh nvm.

 

[FishNGrits]

How could you be that desperate...

(As a woman, I definitely wouldn't want to date you for 2 months then decide I want to kick it with your friend if we didn't work out. Trashy, imo.)

I don't know why this concept is so difficult to grasp.

We just gotta agree to disagree. I don’t see how one could be possessive of some one you barely know. 2 months of dating doesn’t even warrant a break up. It was most likely a mutual fade if it didnt work.

2 months of dating I haven’t even told my family about you. That’s just some girl I’m talking to.

 

[seabreeze80]

right so you just exposed that you run with a group of dusties that dont attract alot of men to get these types of situations. I understand, below average or fat girls need not apply to this topic

I'm assuming you lack reading comprehension skills or you are really slow. What woman would reject a man for being "too nice?" I can think of many things to reject someone for but I only hear the "he's too nice" routine from online.

To bad, I can't relate to your insult. Tell yourself whatever you want about me. I'm still not changing my mind.

 

[5n0man]

Omg, breh. What?! Smh nvm.

I mean I keep it drama free considering everything the bytch has done to me. Nothing sexual.

I stay cool with her so she'd feel guilty about trying to take me to court like she did her other BD. She knows she fukked me over, but if I was a a$$hole to her like I should be, she wouldn't hesitate to pull that trigger.


My life is a mess.