By extracting resources from those same men that they are not attracted to.
What made a lot of women so pissed off is that the would-be simp dude of another generation, is now thoroughly educated on the hypergomous female nature and the superficial environment that is designed for 90% of men and women to lose.
And men use women for sex, and men waste women’s time by staying in a relationship for years claiming they want marriage, then bounce when she puts on pressure. This is why women have become so bitter. They opened their legs for the wrong men, and got played. (But it’s not like the men forced them)
Dating has become a game of who is going to get the most from whom, without getting played first. People put on a fake persona to impress the other person, then the truth comes out. Stop expecting women to take on a broke uneducated man, and build him up. We shouldn’t need our hands held to make it in life. And low key, a lot of men will build with one woman, then once they make it, have access to more attractive women, and want to experience a different level of women. Women letting men use their credit to form businesses, working for the man so he doesn’t have to hire someone, meanwhile, he’s off with the sidepiece.
Personally, I don’t have a problem with people wanting financial security, and we as men should never be content with a job that has no potential for growth. We should always be looking to better ourselves. And let’s face it, physical attraction matters. There is a physical element to relationships. It’s not just about feelings, and personality. Men and women need to be realistic about their appearance, but you can’t expect people to be turned on by someone they don’t find attractive. If you think that woman is going to remain faithful to a man just because he’s nice, and a provider, you’re delusional.
I never want to be single again.