It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

[BedRoomI'z]

That takes time though. I don't know what my thought process will be a day, a month, a year...etc from now. I try to convince myself to move on, but I just can't. You don't have 2 ids with a person, put a ring on her finger and just give up like that. I'm not content with the notion of her not being in my life.




I don't have the patience to start over



you passing judgment?

You right, that does take time. But you must realize that this person
was not meant for you. Think about it. Anybody that truly loves you
would not do anything to hurt you or bring drama into your life. Sometimes, we fall for and love people who don't even love themselves, so how in the
world do we expect them to love us? The key is to let them go, don't force them to be in something that they really don't want to be in.

Your only responsibility is raising your seeds and letting an adult be
an adult with or without you. Love goes both ways. It don't take no convincing.

 

[Sierra Mist]

I don't want to get back with you. I just wanna be cool with you again.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

I am honestly in total shock that someone would seriously sleep with their girl/boyfriend's brother or sister. Like . I honestly only saw stuff like that on Jerry Springer.

I don't know what to say other than it did and I wish it never happened. I'm suffering the consequences now.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

You right, that does take time. But you must realize that this person
was not meant for you. Think about it. Anybody that truly loves you
would not do anything to hurt you or bring drama into your life. Sometimes, we fall for and love people who don't even love themselves, so how in the
world do we expect them to love us? The key is to let them go, don't force them to be in something that they really don't want to be in.

Your only responsibility is raising your seeds and letting an adult be
an adult with or without you. Love goes both ways. It don't take no convincing.

to be honest, I actually brought the drama to her life and her family. I hear you though. The thing I can hang my hat on is that she's a wonderful mother just as I am a great father to my boys. The communication is there on both ends on that front, but anything other than that she don't want to be involved with anymore. All the drama I brought to her family and her father told me personally if I truly love her and my children, that I should make it work. She's more upset with the embarrassment I brought to her family and mine. I have to deal with that. If it makes me look like a lame like my friends and fam say then so be it....I'm a lame with a purpose of getting my family back.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I don't know what to say other than it did and I wish it never happened. I'm suffering the consequences now.

Wow

nikkas, man

Brawds, man

Just know it took another person to agree to that
I'm sure it wasn't all you. Man, people get killed over
shyt like this. Like six feet deep, no coming back

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

Wow

nikkas, man

Brawds, man

Just know it took another person to agree to that
I'm sure it wasn't all you. Man, people get killed over
shyt like this. Like six feet deep, no coming back

nah, you right. I put it all on me cus I knew better. I had a lil problem from that situation though.

Hell, my fiance broke it off with me...rightly so though.

I was on call at work for a company's network problems...she kept calling me. I ignored like 2 calls. So after the 3rd call, I picked up. She said we need to talk and I could tell she had me on a speaker phone. Anytime a woman talks calm and collective almost in a lecturing tone, 9/10 you messed up. She asked me (1) question....Did you fukk my sister? Of course, I didn't respond lol she asked me again and I said "we need to talk" that's the only thing I could say at that time. She asked me again. Then, I had no other choice but to answer. I could tell my coworker heard almost everything because that whole drive back to the office was silent. All kinds of things went through my head. I just remember calling her phone like 10 times and no answer. I'm young, so I got emotional lol not even going to lie. My kids went through my head, my father's so called lectures of me fukking up and proving him right went through my head. She called me back and said I better not come home. My name on the lease and I pay everything so fukk outta here. Then I hear ppl in the background, I'm like whoever got something to say can come holler. My pride was hurt cus I fukked up a good situation had to become defensive and take out my anger on someone else.

Her cousin was running his mouth, so he got on the phone. Told straight up doesn't have anything to do with you and he agreed but he tried to lecture me. Her brother gets on the phone and started to wolf. So I told him, I'll come to your block right now..whats up That turned out to be the dumbest move I've ever done b4. What started out as a fair one between me and him turned into some extra shyt. They jumped the shyt outta me. It was cool when the first 3 came but when another 7 came I was like wtf. I got away from my usain bolt speed. Hop a fence then I just collapse. Woke up in the hospital with like concussion, broken ribs, bruises and shyt. Moral of the story do right, treat these good woman as queens and don't let your pride set you up for failure.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Damn, Carter.....

Man. how could you get caught out there like that.
I don't know if I should curse you out or offer you a Lowertab, my nig.

This some big boy ass shyt. I don't think noone on here can really help you
out. Just know anything that's meant to be , will be. I hope you learned not
to play these kinda games anymore

 

[dtownreppin214]

fiances I can understand but you nikkas crying over lil girlfriends n shyt are some lame ass nikkas. man the fukk up. no woman out there wants a wimp.

 

[Oye]

I didn't cheat just got too comfortable and took my ex for granted. By the time I tried to correct it she for fed up and left me. For me it's been difficult because I did see myself starting a family with her and getting married. I learned my lesson in the end even if it's such a shytty outcome I accept my actions or lack of action are why I'm here now talking about what should have been. Thank God for the gym for keeping me sane.


5 and a half years + known her for almost 8.

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[The Mad Titan]

I messed up things with my ex fiance, true love and all..... No lie its ruff trying to bounce back. She was one of the best people I knew, nikkas be taking things for granted until its gone though...

Plus I in the back of my mind when things was on the rocks I was like they're way to many chicks out there to stress over her if it doesn't work out....




It just aint the same B.....


Looking back all I can do when I think about things is.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I messed up things with my ex fiance, true love and all..... No lie its ruff trying to bounce back. She was one of the best people I knew, nikkas be taking things for granted until its gone though...

Plus I in the back of my mind when things was on the rocks I was like they're way to many chicks out there to stress over her if it doesn't work out....




It just aint the same B.....


Looking back all I can do when I think about things is.

Why do yall get the point when it's too late?

Can yall get this when we still love you?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Unfortunately

Damn breh you fukked up for real by smashing her sister.

But we're all humans and shyt so... I will say that if you got TWO boys with her she aint going anywhere. 1. most women deep down will always want to make it work with the baby's father 2. her having two kids seriously diminishes her value in other guy's mind. at least for something serious.


If I were you I'd just chill.

 

[Oye]

Why do yall get the point when it's too late?

Can yall get this when we still love you?

Because of ego you never think she's going to leave.

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[The Mad Titan]

Why do yall get the point when it's too late?

Can yall get this when we still love you?

That real love relationship is different than the other stuff.... I really didn't know how to handle it to be 100.


I would try and treat it like its just another relationship and like it was the final one I'd be in at the same dang time.


plus I was still young and thangs.... the sad part is my ex still loves me but just got into a relationship with someone else she likes


She's the loyal type so she gonna give it 110% if the dude is smart I'm done...


Gonna have to take that L took me almost a year to be like patrice I just might have been part of the problem with us not working out at the time.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

you sure you love this girl or do you miss being loved by someone you like

the million dollar question