It's true, men and women can't be friends.

[#1 pick]

Well, to be fair, she is low key the jealous type. She'd friend all his female friends. I remember she friended me the minute I commented on his wall and I was like . I was insulting the dude on his wall like I always do.

If you attractive compared to her, every girl gonna feel some type of way about that if you love your man. Most women are low key jealous types. She seems like she might be high key

 

[froggle]

It was at that moment that I just know that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.

That's a lie. If they fat or ugly they can be thrown into the friendship pit with the quickness........................................................but there is always a rope ladder on standby in the case of a recession, head and a brown paper bag does not discriminate

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Why are you trying to be friends with dudes anyways? Like what's the purpose

 

[Ooh Marty]

The question is why would a wife/gf be jealous of a genuinely platonic relationship and why would a man indulge her irrational suspicious unless of course, he truly did have feelings for his female friends? I can understand getting rid/hiding your side pieces and but treating girls who are just friends like that? Nah.

I guess to protect their girl feelings

Personally I wouldn't let a male friend spend the night .....especially if he has a girl

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I have two female friends. One is single with two kids, but she's cool as hell.

And another one who's a lesbian.

 

[#1 pick]

Why are you trying to be friends with dudes anyways? Like what's the purpose

This? So much isn't mentioned but seeing her general interest and post history, I will chalk this up to lack of understanding the opposite sex.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Want to Smash or not smash, your friendship should go further than that.

The desire for physical companionship is stronger than the desire for friendship. Friends are cool but once you start to want to be with a person, that friendship goes out the window.

It's not even about the friendship being based on physical attraction. It's more about that physical attraction and desire overriding whatever benefit that having a friendship with a person would entail.

One exception would be your Day 1's, that you've been down with since childhood. People can overlook that at times. But if you are making new friends with persons of the opposite sex, then romantic feelings are bound to get in the way.

If you are truly looking to make platonic friends with people of the opposite sex, you choose those who you don't have much attraction to. If you are looking for friends with the possibility of more then you choose friends that you find attractive.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

You really don't understand men. It's killing your prospects on men too. You gotta learn men Elaine.

I didn't want any of them like that.....I honestly thought we were all just friends.

 

[#1 pick]

I didn't want any of them like that.....I honestly thought we were all just friends.

I don't doubt that part. That's clear. Idoubt you understand men. Some of this stuff should be common sense.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

Why are you trying to be friends with dudes anyways? Like what's the purpose

I don't. Most of my friends are women but I love sports and that's where I connect with many of these dudes.

And if you approach me, I will talk to you even if I'm not into you. Unless some dude is like, "Hey, you're beautiful; I wanna be with you." I'm not gonna think they are into me like that. I don't read into interactions and people's intentions but maybe I should.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

The question is why would a wife/gf be jealous of a genuinely platonic relationship and why would a man indulge her irrational suspicious unless of course, he truly did have feelings for his female friends? I can understand getting rid/hiding your side pieces and but treating girls who are just friends like that? Nah.

One silly guy said that he keeps women friends around to keep her on her toes. His woman is sweet as pie and loves the ground he walks on though. She is very young and he's 16 years older than her.

 

[ChiefQueen]

Why are you trying to be friends with dudes anyways? Like what's the purpose

I never understood it either. Every male friend that Ive ever had always tried to fukk. Nowadays, I go out of my way to befriend other women and ignore men because all of these guys just want one thing and when I make it clear that it isnt going to happen they get in their feelings.

 

[Larry Lambo]

The older you get, the lower chance of having a platonic friendship with a woman.

I'd love to have a girl in the crew, down for the cause. But it hasn't worked like that for years.

 

[#1 pick]

I don't. Most of my friends are women but I love sports and that's where I connect with many of these dudes.

And if you approach me, I will talk to you even if you I'm not into you. Unless some dude is like, "Hey, you're beautiful; I wanna be with you." I'm not gonna think they are into me like that. I don't read into interactions and people's intentions but maybe I should.

That's not good.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

I guess to protect their girl feelings

Personally I wouldn't let a male friend spend the night .....especially if he has a girl

He was always (and is) like a big brother to me. I didn't think it was a big deal.