It's true, men and women can't be friends.

[Ms. Elaine]

How would you feel if your man spent the night at another woman's house?

If he was upfront about it and I knew the chick well, nothing at all.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Married nikka shoulda booked a hotel or stayed wherever the fukk he was at

 

[ZEB WALTON]

never works. yea I got girls id consider friends but if u think I spend any type of serious time wit any female to be friends ya buggin. that aint how life work and the guys wit mad girl 'friends' are either gay or aint about it

 

[MikelArteta]

No such thing as a legit male friend just dudes who have smashed and dudes who want to smash

 

[Larry Lambo]

Your dynamic, unless otherwise happened, doesn't change that fact that you two are still platonic and he prolly appreciates your company. I have plenty of female friends i have no intentions of boning because i have no issue getting women in my everyday life approaching women (the last 5 women i bedded/got into relationships were those i met at bars/lounges/functions/network/work, etc.).

Relax... most people do have platonic relationships with the opposite sex. There's just levels to it and not every guy is trying to fukk every female friend, especially when his options are vast and varied.
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Truth here. Not every dude is a manwhore and wants to knock down every broad in site. I've had times where I was banging 7-7.5 type chicks but had female friends were in the 5-6 range. I really didn't need that a** from them because the chicks that I was dealing with were better.

I could go outside and see a million chicks that I don't want to bang. But that doesn't mean we can't be friends. It's a case by case basis, tho. If I feel the girl is attractive, I'm going to want them guts, no doubt. If she is mehh, then a friendship doesn't mean I am just some dude trying to get in her panties.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

In my experience, the best male/female friendships are when the guy is slightly better looking than the girl.

If the woman is at the same level or better looking than the guy, then he wants to smash.

If the guy is significantly richer/more interesting/higher status/better looking than the girl, then she wants to smash.

It's best for the guy to consider the girl borderline f**kable, but not worth the hassle to pursue sexually. The girl will think the guy is somewhat attractive but doesn't have to have him.

Fixed bregh... women look at a much broader range of attributes

 

[duncanthetall]

I used to feel that way but since I stopped looking at every chick I smash as a potential wifey or whatever, I just don't see how we can't be friends. Id say that I've got more close female friends at this point than male. Probably like 2 or 3 close male friends and maybe 5 close female friends. Yeah I've hooked up with some of them, but we all respect and care about each other more than just wanting to fukk. I can want to fukk a chick and still think her and her personality are dope. We can still have similar interests and play off each other well and have good conversations.

I'm sorry brehs but when you meet dope chicks who don't bullshyt or make up a fake persona and just express themselves, their interests, and their own personality honestly, I would usually rather kick it with them than nikkas. Rather look at them. Rather hear them laugh. I just enjoy being around females though. And I have platonic female friends where we've noticed a mutual attraction but that's all it is. Just because you're attracted to each other doesn't mean you have to fukk.

I haven't been in a relationship in a while though. Some chicks would frown upon being close to do many chicks. I don't think I would date that type of female though

 

[philmonroe]

Fixed bregh... women look at a much broader range of attributes

Not really when all things are equal like the case is most times when choosing between two dudes that she will run into. That makes sense if one has more money, status, or something like that but being real just like us most chicks are picking from dudes in their similar circle. The difference is between a dude with a new Maxima or a cat with a new Impala, living and making around the same amount. That's why its about looks more often than people think cause for the most part the people you (general) run into going to be on the same or close level to you where the other stuff isn't as much of a factor.

 

[Silkk]

I used to feel that way but since I stopped looking at every chick I smash as a potential wifey or whatever, I just don't see how we can't be friends. Id say that I've got more close female friends at this point than male. Probably like 2 or 3 close male friends and maybe 5 close female friends. Yeah I've hooked up with some of them, but we all respect and care about each other more than just wanting to fukk. I can want to fukk a chick and still think her and her personality are dope. We can still have similar interests and play off each other well and have good conversations.

I'm sorry brehs but when you meet dope chicks who don't bullshyt or make up a fake persona and just express themselves, their interests, and their own personality honestly, I would usually rather kick it with them than nikkas. Rather look at them. Rather hear them laugh. I just enjoy being around females though. And I have platonic female friends where we've noticed a mutual attraction but that's all it is. Just because you're attracted to each other doesn't mean you have to fukk.

I haven't been in a relationship in a while though. Some chicks would frown upon being close to do many chicks. I don't think I would date that type of female though

Then your point is invalid

 

[benjamin]

Why are you trying to be friends with dudes anyways? Like what's the purpose

exactly....this is exactly why she's single and most likely has no female friends or very few.

Women who cling to men for friendship are redflag types off gp...they usually have no female friends because they always give off this aura of "attention whore" or are always up in the womans mans face when she's present..women tend to X these type of clingy broads out the picture quick.

Focus on attracting the right type of man, not making friends with taken men..smh

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Congratulations. Welcome to the real world

 

[Ms. Elaine]

exactly....this is exactly why she's single and most likely has no female friends or very few.

Women who cling to men for friendship are redflag types off gp...they usually have no female friends because they always give off this aura of "attention whore" or are always up in the womans mans face when she's present..women tend to X these type of clingy broads out the picture quick.

Focus on attracting the right type of man, not making friends with taken men..smh

Do ya'll even read previous comments before posting?



No.

Most of my real friends are women and I'm not even that tight with these dudes -- we just connect on some surface shyt. And I'm not "trying" to be friends with anybody.

 

[benjamin]

No.

Most of my real friends are women and I'm not even that tight with these dudes -- we just connect on some surface shyt. And I'm not "trying" to be friends with anybody.

we just "connect" on the surface...see, you don't even know what you are saying...white folks have a word for broads like you..stage 5 clinger

nikka at the crib like "bytch quit texting me, my wife here

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Not really when all things are equal like the case is most times when choosing between two dudes that she will run into. That makes sense if one has more money, status, or something like that but being real just like us most chicks are picking from dudes in their similar circle. The difference is between a dude with a new Maxima or a cat with a new Impala, living and making around the same amount. That's why its about looks more often than people think cause for the most part the people you (general) run into going to be on the same or close level to you where the other stuff isn't as much of a factor.

Obviously if the only things different between dudes is how they look a woman will go with the more attractive one

But for the most part dudes don't give a fukk about a woman's finances or social status. Generally we are going for the kill

 

[benjamin]

if you a female and get put in the friend zone, your p*ssy wack off G.P, no proof needed, it's just wack.