It's true, men and women can't be friends.

[At30wecashout]

Its not that men and women can't be friends, but think logically: Why would two people who genuinely like to hang out with each other, who aren't the same gender, not give a shot
to some sort of sexual relationship?

For it to work, there has to be a million little reasons or one big one for it not to happen. Unless a lady is an absolute loser who looks like complete shyt(and even then....), why wouldn't
I want to smash in addition to all the other things we do? To not make the connection is to admit you are an idiot, straight up. Just avoid situations where friendship would be put to the
test and people will weed themselves out. Not everyone is meant to be Best Friends Forever, so when a dude leaves you alone when he gets a girl, just know that she offers more to
him than you did. And you should be ok with that.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

the truth is that men and women being together does form sexual tension. i think that's how we're designed. but we don't have to fukk everyone

 

[Sterling Archer]

Even if it did which honestly the vast majority of dudes on this steeze are on its not like you'd admit it anyway . I forgot to add maybe y'all dudes still super young like college age where that stuff can still happen somewhat. After college that isn't really the wave at all unless you a chump, gay, scarred to make a move, etc more often than not. Most dudes ain't like I see this attractive girl let me just become friends with her even though she has qualities I'd like in a girlfriend (if single obviously). That's sounds good flow to me but do you I'm not trying to stop it just commenting on what is the more likely scenario.

I will agree that its more often than not, how you said it was. Just not enough to be a general rule I think. I might not look it but I'm 32 and when I was in college, it was even more the case. I played ball, was in the industry and traveled alot after I got hurt so I met ALOT of people (women) and I was single. As well as I was doing, there was just no way I could fukk EVERY attractive woman that I could, ALL the time. I wasnt messy so there were times where women that were queued up, never came to fruition but while queued, I still got to know them and became cool/close.

Edit:
I was about to pull up a post of mine from an older thread where I was discussing this topic with someone and then realized, that post was being discussed with you back then as well.

 

[Mowgli]

I remember a long time ago this weirdo who has trying to unsuccessfully get in my pants at the time was like, "I hope you know ***** wants to fukk you, right? All guys are like this. They are only friends with girls they want to fukk."

I gave him the and told him to .


But years, I couldn't help but wonder if maybe he was right.


1) I've noticed that some guys will straight up act like complete a$$holes to their female friends as soon as they are getting some ass on a consistent basis on some bird get a girlfriend.

2) And actually, I've noticed that most of my "male friends" disappear once they get into serious relationships. Hm.

3) The married ones aren't safe either. I had known this dude for long while and we'd been friends through some long term relationships and we continued to be friends after he got married and had kids (he's a bit older than me). We'd text a lot, mainly about sports and I'd sell him old laptops and iPads of mine that I didn't need. Seemed pretty harmless to me.

Anyway, he ended up coming to my city and he didn't have a place to stay and so I hooked him up. Nothing happened. He took the bed and I took the couch since I was working late that night.

Anyway after he left, he sent me a text like, "Don't post anything on FB about me being there; my wife doesn't know I came to visit." And I was like, .


It was at that moment that I just knew that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.

Female friends creates drama with your wife so it's better to cut them off then to lose a possible love connection. Restrict things to Facebook likes.

You can be friends but it's part time.

What man wants some dude calling his house like

Yo may I speak to ms elaine. fukk outta here with all that he's a friend
shyt.

Enjoy it while it last or just admit you can be friends who hold each other down sexually when youre single or when his main bytch is trippin

 

[#1 pick]

I'm automatically not interested in any dude that's in a relationship and I assume most other women are like that as well. And most of these chicks have either met me or have interacted with me, they know my deal.

Still, spending a night tho.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Its not that men and women can't be friends, but think logically: Why would two people who genuinely like to hang out with each other, who aren't the same gender, not give a shot
to some sort of sexual relationship?

For it to work, there has to be a million little reasons or one big one for it not to happen. Unless a lady is an absolute loser who looks like complete shyt(and even then....), why wouldn't
I want to smash in addition to all the other things we do? To not make the connection is to admit you are an idiot, straight up. Just avoid situations where friendship would be put to the
test and people will weed themselves out. Not everyone is meant to be Best Friends Forever, so when a dude leaves you alone when he gets a girl, just know that she offers more to
him than you did. And you should be ok with that.

 

[#1 pick]

I'm interested....whats the deal with Howard chicks? I've heard this before but I've not had any direct experience with them.

Professional driven. More sexual then most women. Accomplished. Smart and can hold a conversation for the most part.

The bad. Don't understand men. Lack womanly traits, not good for relationships but great for relations

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

You like him, huh?
You thought about posting "such and such over here" in an "innocent" manner to attract her attention and he nipped it in the bud.
I know what y'all be doing. You like having a lil power.

 

[philmonroe]

I will agree that its more often than not, how you said it was. Just not enough to be a general rule I think. I might not look it but I'm 32 and when I was in college, it was even more the case. I played ball, was in the industry and traveled alot after I got hurt so I met ALOT of people (women) and I was single. As well as I was doing, there was just no way I could fukk EVERY attractive woman that I could, ALL the time. I wasnt messy so there were times where women that were queued up, never came to fruition but while queued, I still got to know them and became cool/close.

Edit:
I was about to pull up a post of mine from an older thread where I was discussing this topic with someone and then realized, that post was being discussed with you back then as well.

With bold I think its enough to be general rule. Outside of online don't really see dudes with "girl" friends like that outside of a few cases that I mentioned earlier. I have "girl" friends but they are all old ass friends I just don't look at like that, girls a dude I know has been with, go out buddies (don't really consider that friends) or something like that. As far as my actual if something go down friends majority of them are guys outside the few girls I knew from when I was younger and don't look at like that.

I agree you can't fukk all the girls but being "friends" with them like I am with my mainly guy friends cause I can't fukk them ain't working either. Chances are we don't have the same hobbies that would make me want to spend time with you anyway. That's why I think its mostly bullshyt. I'm into mainly guy stuff like sports, sneakers, weightlifting. Now at times if its tv shows and the like ok but like I said the main stuff most girls aren't into that. I will say we have to define friends cause I think most times people could be on the same page but how they define friend has them disagreeing.

 

[#1 pick]

I will agree that its more often than not, how you said it was. Just not enough to be a general rule I think. I might not look it but I'm 32 and when I was in college, it was even more the case. I played ball, was in the industry and traveled alot after I got hurt so I met ALOT of people (women) and I was single. As well as I was doing, there was just no way I could fukk EVERY attractive woman that I could, ALL the time. I wasnt messy so there were times where women that were queued up, never came to fruition but while queued, I still got to know them and became cool/close.

Edit:
I was about to pull up a post of mine from an older thread where I was discussing this topic with someone and then realized, that post was being discussed with you back then as well.

Unless you want L's, every women you come in contact with can't be fukked if you got someone or you just grinding. It's not good

 

[philmonroe]

the truth is that men and women being together does form sexual tension. i think that's how we're designed. but we don't have to fukk everyone

You not making much sense my man. You just said that's how we designed which I agree with but then saying the captain obvious statement after that. Who said we have to fukk everyone? People are just saying the truth which is if the chick is attractive you are going to most likely want to fukk which is different than what you said.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

Still, spending a night tho.

He lives in Texas, he was in the Northeast to visit his mom and was heading there the next morning. Plus, my apartment* was pretty dope.



* thanks Mom and Dad.

 

[Elle Driver]

What would be the point of hooking a married man up with a place to stay?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I remember a long time ago this weirdo who has trying to unsuccessfully get in my pants at the time was like, "I hope you know ***** wants to fukk you, right? All guys are like this. They are only friends with girls they want to fukk."

I gave him the and told him to .


But years, I couldn't help but wonder if maybe he was right.


1) I've noticed that some guys will straight up act like complete a$$holes to their female friends as soon as they are getting some ass on a consistent basis on some bird get a girlfriend.

2) And actually, I've noticed that most of my "male friends" disappear once they get into serious relationships. Hm.

3) The married ones aren't safe either. I had known this dude for long while and we'd been friends through some long term relationships and we continued to be friends after he got married and had kids (he's a bit older than me). We'd text a lot, mainly about sports and I'd sell him old laptops and iPads of mine that I didn't need. Seemed pretty harmless to me.

Anyway, he ended up coming to my city and he didn't have a place to stay and so I hooked him up. Nothing happened. He took the bed and I took the couch since I was working late that night.

Anyway after he left, he sent me a text like, "Don't post anything on FB about me being there; my wife doesn't know I came to visit." And I was like, .


It was at that moment that I just knew that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.

The married one was platonic... He just didn't want to hear his wife's mouth about staying with another woman that probably looks better than her

And those dudes who disappear are doing themselves the same favor. I don't do it but if your dude was still hanging out with a chicks after you guys had been together I gurarantee you would be a lil salty.

It's the dudes that hear about it from their girls... Not you


But I agree... Most men and women can't be CLOSE friends. It's not impossible, just less likely than you women try to make it seem.

The ones that act like a$$holes after getting a chick really did just want to fukk... Or they weren't trying to be friend zoned like you wanted them to be

 

[The Guru]

This is true. You can try to be a friend to a woman, decide to keep it platonic but it still won't work. Female friends are far too selfish. shyt's always about their issues. Plus, if a male friend asks me for advice, he gets the advice from me truthful but with respect. A female friend just wants you to say she's right/victim no matter how wrong she is.