It's true, men and women can't be friends.

[Mac Brown]

You gotta lot to learn. Being direct has to be tactful or a nikka can easily game you if he's attractive to you.

Understanding men is hard as hell for women like understanding women is for us. Most of us get it with experience and learning but that don't seem to be the case for a number of women and then they realize it when they get older. They get male friends who don't put them on game and their dating life is like going around a race car track. Constant loops and no end game.

My worry with you is bigger. You don't understand men even at a basic level. shyt like this should be elementary. So I would start there. The relationship shyt is scary tho. You might be on them Howard chicks I've dated level where it's like you just need to go back to the drawing board period.

I'm interested....whats the deal with Howard chicks? I've heard this before but I've not had any direct experience with them.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

we just "connect" on the surface...see, you don't even know what you are saying...white folks have a word for broads like you..stage 5 clinger

nikka at the crib like "bytch quit texting me, my wife here

K, a lot of people would say different. I'm low key pretty cold and distant in real life despite being friendly. And if you'd bothered to read my posts in the thread, you'd know I'm not interested in any of these dudes sexually/romantically. And for the record, I rarely if ever initiate texts and there are times when I don't even bother to respond.

And yes, we do "connect" on some surface shyt....i.e. talking about sports and shyt.


Don't project your bullshyt onto me.

 

[HandsomeBrute]

 

[benjamin]

LOL she outside this nikka house in the bushes like

 

[philmonroe]

Obviously if the only things different between dudes is how they look a woman will go with the more attractive one

But for the most part dudes don't give a fukk about a woman's finances or social status. Generally we are going for the kill

In my quote I was only talking about girls since that's what your post was speaking on. I guess I missed something but I agree with the dudes part.

 

[Sterling Archer]

The question is why would a wife/gf be jealous of a genuinely platonic relationship and why would a man indulge her irrational suspicious unless of course, he truly did have feelings for his female friends? I can understand getting rid/hiding your side pieces and but treating girls who are just friends like that? Nah.

Be a woman and act like you don't know why women think the shyt they do brehettes. :stopitkobe:

 

[philmonroe]

I used to feel that way but since I stopped looking at every chick I smash as a potential wifey or whatever, I just don't see how we can't be friends. Id say that I've got more close female friends at this point than male. Probably like 2 or 3 close male friends and maybe 5 close female friends. Yeah I've hooked up with some of them, but we all respect and care about each other more than just wanting to fukk. I can want to fukk a chick and still think her and her personality are dope. We can still have similar interests and play off each other well and have good conversations.

I'm sorry brehs but when you meet dope chicks who don't bullshyt or make up a fake persona and just express themselves, their interests, and their own personality honestly, I would usually rather kick it with them than nikkas. Rather look at them. Rather hear them laugh. I just enjoy being around females though. And I have platonic female friends where we've noticed a mutual attraction but that's all it is. Just because you're attracted to each other doesn't mean you have to fukk.

I haven't been in a relationship in a while though. Some chicks would frown upon being close to do many chicks. I don't think I would date that type of female though

This shyt you kicking sounds goods but you sound more like a nikka high off that scarred to take action life and or these chicks ugly or something.

 

[karim]

The question is why would a wife/gf be jealous of a genuinely platonic relationship and why would a man indulge her irrational suspicious unless of course, he truly did have feelings for his female friends? I can understand getting rid/hiding your side pieces and but treating girls who are just friends like that? Nah.

you're a woman, you know the answer. don't make this shyt his fault. negged.

 

[Sterling Archer]

This shyt you kicking sounds goods but you sound more like a nikka high off that scarred to take action life and or these chicks ugly or something.

I agree with dude and none of what you just said applies to me.

 

[Remote]

OP's avi too cute to have all them negs.

Who are you, really?

 

[Ms. Elaine]

Be a woman and act like you don't know why women think the shyt they do brehettes. :stopitkobe:

I'm automatically not interested in any dude that's in a relationship and I assume most other women are like that as well. And most of these chicks have either met me or have interacted with me, they know my deal.

 

[MikeyC]

Unless you're a butch/tomboy type lesbian, It's not possible.

 

[Ms. Elaine]

OP's avi too cute to have all them negs.

Who are you, really?

Maybe I should post a time stamped picture soon...

 

[Xtraz2]

The question is why would a wife/gf be jealous of a genuinely platonic relationship and why would a man indulge her irrational suspicious unless of course, he truly did have feelings for his female friends? I can understand getting rid/hiding your side pieces and but treating girls who are just friends like that? Nah.

He wuznt feeling you, get over it.

 

[philmonroe]

I agree with dude and none of what you just said applies to me.

Even if it did which honestly the vast majority of dudes on this steeze are on its not like you'd admit it anyway . I forgot to add maybe y'all dudes still super young like college age where that stuff can still happen somewhat. After college that isn't really the wave at all unless you a chump, gay, scarred to make a move, etc more often than not. Most dudes ain't like I see this attractive girl let me just become friends with her even though she has qualities I'd like in a girlfriend (if single obviously). That's sounds good flow to me but do you I'm not trying to stop it just commenting on what is the more likely scenario.