I've come to the conclusion that I hate being in relationships

[Apollo Creed]

That Rona got nikkas got nikkas going through it and questioning their relationships. I already have 2 friends who filed for divorce in the last 2-3 months (15+ year marriages).

lmfao wow

 

[Coco Loco]

I have no fear of commitment, I just don't want it.

I knew she wanted to get married and have kids before she moved.
She knew I didn't want to get married and have kids before she moved.

She moved anyway.

How did I miss this? This relationship was doomed from the start. Why on earth would you start something serious with her when y'all have totally opposite life goals? If a man tells me he doesn't have the same life goals, I'm not wasting my time or his. Both of y'all should have recognized this is a person I like and can kick it with but that's it. "She moved anyway" means she sees you as "her person" aka wants to marry you. No woman is doing that if she doesn't.

WOW. You're gonna have to be real with her and understand that she may hate you for the rest of your life but you're unhappy and sparing her feelings for yours. This break up is inevitable you're just prolonging it.

 

[GhettoTeK]

The process of gaining happiness in relationship is a transfer. They take some of your happiness and add it to theirs.

And they don’t even have basic human interaction etiquette. They act suffocating, smothering, and annoying and as a man your supposed just accept it. Their adults and once they like you it never crosses their mind to be pleasant company. Also gotta call text and annoy you all damn day.

shyt is a low pay, heavy hours job.

Yall dragging the fukk out this shyt. Get with one like yourself, simple. I never in a day of my life got clingy with dudes. I respect space and personal down time. Its cool if I get with a dude who doesn't need me and I don't need him I dont expect much from people no way. Not being melodramatic

Everything must be balanced with oneself

 

[GhettoTeK]

How did I miss this? This relationship was doomed from the start. Why on earth would you start something serious with her when y'all have totally opposite life goals? If a man tells me he doesn't have the same life goals, I'm not wasting my time or his. Both of y'all should have recognized this is a person I like and can kick it with but that's it. "She moved anyway" means she sees you as "her person" aka wants to marry you. No woman is doing that if she doesn't.

WOW. You're gonna have to be real with her and understand that she may hate you for the rest of your life but you're unhappy and sparing her feelings for yours. This break up is inevitable you're just prolonging it.

Ol bytch ass wanna be "hoh" nikka. Thats goofy shyt, I'm hitting the road jack on a mf who isn't compatible

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

The hell

Did @BaldingSoHard just become an incel right in front of our very eyes?

No he became GMB there's a difference

how can you be an incel if you getting some

 

[Coco Loco]

Ol bytch ass wanna be "hoh" nikka. Thats goofy shyt, I'm hitting the road jack on a mf who isn't compatible

Yeah it's wild to me how people go into relationships EXPECTING things to work with incompatible people. WTF and WHY??? Idk if it's solely the physical attraction/sex or what but some mfers aren't worth the headache after the nut. I love my stress free life too much to try to fit a square peg into a circle on the daily. That sounds like pure fukking hell.

 

[Ya?]

Yeah it's wild to me how people go into relationships EXPECTING things to work with incompatible people. WTF and WHY??? Idk if it's solely the physical attraction/sex or what but some mfers aren't worth the headache after the nut. I love my stress free life too much to try to fit a square peg into a round circle on the daily. That sounds like pure fukking hell.

Because these dudes don’t want women that mirror themselves.

men want women to need them so they can complain to their boys how annoying she is. Everytime a guy complains about a woman’s clinginess it’s always because he chose this person knowing full well the other persons expectations. I guess coli is running out of topics.

Case closed.

 

[paperbag]

If I could pull the plug and cause her no pain, I absolutely would.

She's going to be in more pain when she has to get ivf with her real man cause you wasted all her eggs. Please print out an eviction notice and hand it to her today. If you have any positive feelings for her, break up now. This is cruel as fukk. You're 40, you're a man

 

[Ya?]

If I could pull the plug and cause her no pain, I absolutely would.

Stay single man and break up with her. I can’t believe you are a 40 year old still acting like a teenager.

 

[Ya?]

Wrong.

The secret to a lasting relationship is communication.

Disagree.

Was with my ex for 11 years.

Had, maybe... 5 real arguments in that whole time.

Was a great relationship, honestly.

I've ended all but one relationship that I've been in.

In most cases, nobody was "at fault", I just got tired of the endless responsibilities and obligations of a relationship.

In all the rest, it was her fault.

There would be no point. I'm not really the type of dude who wants to be in a relationship anyway, and a girl cheating would be my ticket to walk without guilt.

take your own advice and be indefinitely single and stop wasting women’s time. Unless you need the material to go plat on the coli.

 

[Dabrothawithnoname]

I still have no clue why people try to do relationships...
It ain't going to work.

Trust me... it ain't gonna work

It's pretty obvious why most men can't live without "relationships".

-Consistent in house/on tap coochie
-Social validation
-Split bills
-Homecooked meals
-Place to stay

I notice how men online love bringing up their gf/wife in random topics or remind
people they have a sex life.

Society heavily promotes dating,marrying
and procreating.

Its everywhere from TV to Internet ads.

One of main insults directed towards men in 2020 is "Incel".

That's why so many men are so thirsty and desperate.

They take anything they can get because they dont want to be looked at as "undesirable" and "single".

Yes humans are hardwired to reproduce
and have companionship but there really
is a negative stigma attached to singles
and men dont want people looking at
them as sexless losers.

 

[Ya?]

It's pretty obvious why most men can't live without "relationships".

-Consistent in house/on tap coochie
-Social validation
-Split bills
-Homecooked meals
-Place to stay

I notice how men online love bringing up their gf/wife in random topics or remind
people they have a sex life.

Society heavily promotes dating,marrying
and procreating.

Its everywhere from TV to Internet ads.

One of main insults directed towards men in 2020 is "Incel".

That's why so many men are so thirsty and desperate.

They take anything they can get because they dont want to be. looked at as "undesirable" and "single".

Yes humans are hardwired to reproduce
and have companionship but there really
is a negative stigma attached to singles
and men dont want people looking at
them as sexless losers.

the coli told me this only applies to women

it’s clear as day these thread topics are done by guy to flex on other men who can’t get a girl to save their lives or get a plat thread. Cause I don’t know how OP hates relationships but stays getting one longer than some people’s marriages.
You don’t usually see people getting burnt, putting their hand back in the fire.

 

[mag357]

It's pretty obvious why most men can't live without "relationships".

-Consistent in house/on tap coochie
-Social validation
-Split bills
-Homecooked meals
-Place to stay

I notice how men online love bringing up their gf/wife in random topics or remind
people they have a sex life.

Society heavily promotes dating,marrying
and procreating.

Its everywhere from TV to Internet ads.

One of main insults directed towards men in 2020 is "Incel".

That's why so many men are so thirsty and desperate.

They take anything they can get because they dont want to be. looked at as "undesirable" and "single".

Yes humans are hardwired to reproduce
and have companionship but there really
is a negative stigma attached to singles
and men dont want people looking at
them as sexless losers.

I feel alil different about it ..

I dnt think people see guys not in relationships as sexless Loser....
It's more or less the stigma of seeming "unsettled".

Being married or having a girlfriend, is what people consider "settled".... smh

I tell people all the time... I'm the most settled muthafuka you know.

I ain't jumpin in and out of relationships, breaking up and making up .. trying to have 2 cell phones.

2 social media accounts ... lol

These nikkaz with wives and girlfriends are so unsettled, it isnt even funny.
They always chasing p*ssy cause they're stuck with 1 p*ssy.

I'm laying around reading my book. Eating some Ritz crackers and sipping wine lol

These nikkaz arguing with wifey why he ain't been answering his phone for the last 2 hours

 

[Entropy Fan]

Because these dudes don’t want women that mirror themselves.

men want women to need them so they can complain to their boys how annoying she is. Everytime a guy complains about a woman’s clinginess it’s always because he chose this person knowing full well the other persons expectations. I guess coli is running out of topics.

Case closed.

Or maybe women are just naturally clingy when they really like a breh. Damn your not even skimping with the bird babble

 

[humminbird]

Hmm
A conundrum
I’ve realized that I’m like a cat
I need love but only in small increments
Then I might want a different girl and experience
Basically I want a harem I can turn on and off