I've had 2 of my closest friends tell me how they feel UNFULFILLED in Life.

[RTF]

I’m not tryna brag but I honestly can’t relate... there’s a lot of things I’ve wanted or wanted to do since I was a child and they’re starting to happen for me at the young age of 31. My life is just beginning.

what are those things?

 

[OG Talk]

Are you saying every parent is happy because they have a purpose?

No.

Im saying happiness and purpose are two different things.

I don’t understand the concept of having children yet still feeling that you have no purpose.

 

[Balla]

I figure most of these nikkas is between 30-40.

40 is still young enough to trick yourself into thinking your career and trinkets will always fulfill you, as long as you can still go out and play when you feel like it.

When you 60, looking at retirement, living in a big, empty, quiet house, surrounded by all the shyt you’ve collected over the years that no longer brings you any joy, you’re too old to move around and dating life is non existent, that’s when reality gone set in for some of these nikkas and I feel sorry for them.

Are you team GMB or team have a family?

 

[Savvir]

2 handsome and smart sons
run my own business
friends are all entrepreneurs
great reputation in the city
meet interesting and influential people everyday

I feel great...
would feel great even if I was dead broke....
people need to figure out their path and who they want to "be"

 

[Frida Giezman]

Me and @8WON6 didnt mean any harm when we had this discussion with you.

Was hoping it was gonna be a private offline discussion but it’s whatever.

You have potential, we believe in you at the end of the day and we both think you will figure it out

 

[Balla]

Y’all nikkas talk about age and kids so much I might just get a bytch pregnant and have y’all pay for my child support and alimony if things go wrong God forbid.

 

[Mr swag]

So I get to thinking about my own life, in my late 30s, no kids, no wife, my career is going good. I guess I feel unfulfilled too, but it doesn't bother me because I've always had low expectations. It's not a bad thing because I do work somewhat hard and very wisely and I was be happy with the outcome. Honestly my expectations were so low and feel like I've overachieved. I think people get depressed because they don't feel like they're doing some special. But a majority of humans are just regular everyday people.


How do yall deal with feelings of unfulfillment and not really having a purpose?

grass isn’t always greener

 

[Asicz]

risk of unfuillment is from what ive seen from a prominent psychologist is related to lack of intimate partner or someone to love, and not having children l. especially for those who are otherwise satisfied in terms of a career/jo.b
and
fron philosophy teacher lack of fullmilimbet is related to hsving a life not coneecyed to a cause of substance( social cause/activism/economic cause etc)

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Y’all nikkas talk about age and kids so much I might just get a bytch pregnant and have y’all pay for my child support and alimony if things go wrong God forbid.

These nikkas just misguided and reaching at anything, need a positive father figure in their life

 

[Asicz]

wild how so many people aren't taught early on the CONDITIONS of how to be fulfilled.

A partner
a social cause to be involved in
Children relationship into old age

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

my kids give me
a purpose outside of myself

 

[Taadow]

No.

Im saying happiness and purpose are two different things.

I don’t understand the concept of having children yet still feeling that you have no purpose.

Okay, that’s fair...but when OP is talmbat his boys feeling “unfulfilled”
I get the impression that they don’t just not have a purpose, but that they want to be happy.

...as a matter of fact, I would venture to say that everybody seeking “purpose” is seeking to be happy.

So if having children doesn’t always make people happy (and it doesn’t), maybe that isn’t
end all be all remedy here.

 

[tuckgod]

Are you team GMB or team have a family?

Family

 

[OG Talk]

Black women don’t want to be under anyone’s leadership but themselves.

.

My life experience has showed me the opposite.

 

[TRUEST]

Y’all nikkas talk about age and kids so much I might just get a bytch pregnant and have y’all pay for my child support and alimony if things go wrong God forbid.

@tuckdog can y’all n1ggas vow to pay child support for all them other n1ggas yall trying to convince to have kids??? It’s only right.